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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We argue. Sometimes we don't even know why we do...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5362 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I argue all the time..and sometimes we don't even know why. We are very different, and have very different opinions. One of us ends up getting mad and then there is always tension between us. But we love each other very much and we have such a special ... (55 words)

He cheated several times and he lies about his past. Should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I have just found out my bf of a year has cheated on me several times! He admitted it after I asked and asked. Also he constantly lies about his past relationships. I think he doesn't understand how bad his behaviour is. Should I forgive him?... (48 words)

Is it crazy to love a man who drinks and has multiple other problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My fiance and I recently seperated from each other due to his drinking problems and multiple problems that have spawned from them. He acknowledges that he has a problem. I am madly in love with him, and despite his willingness to speak to anyone on the subject I know he loves ... (63 words)

Suggest some good books for kids about the facts of life? I want my daughter to be able to ask me questions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6920 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My 5 year old daughter has started asking me about how she got in my belly and if I had my legs spread. Yeah a 5 year old is asking me this. Kinda crazy isn't it? I'm at a loss for words and I would very much like some advice. I told her that mommy and daddy loved each other- ... (94 words)

My mooching boyfriend doesn't pay his share!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend does not like to work. Not even to help me. He works enough to pay HIS bills. A year ago, he gave me an idea to buy a bigger car, he would help with the payment. I did. He started driving my old car, without actuallly asking, he said he was going to borrow it ... (191 words)

I'm afraid to give my ex another chance, in case he's still abusive to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My ex fiance and I have a 17 month old duaghter who I have custody of. My ex is the love of my life and I broke up with him when I was three months pregnant. He was what I consider to be verbally and emotionally abusive. When I left him he refused to have anything to do with my ... (252 words)

He's totally lost interest in sex and I can't understand it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I was just wondering why a healthy, recently married male who always wants sex has suddenly not been interested. There is no medical problems, he is not taking any medications, is not away from home except for work and works in a all male environment, so I don't suspect ... (126 words)

I could handle bouts of depression before, but this time it's worse. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Sup Readers, Just turned a teenager and as I'm a girl obviously I have developed quicker so hormones have kicked in quite soon. Well the thing is I'm feeling depressed. I have a little before but I didn't tell anyone and I helped myself get better, but this time it's worse an... (88 words)

I want to register with an adult dating site. Are they a rip off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6915 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Am i asking for trouble if i register with a an 'adult' dating site? Are they a rip-off?... (18 words)

A big fight with my girlfriend means I can't talk to her...what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - I have fallen completely in love with my girlfriend and she says she loves me too and talks of nothing but our future. Over time baggage from her past has haunted us more and more leading to more heated arguments. i came back from a 2 week vacation a few weeks ago and nothing ... (153 words)

For our 16th anniversary, he took me to Home Depot! How do I get this man to romance me more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I am 39 yrs old married for 16 yrs with three children. I am tired of being married and taken for granted. For our 10 yr anniversary I said how I would like to renew our vows in a church since we didn't get married in a church. Hubby states, he meant it the first time. We ... (144 words)

Other people tell me my bf cheats but I believe otherwise.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - my boy-friend and i have had it hard since we started dating and people have been telling me hes cheating but i belive him he hasnt but he does lie to me sometimes but when im with him i couldnt be happier and when im not i want him here with me i thought we could both do with ... (102 words)

He's not a man of his word but I love him and we are to be married! Help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I have a fiance that simply doesn't do what he says he will do. Everything from huge issues like getting a job to small things like coming in for supper. We are supposed to be getting married this year, and I'm scared. He says he's going to find a job. ... (144 words)

I want to trust her with her internet friend but I'm not sure I can...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - My wife has met a male friend on the internet. She says it is all very inoccent and they are just friends. In Jun05 when I found out she told me she had been chatting with him for 6 months. I asked her to stop all contact with him and she said she would. In Oct05 I caught her ... (192 words)

My boyfriend takes drugs and he's violent to other guys. I think I love him, but is he worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6925 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - This is gonna be a long question, but i can't really make it much shorter. In the summer my best friend went out with this guy (lets call him Sy), but they broke up at the end of September because she was cheating on him with his best mate. I still saw Sy quite often, because ... (503 words)

Don't know if the age gap of 4 years is too much, and I don't know if I should tell my parents!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Hey people, I don't know if you can help, but here goes. I am going out with this really amazing guy but there an age gap. I'm 16 and he's 20. Does that matter to parents, because my mum, dad and sister wont let me date because I am the clever one who has the good grades a... (142 words)

Using a condom makes me lose my erection and it's happening every time!

