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Archived questions from: 9 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We slept together, but now I have stronger feelings for him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years because I wanted to sleep with my good friend who i used to work with and have had strong feelings for years. My friend told me he felt the same way so one thing lead to another and we slept together. He said that he wanted to kee... (112 words)

My husband is a neanderthal! He thinks that sex is for a man's pleasure only... Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6706 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Is it concered a crime to want love returned ? my husband thinks it is good enought that he climaxes during sex and he thinks i should just be happy because he cums any so what if i dont plz tell me if this is a good sign in our marriage.he thinks sex is for men only....help... (59 words)

How does a 25 year old virgin get a girlfriend? Advice is appreciated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - This is also a 25 year old virgin question. I don't seem to have a problem talking to girls, I have kissed 2 girls since puberty (although 1 a barely remember thanks to lots of beer). I've been on a few dates as well, never a 2nd date mind you. I do realise that 12 years of an ... (84 words)

Help..he wants to spend more time with his mates and it's making me feel insecure!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6626 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Help me i have become an insecure possessive girlfriend. In the last few weeks my boyfriend has admitted he wants to spend more time with his mates as he has fun with them and he loves going to his footie matches and watching his local team play on sundays. But b4 he used t... (180 words)

He's 34-I'm 16..he wants to take me out for my birthday...provided I give him my virginity!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6451 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - i really like this guy i work with he's 34 im 16. he's always flirting with me and has offered to take me out for my birthday as long he can take my virginity. i really want him too, but im worried about what people might say. he makes me feel so good about myself. i also thi... (90 words)

My man has no ambition... None at all. Should I rethink?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I've recently met a guy who I've got on with very well and I know he wants us to become a couple. I like him very much, we have a lot in common, and we get on great. However, he works in a very low-paid job, and has no enthusiasm to progress beyond this. He's had this attitude ... (169 words)

I cheated and slept with a guy... Now he's fallen in love with me and I'm scared he'll tell my boyfriend if I end it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have a boyfriend of 2 years. About 3 months ago I met another guy through a friend, and because I knew that he was interested in me. One evening I met him out and, because I was drunk, I ended up sleeping with him. That was 2 months ago now, and we've carried on see... (161 words)

Should I give the woman who divoced her husband for me, some space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6190 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - I dated a woman off and on for a couple of years and we split and she married. Recently I called off my engagemnt and she immediately wanted to divorce him. We have been together for the past 7 months and things are going great, but now she is having some regrets about the way ... (111 words)

My husband's porn viewing has affected his performance in bed! How can I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6889 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Is it normal for me to feel compleatly jealous because my husband looks at porn? I have always known he is not attracted to white girls(which I am) and that he prefers latino girls. I KNOW that he loves me, but he downloads only latino porn. I feel I cant satisfy his needs. R... (171 words)

Can't orgasm during intercourse, only "manual"... Any tips?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I am a 25 yr old girl and i've recently began a new relationship. We have had sex but I find and have found in past relationships that I cannot climax during intercourse and only have an orgaism if my boyfriend stimulates me manually or I do it myself. A a resutl I don't ... (84 words)

My wife is bi and wants to be with women..alone and without me! I'm upset so what should I tell her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Just to give you an idea of who I am. I am 30 years old and married to my high school sweetheart. We have been together for 13 years. She is bisexual, I have known this since we have been together and we have had a threesome when we were young. Now, years later, she just wants ... (106 words)

I'm so insecure because of past relationships. I can't believe my boyfriend only loves me and won't cheat!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I have had a lot of bad relationships in the past where I have been cheated on and lied to constantly. Me and my current boyfriend have been together for 6 months. I love him so much but I feel VERY insecure due to past relationships and it is wrecking my life! I have had ... (146 words)

We love each other and have a strong relationship, but family and friends just don't want us to be together!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hey, I have been going out with my BF for a long time now and we love each other very much and are love is very strong but it is very hard to maintain our relationship because there are a lot of problems not exactly to do with us but with mainly family and also friends.... (118 words)

Could implants fix my post-baby sagging boob problem?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - hi, I recently had a baby and my boobs shrank and got a bit saggy. They are not too bad. I've seen women with worse but because they are also quite small now, I don't like the way I look when I wear a top that you can't wear a bra with, so I've decided to have implants... (205 words)

He tells me I'm making him miserable and he never spends any time with me. Is it me, or have things run their course?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years, at one time we had the perfect relationship that everyone wonted you could see the love thst we once shared it was perfect some where it went wrong I dont know what has happened to us I would like to get some advice is it me is ... (332 words)

It was a little lie about his age, but it's shaken my trust in him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend lied to me about his age for 4 months. He told me he was 34 when he is really 36. A month before we were going to move in together he decided to tell me about his little white lie. I am only 23, so he said he was afraid if he told me the truth he would lose me. ... (162 words)

