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writes: hi i'm a virgin and dont have much luck with girls and am woried that if a wait too long it will be awkward as my partner would most likely have alot more experience in the bedroom than me and i would feel lost any advice is welcome thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2008): Hey.. Dont Bee Worried. I Think Girls Prefer A Man Without Experience.. Its Nothing Too Lose Sleep Over. When You Find Your Soul Mate You Wont Be Worried About How Much Experience They've Had. If The Person Really Is Bothered By Your Lack Of Experience Then Dont Be Worried. Just Wait For The Right Girl To Come Along.
Lauren x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2007): it doesn't matter what your sexual experience is.
As long as you can read her body language (ie. can dance with her) and you listen, read a few books to learn where the essentials are and understand that underneath her nether regions is bone so be gentle, you'll be just fine.
Just don't go into it with any expectations other then to have fun and relax and enjoy yourself.
I waited a long time before I lost my virginity and I've never had any complaints (the first guy (my boyfriend at the time) didn't even believe me because I was comfortable in my own skin)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): Seriously i can sympathise, i don't know how old you are but i only just lost it and i'm 20, but the guy i lost it too was almost as inexperianced(possibly just as inexperianced) but it was fine it just wasn't a prob, find some one you feel comfortable with, i figure it doesn't have to be perfect just not terrible
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 Ive had sex with men who have had sexual partners before and I have had sex with Virgins... and I must say the guy who was a virgin was great in bed. Obviously the frist time he was a little scared but it was special. The guys with the most sexual experience i have slept with was quite awful in bed... so it really makes no difference. Lots of times guys can get overconfident about there skills in the bedroom and it ruins the whole thing. Don't worry about it. It's better to have sex when it happens don't force it, and wait for the right person it will be that much better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2006): You assume too much. First, not every person out there whom have had sexual experiences are good at sex. Second, are you already making yourself set on finding someone who is sexually experienced 'that way' when you do find someone in the future? Third, if you really REALLY want to lose your virginity, just grab anyone willing and do it.
Here's some opinion: losing your virginity is not nearly as satisfying as having damn great sex. Sure, damn great sex takes some practice for some, and a bit of experience, but of the people I know, some of them has had a lot of sex, but never a damn great sex experience. [wink]
Suggestion: you have nothing to lose to wait it out until you're comfortable with someone you like/want and vice versa. Better yet, for those who attach heavy emotions to their love making, it's better to actually love your partner when you're having sex with her.
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