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writes: I have been talking to this guy over the Internet for the past two years. We've become very good friends spending 4-8 hrs per day together on chat/cam. This past summer her almost died in a car accident and after that decided to meet in real life to see what would happen...something we've wanted for a while but just never did. We've spent 5 weekend (Fri night-Sun evening) together now and it's all great still! We have cyber sex but have never had sex in real life yet. But we're constantly touching and cuddling and he's always mentioning me like I'll be in his life "forever"...like "we're not married yet" etc. He says to me that I'm the most special person he's met in forever and he doesn't want to loose me. This past weekend, however, we were in bed cuddling and flirting (second night actually in my bed since he's slept on the couch all the other times he's been over) and he tells me all of the sudden that he's confused and not sure how far he wants things to go. We spend all day Sunday talking and crying with nothing really settled except that he's confused and not sure why he's putting on the breaks. He says, and has always been very obvious about, caring about me for more than friends. I'm so confused right now and not sure what to do. He's back home (2 hrs away from me) thinking about why he's acting like this so he can, in his own words, "Be happy and get on with his life." cause he says he presently HATES his job, school, etc.Any advice? Thoughts? Confused :\
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reader, Orchidpixie +, writes (20 November 2006):
Orchidpixie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell...he's taken a week to THINK about his apprehension and he assures me it's not ME but just an issue with him which he doesn't understand or know why it's causing problems.
We've gone through a laundry list of why's but nothing happens...
He still wants to come around and us be friends, at least for now. :\
Still confused.
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