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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Help me decide where to draw the line with my girlfriend when it comes to hanging out with opposite-sex friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I'm 23, and my girlfriend is 19 and in her first year of college. We started dating in Aug, like 3 weeks before she left for school. I made it clear to her that things were going to be tuff and I didn't want to be the reason for her to use me as an excuse for holding her back ... (813 words)

Already have a girlfriend, but now I realise that another girl likes me too!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I have a gf but this nice girl likes me. I like them both. What do I do?... (20 words)

Husband warned me it was low but not "zero" low.. ! Is a f*** buddy the answer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6508 days ago

25 January 2006 (F)

- My husband doesn't want sex, he warned me when we first met he had a low sex drive but I really didn't think he actually meant non-existant! I am suprised I ever managed to concieve our child. I have tried everything sexy undies, romance, to the other end of the scale an... (163 words)

How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex wife at the party?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months, and he is in the process of getting divorced, and up to now I have successfully avoided any contact with his ex-wife. This Friday I am attending a birthday where she will be there as well, and I will no one else but my ... (102 words)

Keen on my mate's sister. Her family is supportive, so what do I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - Hi, Im 13/14 and I seriously have a thing for my best mate's 12/13 year old sister. I've told him and he appears to be fine with it, which is good. We flirt all the time and she laughs at everything I say, I just feel warmer when im near her ;). Her family and mine get on l... (83 words)

Things between us are strained since my boyfriend moved interstate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F)

- I have a bf who had to move to another state 3 months ago for a job in the Oil Rig Camp. Before he moved we were always in contact either through email or phone. Well since he moved away he never phones or sends emails. The last time I talked to him was on Xmas day, and... (179 words)

I'm 16, a mum, and expecting twins! If I tell the baby's dad, I'm afraid he'll leave!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I am 16 years old and I already have a son called Nicholas. I recently found out I am three months pregnant. Yesterday I went for a scan and have found out that I am expecing twins - I'm together with the father but I know how he will react to this news. He will leave. Shou... (149 words)

Suddenly after 5 years together, my boyfriend hit me when he disagreed. Am I wrong not to want to sacrifice what we have over this?

This question has 41 answers - newest was posted 4532 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and just recently I've seen a side to him that I've never seen before. We had been out drinking and something made him mad. He wanted me to go home because he was going to his house. I didn't want to go and he hit me. M... (145 words)

How do I start a conversation with the stunner in my office who keeps looking at me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I work in a office, and there is a girl who I find to be stunningly beautiful. I have noticed her looking at me on a few occasions. All I want to do is talk to her but I have no idea what to say or how to start a conversation. Any Ideas?... (53 words)

She's unhappy in the current relationship, but I don't want to be responsible for a break up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - This girl I like is in an unhappy relationship and says she'd rather be with me. I don't want to be responsible for the break up of her current relationship, but I really want to be with her. What the hell do I do?... (44 words)

I've got my own "monster-in-law"! Is it best to cut off all contact with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6833 days ago

25 January 2006 (F)

- Hi I am 35 nad have a fabulous 5 year old boy. My hubby is great too, but unfortunately his mother is like every bad stereotype of the bad ma-in-law there is! She throws strops about anything and everything, she managed to ruin our wedding by promising some financial support ... (237 words)

I want it to be more with him but he is a Teacher's Assistant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - Hi, Im 20 years old and i attend a Trained School. I have developed a strong crush on My Teacher's Assiste. I know some people are going to read this think its wrong, but the way i see this is that i am 20. This man is fresh out of college and is helping our teacher out with... (165 words)

I can't talk to people and I have no friends! Is this right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

25 January 2006 (F)

- I have a huge problem! I can't talk to people at all. I have no friends, NO FRIENDS! and I don't know how to make any. I've had friends, but since me and my boyfriend got together, it's been me and him every day. I love every day and can never wait to see him, but he thinks ... (177 words)

Visions of her past sexual history haunt me..it's a serious problem and I need specific advice.

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - How do I get over my wife's sexual history? Please be specific. I don't need any comments stating to "just get over it," or the "past is the past." I'm well aware of these things, but I just can't. I made the mistake of asking about her past, and details, and these visions ... (115 words)

I don't get why my boyfriend goes to his mum with OUR personal problems. What can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have known my boyfriend for almost for 4 years. We were bestfriends for 3 before we actually started dating almost a year ago. (March will be a year) We have both graduated high school and we have both moved on to college. My concern is that we have been getting into a l... (287 words)

There are so many possibilities why my GF wanted to finished with me. Which is it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - Wanting my gf back, I need help My gf broke up with me just about 2 weeks ago. I don't know why but she just finished me. I think one major thing that happened a week before she split up with me was that a guy indecently exposed himself to her at college. She said she did not... (303 words)

He lied to me! Told me he was 26 and he's really ...45!! What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I'm almost 17 but my boyfriend's recently just told me that he's 45 after telling me 7 months ago that he was 26.He was too scared to tell me in case that i would dump him. He really loves me and i really love him too, but where would we get from this? He looks 30 so i would ge... (93 words)

We've broken up before and usually he comes back. This time, he says he doesn't want to. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I was dating GUY for almost 5 years. The past two years have been rough personally and with him. We broke up and went out over and over. I pushed him away big time. Now everything I've ever done to him is coming back to me. He told me he doesn't want to be with me etc. ... (287 words)

He is ignoring me...what should I do?