This question has 155 answers - newest was posted 4913 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - I'm a 24 years old guy and I have a 25 years old girlriend. Nowadays I'm going through a stupid funny thing which is becoming a very annoying thing. I had a very much normal erection but whenever I wore a condom and when I get ready to insert my penis, it was getting flacid(s... (293 words)

Should we have to worry about the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6899 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Hi all, I am wondering if some of you could be so kind and give me your honest opinions on my situation ... i am 33 and have have fell madly in love with a 19 year old woman i have known her for over a year and the feeling we both have for each other have grown so much ov... (249 words)

Is my friend as toxic as people tell me she is? Why is she acting this way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - A friend of mine is really getting to me. Although she has been an amazing friend in the past, she has been really unpleasant lately saying things about my family that I don’t like, amongst other things. I have little confidence as it is and I feel that she is chipping away ... (588 words)

My bf's flirtiness with other girls is driving us apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - When me and my bf were going out it was great, and even though I didn't find myself attracted to him, I gave it a go. It has lasted nearly a year!! However recently he has become a little distant. He has always been flirty with other girls in front of me and they both love it.... (147 words)

My girlfriend wants "space" and I've given it to her, but I just want us back together!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend of 2 and 3/4yrs has just asked me for a break. She assures me that she still loves me and finds me attractive. The one thing that kind of worries me is that she gave no guarantee that we'll get back together. I give her a lot of space but she has mentioned feeling ... (143 words)

I don't know whether to meet my cousins after what happened before...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - should i meet my cousins or not.A year ago i found my long lost cousin who i had never met before.well i did something bad and had a affair with his son,which i finished because he was married and i realised he was using me.Now my cousin wants me to meet his sister but she ... (78 words)

He slept with me and someone else...should I feel hurt??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5824 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend 7 months ago after a year together because i felt i did not love him anymore despite him being kind, caring and considerate. He adored me but i felt he was too nice. We had our ups and downs as friends since but recently we slept together again and ... (213 words)

How do I move on from the destructive relationship I've left behind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6690 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - A few months ago, i got out of a very destructive relationship, for both people. Im trying to move on, and get out the past, but i feel i cant. Ive had a few chances with other women, i mean if id taken the chance i would probably be in a happy relationship as i write. ... (170 words)

How do I tell her that I'm much older than she thinks??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Age difference I'm a currently single 42 year old guy who, I guess, has been blessed with a bit of a "baby face". I also keep myself in shape, and even my hair is still pretty much it's natural colour (that is, next to no greying). Many people pretty much think I am in my... (212 words)

He says he gets no feeling from sex...how can I help him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - He says "he doesn’t" like sex! I asked why and he says he gets no feeling, Im 21 and he's 22. He insists on using a condom every time (he’s a big guy and the condom's are fun and games just to get on) even though I take the pill, I wonder if its the fact that the condoms... (211 words)

He can change from being loving to angry...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - The other day, I was going through a difficult time and I turned to my partner. He was so good; loving, reassuring and I thought; he certainly is the man for me. Yesterday, due to other stresses, we had a bit of a row in a shop over something very trivial and it blew up becau... (293 words)

How much sex is normal in a relationship??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6716 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I have been married for four months, living with my partner for 18 months and together for 3 1/2 years. He thinks we are not having enough sex, I'm satisfied, and it is starting to become an issue. How much sex is normal in a long term relationship? ... (48 words)

Will he ever change and will I ever get what I really need from this relationship??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 22 year old female and I have been with my current boyfriend for 2 years. Our relationship has been nothing but up and down from the beginning. We have broken up four or more times, and we argue quite frequently. My friends and family tell me constant... (311 words)

A sexual question I need to ask...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - please don't laugh at this question, but what is a gimp? all i know is that they wear a funny mask, but what do they do? i mean, i know it's something sexual. are thry kind of sex slaves? i am 23 and i am embarrassed not to know this and i'd feel stupid asking my friends. ... (58 words)

