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writes: I just broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years because I wanted to sleep with my good friend who i used to work with and have had strong feelings for years. My friend told me he felt the same way so one thing lead to another and we slept together.He said that he wanted to keep doing it and so do I. But now I have developed strong feelings for him and I want to start a relationship but have no idea how to bring this idea to him!! Should I just keep it casual and see other people or should I somehow tell him?? Any suggestions?!??!
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (10 January 2006):
 You need to talk to him about your feelings as soon as possible. If you two keep sleeping together, but there is never any mention of a relationship, then he might think that all you want is sex, and nothing will ever become of this. If you choose to keep it casual and see other people, then he might think that you're loose and become turned off. The only real way to know is to talk to him about your feelings and see how he responds.
Good luck!
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (9 January 2006):
 If you are hoping for a real relationship with him, then you should tell him. If he does not feel the same way then it is better to know now. But you just got out of a long relationship so you may not want to get back into one right away, either way you need to let him know what it is that you want. In my mind if you are able to sleep with someone you should be able to talk to them about what you want from them, be it casual or more. Good luck.
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