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writes: Me and my girlfriend have been together for nearly 6 months now. At first everything was so amazing, and spontaneous. We have been through a few rough times together but lately she seems almost depressed. Me and her are both seventeen, and she is going through a lot of rough things at home. Now talking to her is hard. When we talk, most of the time it feels forced. We have both even said we would be together forever, but it seems like she ignores me, plus she never tells me how she feels. She says she loves me but I just don't know anymore. Honestly I'm scared, because she is my world. I don't think she means to, but she hurts me a lot. help.
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reader, Izzie +, writes (9 January 2006):
Maybe these problems at home are upseting her more than you realise, or more than she is willin to admit to. Don't force her to talk to you, but make her understand that whatever is going on in her head, she can always open up to you and you will be there for her. You'd be surprised how much that can help someone when they are really down. It sounds like your g/f may becomming depressed but it does not sound like your relationship is the cause. Don't give up on her just yet, if you have already come through a lot together, then chances are you can get through this too. Just try to keep the lines of communication open. Relationships are difficult at times! Good luck x
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 January 2006):
Im afraid your 6 months honeymoon period id coming to an end. All relationships start with high intensity/passion and excitement. After 5 months you settle into cosiness and then the real problems start. Communication is vital and if it is forced now then its the death knell for your relationship.
You will see a gradual change in the amount of time you spend with each other and eventually there will be a mutual parting.
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