I think the love we have for each other would be enough to get him over the guilt of leaving his marriage for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - We are both married and very much in love with one another. He's been married for 31 years and I, for 29. I am ready to leave my marriage for him. It hurts to be without him. He has been a people pleaser all his life and is a reformed alcoholic, and he would feel very much ... (115 words)

My guy wants to join the Air Force, but I worry about him changing into someone I feel I don't know!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I am really confused and do not know what to do. My boyfriend and me have been friends for 5 years and been dating for almost a year. He wants to join the airforce and I really do not know what to do. I do not want him to leave because I do not know if I could handle b... (192 words)

I thought I'd been dumped by my BF, but I was determined to have a good time out anyway. Did I do wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (?) - Ok I guess I just need someone to tell me if I'm thinking completely crazy about this or if I'm just being made to think I'm crazy. I was on holiday with my boyfriend for two weeks with his parents and his best friend and his family. While on holiday he was getting ratty wi... (355 words)

We let the attraction get the better of us and slept together, but he's already married, and now things are uncomfortable between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hi there! I want somebody I can't have! I have been flirting over emails with a guy at work for a few weeks and a couple of weeks ago we let the tension get the better of us and slept together. Now I know it was wrong and I'm sorry but couldn't help it. The terrible thin... (135 words)

My girlfriend and I are in a comfort zone, but a new girl has just entered the picture. How to choose?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6913 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - I'm a 20 year old male who's been in a relationship with my 17 year old g/f for about two full years now. Things in our relationship have always been pretty well but lately it just seems that we've been having trouble communicating. She has admitted to me that I've been her... (328 words)

Something seems to be missing from my life! I just don't know what it is...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F)

- I need some advice, I'm unhappy but I don't know why!! I have a loving family, great friends, fantastic boyfriend, lovely car and house, I'm studying the subject I love (law) at university and I like my job. I've always had a very high standard of living thanks to my fam... (132 words)

How do I get over him, when I don't want to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship for 5 and a half years. We lived together for approx. 4 years. During this time we had loads of argument and he asked me to leave a few times. Now he asked me to leave in December and I left but I just cannot get over him. Can you tell m... (124 words)

23 years between us. Could it work out if we really love each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

9 January 2006 (F)

- Do you think that a 23 year age difference is ok?? I'm 17 and he's 40, and he says that he really loves me, and while I don't think I love him yet (we've only known each other a few months) I do really care about him and can't stop thinking about him. We haven't done anything ... (180 words)

How do we stop arguing??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - how can I STOP ARGUING WITH MY WIFE AND GET RELATIONSHIP ON TRACK... (13 words)

I want to be more independent...any ideas??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - How do I get to be more independent? I don't like being dependent on anyone and at the weekend, my boyfriend threatened to leave me stranded somewhere. I wouldn't have been able to get home and I was very upset. I ended up begging him and it was quite humiliating. He doesn't ... (163 words)

His colleagues get messages but he says he is too busy for mine...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I'm so so so so annoyed, I make the effort to call or send a text message to make my man smile thru out da day, or so he says, and he is too busy for me, and too busy to call me, says he cant use the phone at work, but his friends men, and women, get called from his work, and i ... (177 words)

If you are married, do you still need your parents??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Do adults still need their parents love and support once they're married and have kids? My daughter recently got married and is pregnant. Am I still needed in her life? We have a pretty close relationship, but I can't help but feel as if I'm going to be replaced by the husband ... (93 words)

I made a mistake but can I go back with her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - I recently broke up with my soul mate, and went back to my estranged wife and children - after nearly 4 years. Big mistake as I did it for the kids and not for myself. My partner understandably does not want anything to do with me and says the relationship we had is finished. ... (90 words)

I am seeing both of them and I don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - help me!I am in love with two brothers. I use to date the older brother for about a year, i was really in love with him, but he wasnt ready to settle for me. so when i found out the younger brother had a thing for me i was quite surprised. i gave up on the older brother and ... (143 words)

Can you love someone who is nice but you aren't really attracted to??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

9 January 2006 (?) - Hi all, just a short questin and I really hope I can get as much feedback as possible. Thanks. My question is, do you think its possible to love someone or make a relationship last when your attraction towards the other person is very low or near zero, but he/she is very very ... (62 words)

Is he gay? Anyone know??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Hi I have a really silly question, I even doubt that It will be posted, but I'd like to know, is Darren Hayes from Savage Garden gay? Thanks... (29 words)

Can you love someone when you aren't sure you like them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - is it possible to love some1 more than anything when you aren't even sure if u like them in the first place?... (22 words)

That date was a total disaster. He was rude, cold and self-centred... or am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F)

