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writes: I'm a virgin and haven't even make out yet. I have a girlfriend who skipped first base and went straight for 2nd and 3rd when she was drunk. We were talking about the past and she told me about the time when she hit 3rd and she sort of described to me what had happened. Just yesterday she told me she hit 2nd with the 3rd. I'm pretty pissed at the fact that she didn't tell me that she hit both 2nd and 3rd at the sametime. Is it right for me to get mad? I thought she prude and she never did anything but I'm am truly disappointed at her. I can't say I love her but I really truly sincerly like her a lot. I don't know what to do with her. She said she never had a first kiss. In her car we were about to kiss and like i tried opening my mouth and she didn't know what to do. She would giggle and like laugh. Its sort of cute but man is it awkward. Any tips anyone? I'm 17 by the way.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (13 November 2006):
 You are probably upset because you are a virgin and you hoped she would be too. Now you are in a situation where your girlfriend has more sexual experience than you... not only is this a bit intimidating (and you have to measure up against the previous guy), but it probably reminds you that you'd like to have reached 3rd base yourself already and haven't.
These things will be VERY hard to admit to yourself.
Having said that there is nothing wrong with getting mad. These situations do bring up very powerful feelings and feelings are not 'wrong'. The best thing you can do is tell your girlfriend how you feel without making it about her, or accusing her of anything, or making her feel bad. Share your feelings and let her share hers with you, in a positive way.
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reader, HONEST JULIE +, writes (13 November 2006):
 you don't have the right to be pissed as it was before she met you and maybe she told you cause she didn't want to keep secrets, maybe she has faln inlove with you thats why she told you
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