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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We always had a marriage with no secrets...now he's out all night and not telling me where he's going! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - my husband and I had a very bad year and were recovering from our problems until he began his new job where apparently someone is very pushy and he considered having an affair. He is now asking for lots of space in lay mans terms he is going out not telling me where he is ... (121 words)

He's too busy selling drugs and hasn't time for me.I love him..I miss him-so what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 January 2006 (F)

- im 17 and have a boyfrend of 19....he told me he loves me but he isnt showin it to me..i fink i love him too..i av a lot of strong feelings for him..we have been together 4 months now but things r slippin downhill..he isnt answerin my fone calls or replyin to my txt messages..i ... (112 words)

I have to move interstate, and I worry that I might find someone else besides my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - OK, I need help. Here it goes... I've been dating this guy for about 8 months now and I really do care for him. I'm moving to a different state and I still want to be with him, but a few months ago my boyfriend went away for a month and I started liking someone else. I n... (342 words)

Someone please give me a speech that will help me win back my girlfriend!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - hi I am in dire need. I have been going out with this girl now for 1 year and four months. We have never been happier. I feel I have found my soulmate, but over the Christmas period we have been bad. We have recently broke up. It's like I have been stabbed. I love her so m... (209 words)

I had an abortion and I'm depressed over it. My bf doesn't seem to care.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6901 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and I had a medical abortion. My bf doesnt seem to care that we killed the baby but i am depressed about it, what should i do to get back to normal?And how should i get some emotion / thoughts out of my bf about the pregnancy. ... (49 words)

Everybody wants my friend and her ex back together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hey guys, I need some advice for my friend. You see she was seeing this guy for about a year. She was in love with this guy, but a few weeks ago one of her friends told her boyfriend she wanted to break up {she really didn't} but he beleived her. She tried ... (151 words)

He verbally abuses me but wants to marry me. But I'm not sure I love him! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hi,i have been with my bf for about 8 months and we were really serious and he's all introduced to the family and said to my momma he wants to marry me and he loves me but i have a prob. I dont know if i just love him or if i am in love with him. It's hard to tell since we have ... (118 words)

We broke uo but I still really fancy him. How can I get him to notice me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - hi i fancy this boy. hes my stepmums sisters child in christmas 2004 we both fell in love and unfortunately we broke up but i have got a really big crush on him but i don't think he likes me please help me how can i get him to notice me ... (53 words)

My husband told me he doesn't love me and is considering an affair. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - My husband told me he doesn't love as much as he used to and that he considered having an affair with someone that he works with. He now refuses to even talk about the problem and only says that he would like it fixed.... (45 words)

My relationships only last a few weeks at the most. What can i do to improve my love life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - im 18 and had many boyfriends but my relationships only seem to last a few weeks at most. i met a really nice lad and we spent a whole weekend together but out of the blue he dumped me over a text. what can i do to improve my love life?... (51 words)

He doesn't want to acknowlege our baby and he treats me like rubbish! How do I move on from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hi there, Please help me. I'm in a dlienma, my boyfriend of 2 years didn't want our baby I had in july. He told his ex-wife and their son, that the baby was not his. I went to live with my parents and the baby. We have been seeing each other from July and I have stayed a... (383 words)

My brother's friend pulled back before anything had developed between us. Could he just be worried about dating his mate's sister?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6923 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for a while. He's actually great friends with my brother. We email each other and talk on the phone. He lives quite far away, so we don't see each other that often. The last time I saw him things were different. We got on so well. We were fl... (228 words)

She swallowed my sperm and claims she is pregnant!! Is this possible?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - i am a 13 yr old boy and my girlfriend and i have been having oral sex she wants to go all the way but i am afraid of having a baby, she wants a baby i dont. She said that because she has been swallowing that she is pregnant now, I said thats impossible but she if she swallowed ... (79 words)

I have confidence problems. I've had many opportunities to ask her out, but failed eyerytime. I need advice!.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - Hi, Im 19 and recently met a girl who i really like. From what i hear from others, she likes me too, but as i have never had a proper girlfriend before, im a little out of practise. I have a confidence problem. I have had many opportunities to ask her out, bu... (124 words)

My daughter got caught taking pics of girls in the school changeroom! What is the best to deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Recently I got a phone call off my 14-year-old-daughter's school complaining that my daughter had been taking photos of girls getting dressed in the changing rooms. The teacher told me her camera phone has been confiscated. What are the best things we can do in this situat... (70 words)

