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writes: I was forced to 'touch up' my babysitter when I was about 10, and in a competely unrelated incident my Dad was sent to prison for sexual harrasment towards girls as young as 11 when I was younger (he never touched me in that way, but I had a lot of social workers etc. probing into my life and making me very aware of sexual acts when I was only about 7 years old). I'm trying to work out if I'm normal or if this stuff has screwed with me, what signs of 'being screwed up' should I be looking for? The only thing I can think of that I find is probably abnormal is I occassionally have sexual dreams in which I'm not in any control of what's going on (for example, a few years ago I dreamt about a guy at school touching my breasts, and was disgusted by him for weeks afterwards. More recently, and please don't take this as a joke because it was very frightening, I dreamt that Donald Duck was trying to anally rape me)
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reader, maxsteel86 +, writes (13 November 2006):
What Juls said is so true... The only way you'll know if these experiences has affected you is with a professional
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reader, Juls +, writes (13 November 2006):
Everyone has wet dreams from time to time, there's no problem here. However, it's not the kind of topic you can solve with an agony aunt. You need professional help if you're not confident about yourself, someone who can see the situation better.
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