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writes: I'm so so so so annoyed, I make the effort to call or send a text message to make my man smile thru out da day, or so he says, and he is too busy for me, and too busy to call me, says he cant use the phone at work, but his friends men, and women, get called from his work, and i his girl gets nothing. Im not going to call and send messages anymore. he made me pissedme off. when i tell him that this bothers me, he blames me, for making him feel guilty. am i being too loving by sending sweet messages and in return i get nothing but a cold shoulder. Im tired of this crap man.last thing i wanna look like is a needy chick, but i love him with all my heart, i want him to miss me once in a while to see how it feels to left out by the person that says they want to marry you.What shld i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): Since u tried being nice and sweet to him and he doesnt like it and appreciate it, then be a bitch about it and ignore him. Not in a bad way but dont show him that you're constantly thinking about him because he then knows that and takes it for granted. Act like you're a busy person and got things to do and dont call or text him, watch him be all over you because he's going to then miss you because you gave him time to miss you. He's going to wonder what you're doing and feel like you're forgeting about him and then gonna want to text you and call u during the day. Men respond by being ignored. When you're all over them, he'll pay no mind to u or think you're annoying. I recommend you to read this book called "Why Men Love Bitches." It's soooooo good and it helps.
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reader, mister-squid +, writes (9 January 2006):
 You seem to have answered you own question. If seeing whether he misses you or not fails to work, tell him to shape up or ship out.
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