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writes: my boyfriend slept with me best friend and i was drunk and so i said yes it was fin but i left that night and she stayed there with him and two other friends and the next morning she left and he confessed to me that they hade sex and other incounters and so i kicked him out ,but only out of rage and i dont talk to my friend anymore and he is gone living somewhere fare but he still e-mails me what should i do i feel so alone should i ask him back or should i just be friends or nothing at all
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): It was wrong of your boyfriend and so-called best friend to sleep together. You may have 'given them permission' to sleep together but look at it from another point of view - if your boyfriend wants to sleep with other people then he obviously isn't satisfied with you alone. (No disrespect meant at all). If he could do that to you then he's not worth worrying about. Go out there and find yourself a decent man who will want you and you alone. You can be happy without this loser in your life!
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reader, Jinxes +, writes (20 November 2006):
Yuck! Your boyfriend and bestfriend together? other encounters? with the other two, too? ish...hell no...sorry. Live a sober life. You don't need the alcohol.
You definitely don't need either one. Let them both go. This guy may expect you to be a push over whenever you get drunk. Might happen again. As for your bestfriend...i don't know...it depends on how long you were friends and such...sounds like she needs help. Learn self respect. Get on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): You must go through this lonely time but life will pick up. Get a new bf and new friend and don't let either of them back into your life. They are just not worth it. both of sh*ts. Joins some clubs and get out there. Forget this worthless pair. Certainly don't have them back in your life.
Take care
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reader, Yos  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 That sounds horrible. Why did you say 'fine' when it's clearly not fine? You can't expect people to treat you better if you don't stand up for yourself. Monogomy is important in a relationship, insist on it and don't let anyone else convince you otherwise.
This boyfriend clearly doesn't care for you, and neither by the sounds of it does your 'friend'. I suggest you don't have any more to do with them and find some people who care about you to hang out with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Give up drinking, or give up boyfriends.
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