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writes: I am a 16 year old guy and I'm having trouble with girls just liking me as a friend. It seems like each time I really like a girl and I tell her, she says she just couldn't go out or do anything with me because I seem more like a friend, or a brother. Am I being to much of a nice guy or just coming off wrong when I talk, or what? Reply to this Question
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reader, Izzie +, writes (9 January 2006):
You don't really need to change anything about yourself, lots of nice guys have this problem, but as you get older you will find that not all girls are impressed with 'muscles' and 'butch machoism'. You're at a difficult age so by all means experiment with new sports and different ways of talking to girls (don't always be their friend, try asking someone out before you become a good friend of theirs). Please don't lose any of your genuine charm and niceness, it counts a lot more than arrogence and being a show off. Good Luck x
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 January 2006):
Butch up will you and take up a sport that makes you a hero to the girls. You're such a nice sweet guy that you act like everyones brother.
Once you take up a sport that givs you some cuts/bruises and muscles, you will become a girl magnet.
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (9 January 2006):
 No, you're not doing anything wrong, you're just a better friend to some people than others, and it's natural that they don't want to lose a friendship. Give it some time and you'll find someone who likes you in the same way right from the off.
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