How can we help each other with our New Year Resolution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I gave up smoking yesterday and Im struggling so much! New Year Resolution. My boyfriend has given up too. We live together. The thing is, he said he never liked smoking anyway so it isn't too hard for him. He slipped more into a habit. But me...its anguish! Any suggesti... (57 words)

I slept with my ex and my boyfriend is returning soon!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

3 January 2006 (F)

- I feel so guilty, my boyfriend has been away for 3 weeks now and i have been faithful to him the entire time, then yesterday my ex came over and i still love him very much and we got caught up on our feelings and i ended up sleeping with him. I love my boyfriend very m... (131 words)

Him looking at porn affected me so badly...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - my bf and i have been together for almost two years and we click very well and make eachother laugh. we have sex about two times per week and it's passionate and good. problem is that he looked at porn once and i have a severe body image problem and it messed me up and i cryed ... (166 words)

Have I the right to revenge?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6789 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - I am in the process of a messy break up. I put up with too many ugly lies, cheating and dangerous behavior from her. I feel right to revenge at this point, should I?... (34 words)

Her parents are really strict, so should I just lie low or stand up and speak to them about her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6926 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Hi there I am 15 years old and there is this girl that is younger than me by one year. We don't go to the same school but we really like each other - I mean really! So her parents are strict with her having a boyfriend. What should I do? Should I just go on like this or ... (86 words)

I need genuine suggestions... My dick is just too BIG!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - Don't know what to do... I'm too big! Yes, I'm sure a big penis looks great in pictures, or when a porn star jumps all over it - but for me, not being interested in pictures, and not dating porn stars - it f***ing sucks! I can't even recount the many girls I have "da... (289 words)

Nothing for Christmas or my birthday, not even flowers! I'm so disappointed in my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend, for my birthday and Christmas - yep both in the same month - has got my nothing still for either of them. Not even a card. My feelings are hurt and it is pretty much drawing the line on everything. I have talked to him about it. He states money issues, ... (153 words)

How do I choose? I'm falling for the guy nearest to me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I am so lost because I am in love with a guy that lives in Florida and I am with a guy that lives here with me. The more I am with the guy I am living with, the more I am falling out of love with the guy in Florida and falling hard for the guy here. What do I do? I am so ... (71 words)

His idea to break up, but he's just hanging around in a "halfway" state and it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - ARRGHHH! My ex is completely doing my head in. We broke up about five months ago - his idea cos he wigged out at too much intimacy to soon and there was instant pressure to get married or we would be separated by some visa issues. Before that we'd been dating long-distance for ... (407 words)

No sex, no intimacy from my man in 8 months! Could it really just be down to our living arrangements?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - I have a big problem. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 yrs. He is the father of my children. The thing is "we don't have sex" at all. Its been 8 months. We are both attractive people. I'm 25 he's 26. He doesn't touch me anymore. When I try to be affectionate he pushes me ... (167 words)

We went from friends to...well, we're not sure. Do we take a chance and confess our feelings? How?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6921 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - I got to know this girl at school quite well over the last three months. We had one class together this semester, and always sat beside each other, worked on assignments with each other, studied as a pair, hung out between classes, went to lunch, etc. Over the weeks, my fe... (521 words)

What can I do to catch the eye of the smiling guy at school?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Ok guys, another really fun q!! Ok, I'm 16, and there's a guy I like. I think he likes me too but I don't know, because I've had to go into his classroom a few times, and every time I popped in there, he was looking and grinning. Now, I don't know if that's my mind playing ... (95 words)

Do I quit Uni for my Parisienne girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I fortunatley overcame our first problem of age. She is 22 and iam 19 and we met at University. We are really in love and are considering marriage now we have been together for a long time. It is not ourselves which have thrown up the problem it is our ... (222 words)

I can't believe the fact that I don't trust the man I'm attracted to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6927 days ago

3 January 2006 (F) - Two things: Firstly, I have been let down so much by people lately in the form of lying to me, including members of my own family, that I feel very angry and find it difficult trusting anyone at the moment, and I am worried that it could destroy my chances with a guy that I ... (704 words)