Is it odd that my teen son stashes salt & vinegar crisps in his room...for "historical importance"?? What should I do

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - I was cleaning the house one day, when I found 20 packets of uneaten salt and vinegar flavoured crisps in my 16-year-old son's bedroom wardrobe. I then found another 40 up in the loft in his bedroom. I have asked him why he had the crisps but he insists "These are of his... (74 words)

Why does he build me up only to let me down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hello, Right so there's this guy, let's call him Brian. We got talking through a friend of a friend about 9months ago via instant messaging. I really liked him, as more than just a friend. But nothing happened, he had the habit of making me really keen then suddenly going c... (370 words)

How do I overcome my shyness?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - i am 20 year old and im to shy to talk to a girl what can do?... (17 words)

Wewant to make a go of it but what about my family??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - right the problem :- my long term partner and the father of my child split ten moths ago we both have said and done hurtful things to each other whilst apart. i began a new relationship with a childhood sweetheart and thought it was going to be wonderful but life is not a movie ... (101 words)

He slept with so many before it is affecting our relationship now

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

6 January 2006 (F)

- Hey, I need some advice about my jealousy over my boyfriends past. He has had lots of sexual experiences and slept with over 100 girls. Ok, he is older than me, but this really gets to me, I think that's just too many people! Anyway, that's only part of the issue. When he w... (201 words)

Is it normal for a tampon to move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

6 January 2006 (F)

- I have a problem which may sound a bit disgusting and I'm not sure whether it will be put on the site but here goes . . . I'll be as subtle as possible!! When I'm on my period I wear tampons. Lately, though, the tampon has been moving down to the opening of the vagina when ... (94 words)

We were friends and slept together...now he won't even talk to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hi there, I hope you are able to offer me some helpful advice. Last year me and my best friend (who is male) slept together. It was my first time. It wasnt meant to happen but it did, and it kept happening over a long period of time. In the end we decided to not continue ... (205 words)

He didn't even respond when I said I would sleep with someone else

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Recently asked for some advice regarding my sexless marriage. Actually told my husband that I will have sex with another man and he just doesn't respond so I said "I take that as a you don't care answer" and was met once again with total silence. I honestly think that as long ... (116 words)

I'm not allowed to see him but will he wait for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, My parents have just stopped me from going out with my boyfriend because of a family feud and i have been going out with him for 2 years. i am 16 and he is 21 and i am scared that he is not going to wait until im 18 so that we could go out again. please help me ... (63 words)

Should I wait for her to get over him or let it go??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - hi ive known this girl for a long time, and she just broke up with some guy after a long term relationship who i know too. we have done everythng together so she must have feelings for me but still likes her ex too... should i be patient and wait for her to get over her ex b... (79 words)

Is she on the rebound...does she care anymore for me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - Sorry for writting maybe to much but i have a lot to say: MAIN QUESTION IS AT THE BOTTOM I met this girl when I was 13 yrs. old and she was 9. We met when our brothers were hospitalized and were having cancer treatment. We both were from the same town but we met 175 miles aw... (1240 words)

Should I have sex with my underage girlfriend? She says she's ready, but I'm not sure about the consequences...

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5952 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - I am 20, my girlfriend is 15. She's said she's ready for sex with me, but I'm feeling like I'm doing something very wrong. I feel a lot for her and we're really happy together, but, I just don't know where I would stand legally if I have sex with her. The fact she isn't a... (235 words)

I always have time to text him a quick message, but my boyfriend doesn't seem to have the same time for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - hey there, there is something that is really bugging me. My bf is currently working in another city, and we are devoted to each other, during the day we both get very busy, but I whether i'm busy or not always send him a sweet message or, how are you, love you, etc, even when ... (202 words)

Brushing her off was a mistake. I see that now, but is it too late to get her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6887 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - Ok well I've been dating this girl for about 5 months now. She was 15 and i was 18. She always talked to me through text messages. I was a complete jerk and was never as nice to her as she was to me, but she still loved me for it. Near December I broke it up with her cuz I th... (177 words)

My wife left over my anger problems. She also had affairs. I want to work through our problems, but she won't even see me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - My wife left me a few months ago after 5 years and 1 day of marriage. She has returned to her home country of Spain and for another week I am still in the States before I depart for Spain as well. I will begin by stating her reasons for leaving. I have a bit of an anger ma... (415 words)

