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writes: eurgh cant break up with the boyfriend from hell!!! I really need help! im 16 and have never really had that much luck with boyfriends. My friends totaly over took me...im not repulsive or anyhting just a little picky and didnt want a boy-for-a-day relationships that all my friends seemed to be having. But htat all changed 2 months ago when i started going out with a good friend.hes so sweet and kind but recently thats all changed. He never wants to go anywhere, he never listens about my day...alll he does is moan about how unhappy he is, If i ever say anyhtign to him he just grunts a response them bring the conversation back to him. Hes really embarassing when were out because he does little voices wiht he thinks are cute but actualy just make me cringe!i could get over all this because im not perfect myself...but sexualy hes strating to push me. Coming hme in the car the other day i was holding his hand in the back which i thought was really sweet and nice until he started ramming one finger through the hole in my fist and simulating sex...it made em sick...he never takes me anywhere aprt form up to his room. And gets annoyed when i wont sleep with him. Im scared to break up with him because his family is so scary and domineering....please pelase help!!!! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2006): Hi, Dont be scard to break up with him your well within your rights your a Girl of 16, your not engaged to him!
your suposed to be his girlfriend not his Nanny (which it sounds like he needs) If things are not working out you need to let him know Speak to him about this he could have Depression but dont let that make you feel gulity and make you stay with him I did this once a big mistake
Because he might take it out on you and make a perfectly content girl Sad like him, fortunetly I realised this on time and took a much needed break from the relationship Dated other guys for a bit, had fun with my Friends!
This made me happier and made him realise what he was doing
But Im not saying do this maybe you do Just need a Clean Break especially if hes controling over sex dont be in situations like his bedroom alone with him he sounds very stange and messed up at the moment your too young to have this on your sholders but I'll leave it with you Take care, Ditzy blonde Chick
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