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writes: I just recently broke up with my boyfriend who I thought was my "soul mate" (if that indeed exists). He has called me and text messaged me relentlessly for the last two days. What he says and what I think are two different things. I have tried to talk to him about it, but he has a story for everything. I love him very much and feel like I am falling for the garbage all over again. Any ideas?
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (9 January 2006):
 No, you're not doomed to fall for the same old crap again, if you keep reminding yourself that you find it hard to believe what he says, and that it seems like he's always making up a story for everything.
If you get back together with him, then he's just going to repeat the same old patterns of fabricating lies and creating stories. Do you really want to be with someone that you can't trust? I don't think so.
It's time to move on, my dear.
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 January 2006):
Sweetiepie! that reason you broke up hasnt changed so if you get back with your ex, it will surface again and leave you just as used/abused and devastated.
Let go and move onto someone new and exciting because once a relationship is over, it seldom regains the old magic.You will always be riddled with doubt and insecurity about him.
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reader, lu lu +, writes (9 January 2006):
you both need to sit down and talk, make sure he listens to what you have got to say, set some rules for the relationship and tell him he has to stick to them, and he has to be truthful with everything, if he loves you as much as he says he does he will make it work, but in the end it is up to you. good luck
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