Help us! My girlfriend is too small and I'm too big to have enjoyable sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2926 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 2 years. and had sex about 5 or 6 times. The problem is that im big and she is small. What can we do, so that we can both enjoy sex, and not end up hurting her every time we have intercourse?... (54 words)

I've been sleuthing through my boyfriend's phone... and I think he's cheating!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - I am in a relationship with someone for almost a year. He never really did anything to make me believe he has cheated on me although i can act paranoid about it and believe he is.I have gotten nosy and looked through his cell to see who he is calling and i think he even knows ... (349 words)

I'm 20 and I think my 13-year-old cousin is attracted to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - I just turned 20 and my little cousin is about to turn thriteen. I only see her a couple times a year and when I saw her over Christmas she said she had a nightmare and that I was killed and when she woke up she thought of killing herself because she thought I was dead. She ... (102 words)

I can't sleep, eat or think straight since he has abandoned me. How do I get over this guy? Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

6 January 2006 (F)

- Hey I don't know what to do, I'm becoming depressed and cry myself to sleep every night. I have been doing for the past 7 months now. Three years ago I met a man whom I truly fell for, he never felt the same, and 7 months ago, he finally started showing interest in me for a... (164 words)

Does my guy not care about me enough to try and be a little more romantic?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Ok, my boyfriend is the most unromantic man on the planet (or atleast I think so..LOL) I've told him time and time again that I LOVE romance and he still hasnt put it an effort to try. My birthday is on Valentine's day so I suggested we go to Tavern on the Green (we're from ... (164 words)

I cheated on my bf and hurt him real bad...I still love him so how do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6906 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - i cheated on my boyfriend and really really hurt him. i love him, but now he thinks that i dont. i dont blame him, but i still want to be with him and want him to see that i love him. how do i fix this?... (46 words)

We're trying to have a baby but my husband can't get an erection! Any tips on how we can deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - My husband has a hard time getting an erection sometimes especially under pressure(we're trying to have a baby), like when the doctor has told us go home and "do it" because I'm ovulating. I try to be ok about it but I don't know how to help, and feel useless that I c... (87 words)

I'm 14 and really like this guy in the 12th grade. Should I go for it and see if we can date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - ok i'm basically in the same position as alot of other freshman girls. well i'm a 14 yr old 9th grader. i reeeeeeally like this one 12th grader. but he looks older than me and he's really tall. would he be interested in me. it's really not a big deal i mean, we go to the same ... (70 words)

He claims he doesn't have feelings for his ex gf but I am having doubts. How do I stop these insecurities and am I over-reacting to all this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Hi everyone. I would really, really appreciate any help anyone could give. This is a problem that has been bothering me for a while. I hope I can get some advice here, because I feel too weird approaching my friends about it and I don't know how objective their opinion is... (1496 words)

I'm a 23 year old virgin with a 5.5 inch penis. I feel shy about having sex...help!

This question has 146 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - i am 23 old virgin and i have 5.5 inch penis .should i feel shy from having sex ? i feel shy :(... (23 words)

I'm 30... Going out as "friends" tomorrow with 21 year old guy but should I leave door open for "more"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6925 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Getting myself into a spot of bother here. I am going out to the movies with a 21 year old male friend tomorrow night. We’ve been friends since childhood, or rather I have been a big sister figure to him and we have only recently been back in contact with one another. I am ... (490 words)

Should I try and stop my two friends, one 16, one 27, from doing the nasty together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6920 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - For the past few months I have been concerned about 2 of my friends. Recently they have been showing A LOT of feelings towards one another, this would be fine, except for the fact that she is 16 and he is 27. She says that eventually she would like to date him, but knows i... (301 words)

I'm a virgin. How can appear to be experienced at sex my first time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6925 days ago

6 January 2006 (M) - Hey I need help I am a virgin male. I recently met a girl, and she is an expert in sex. What must I do while having sex, to not appear that I am having sex for the first time?... (41 words)

He kept postponing our wedding date...Should I forget about my ex and move on or do I forgive him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6924 days ago

6 January 2006 (F) - Dear cupid, i ended my five yrs relationship with my fiance 4weeks ago because i felt it wasnt moving forward. We didnt set our wedding date several times and he kept on postponing that he wasnt ready. my family now are angry and dont want to hear his name mentioned.He later ... (260 words)