- I went on a blind date the other day and it turned out to be a disaster. The lady that set me up is a co-worker and she told me that he was a great catch, a really nice guy with his own business. She said that he asked her at a New Years party if there were any cute girls from ... (285 words)

I want to make sure that my foreskin will retract without discomfort. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (?) - Hi, My foreskin doesn't retreact easily and I'm pulling it back til' it hurts and washing it with warm water every day. How long will it take to be loosened the length needed? If I stop this for say, a week, will the skin tighten again? Thank you... (48 words)

Girls won't take me seriously as "boyfriend material". What am I doing wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - I am a 16 year old guy and I'm having trouble with girls just liking me as a friend. It seems like each time I really like a girl and I tell her, she says she just couldn't go out or do anything with me because I seem more like a friend, or a brother. Am I being to much of ... (76 words)

Advice on how to get my girl back, after she left for another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6605 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - I'm 15. I just had my first gf and she broke up because she met an old friend she liked and they where kissing. I realy loved her. I can't get over her and I want her back. What should I do? ... (42 words)

My married lover loves me too. What do we do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6922 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I am a married woman in love with a married man. Our feelings are mutual. His wife is very controlling; she wears the pants! I am in love for the first time with this guy, it's driving me crazy. What should I do?... (43 words)

Am I doomed to fall for my ex's same old garbage again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who I thought was my "soul mate" (if that indeed exists). He has called me and text messaged me relentlessly for the last two days. What he says and what I think are two different things. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he ... (84 words)

My divorce comes through in a month and I'm starting to feel deeply for my friend, but my husband wants to work things out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - After 8 years of marriage and a 3 year old daughter, my husband out of the "hell he was living in". After 5 straight days in bed crying, he came into the bedroom and told me to get up and get on with my life. I did just that. That same evening a friend that I had been wor... (262 words)

Six months ago, I could see being with her forever, but now everything feels forced...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. At first everything was so amazing, and spontaneous. We have been through a few rough times together but lately she seems almost depressed. Me and her are both seventeen, and she is going through a lot of rough... (130 words)

What made her change so suddenly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6922 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Here's a quick summary. Me and my girlfriend, both 24, were dating; pretty hot and heavy, then out of the blue she says that she doesn't want to lose me, but she's not ready for a relationship. We no longer contact each other and when we see each other on the street we act ... (123 words)

I meet girls, like them, then can't help obsessing about them... How can I break out of this!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6922 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm 22 and have never had a serious relationship. I think i've found a girl i like and i end up obsessing, thinking constantly about her, but never do anything about it. I'm really like this girl who i've known now for a few months and become good friends with. I ... (206 words)

Is there such a thing as relationship Karma?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5054 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Is there such a thing as relationship Karma - I would love to hear anyone's stories and experiences with this. I had a boyfriend who lied, cheated, made me believe everything was my fault, dumped me and within a few weeks is dating someone else seriously. It hurts that I... (161 words)

What's the deal with my ex? He loves me one day, hates me the next!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6922 days ago

9 January 2006 (F)

- I don't understand men... they are so hard to figure out. I was dating a guy for 2 months and he decided to try and tell me that he cheated on me with a girl that he said 2 weeks ago wasn't real. Keep in mind he said this after I broke it off with him. I'm not sure how to a... (127 words)

My man blames *me* for his problems keeping hard!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 3 months. He's 50 and I'm 45. He has been divorced for a year after 23 years of marriage. He can't keep his erection for penetration and sometimes loses it even while I'm giving him head. I've had plenty of partners and NEVER any complaints. ... (300 words)

Back together now, but it hurts me to think of my partner with other people while we were split up...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (F) - Please i need advice on how to forget. I have got back with my partner after we split from a longterm relationship of about 4 yrs. But someone come between us because they were jealous of what we had. Then the two of them slept together while we were apart. even though that ... (160 words)

Is it worth perservering with the girl down the street?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6922 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - hi i'm 17, and i've known this girl who lives down my street for about 4 years now. I've always liked her, but never did anything about it. I thought that maybe getting to know her brother (that is the same age my brother) would help me get closer to the girl, but it didn't r... (120 words)

Sex a couple of times a year, no affection, and he blows up at the slightest thing I do. Should I dump him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

9 January 2006 (?) - I have been with my 39 yr old bf for 3 yrs. He is so unaffectionate and I am complete opposite. I care about him but when I try to talk to him about this he acts concerned, but his actions always remain the same. Sex 4 times a year, no hand holding or even sitting next to ... (133 words)

I'm a guy, 21, and me and my fiancee are stuck in a rut. She never shows me any affection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

9 January 2006 (M) - My fiancee and me are stuck in a rut. We have been together for 3 years and we have never really been ok for the majority, its nothing like it used to be. I know all about the honey moon period and all that stuff... but still i'm really confused!! The problems after a... (267 words)