This question has 72 answers - newest was posted 3320 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I really need some advice on what to do..my so called bf has been totally ignoring me he hasnt taken any of my calls for 5 days now i leave him emails and instant messages but nothing i had written a letter to him like 4 days ago reguarding our little issues and everything ... (115 words)

She says she doesn't feel the way she used to...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - my gf tells me it might be over and that she does not feel how she use to and as recently moved back to her mums, i know we are so good together and we can have a great future i love here dearly, y cant my mistakes be forgiven and for her to let me show her what she really ... (80 words)

I'm 9 years older than him and he won't tell his parents about us. Is he embarrassed of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - i have been with my partner for nearly twelve months. at 34, I am 9 years older than him and have two children who love him to bits. the trouble is he will not tell his parents that we are together. when i question this he says they may not approve of the age gap. at 26 i ... (89 words)

He's slept with 60-70 women in his past. Is he just another player or am I just being paranoid? help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - After a long period of avoiding men for fear of getting hurt I have recently started going out with this guy. Things are going amazingly well and he is everything I'd look for in a man. My friends say how much he clearly adores me and how good we are together. However, he has t... (165 words)

My gf is a self-harmer and I'm worried sick about her. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend of over a year is a self-harmer. I dont know how to deal with as she wont talk about it and says 'it's private.' I feel helpless, worrried sick and guilty. What should I do? ... (37 words)

How do I handle my anxieties about his ex? She annoys me and how do I cope with my feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and we now live together in his home town, 200 miles from my home town.He has a 4 year old daughter with his ex who lives round the corner from us. In the first couple of years she stirred trouble between us, always trying to ... (171 words)

we love each other but my gf feel the spark is gone. How do we get that back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6484 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend just over a year and we are very much in love. Recently she has said that she is not as attracted to me now as she first was but maintains that she still loves me just as much and that we ought to try to make it work. She has also said that she ... (144 words)

What are the signs a guy likes you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

25 January 2006 (?) - What are the signs that a bloke likes you? what signals are the ones to look out for?... (18 words)

I constantly question my feelings for him and he loves me, unwaveringly. What's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm a 24 year old who doesn't fall in love easily, so was thrilled to find the man of my dreams nearly a year ago. Although I love him with all my heart, I find myself constantly questioning my feelings for him. This in turn makes me feel like a horrible person, as his f... (123 words)

How do I talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - How do I make conversation with a guy that I barely know in front of his parents and his brother? It would be so much easier if we were alone but if I want some time alone with him his parent will probablly notice... I don't know!... (47 words)

Our sex life has gone down hill...help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My wife and I have been married for nearly 5 years and together for 3 years before that. The sex was great before we were married and even OK for the first few months after. However in the past 4 years it has been lousy. Any interaction between us has to be initiated by me. We ... (98 words)

What do you think his intentions really are?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - DOES HE REALLY LIKE ME...OR AM I FOOLING MYSELF? I need advice on a Man in my life.... I just cannot seem to work him out. Usually I am pretty good at this sort of thing so please if any one can shed some light, I would be truly grateful! My problem is my Personal Trai... (690 words)

I don't want to show him parts of my body...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I hope you will be able to help me--I've always felt self-conscious about my body and I lost a lot of weight, (because I was like 205 pounds but got down to 130 doing exercise and changing my eating) but I have all this flabby skin especially around my stomach area and my ... (171 words)

How can I help him after his break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - How can i help my friend who just broke up with his girlfriend, hes going through a really hard time right now and he just want to feel better...what can i say to help him??... (35 words)

A guy who barely even knows me is constantly making fun of me... Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6875 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I know this guy who I think hates me. All he ever does when I'm around him (which isn't that often, but often enough to know him pretty well) is make fun of me and tries to say anything possible to make me feel awkward. He teases me about the dumbest things and is always trying ... (130 words)

I believe I'm ready to have sexual contact with my boyfriend, but having trouble with it since Mom walked in on us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - My mom once walked in on me giving my boyfriend oral sex. My boyfriend and I are 16 and we have been dating for 11 months. My parents weren't as mad that I was giving him oral sex as they were that I was doing it in their house and they didnt want to "harbor that kind of ... (197 words)

Will he ever be ready to marry me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6516 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I've been in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for over 5 years now, and whenever I try to talk about whether or not our relationship is going to go to the next level, he says he's not ready to think about it. He says he can't imagine our relationship ever ending and he ... (108 words)

If we start dating..do I risk losing his friendship if it doesn't pan out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6854 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I like this guy and he is really easy to talk to and we get on really well but we don't see each other very often. I have a ball coming up and he has helped me out with stuff for it and I was going to ask him to go with me. We are really good friends and hang around in the same ... (104 words)

I am seeking a counsellor's help for my troubles and my bf resents it. Do I keep getting help or end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F)

- about 4 months ago i started talking to a councilor via online as i was always feeling depresed, my boyfriend of 3years recently found out and for some reason and banned me from talking to the councilor, he said that he was upset that i would talk to a councilor and not turn to ... (191 words)

Can I fight my way back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - How can I get back into the heart of a guy I love who once loved me but says he doenst anymore because I tend to be too agressive?... (29 words)

Been chatting to a nice guy online... But how will he see past my "size" when we meet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - Hi all..okies... i have recently been chattin to a really nice guy who i met on the internet via my holiday discussion board. Since we have been chattin for the last few weeks we've discovered that we have loads in common. The trouble is we seem to get on so well but im ... (166 words)

Any idea what his reaction will be about my age-lie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 17 year old female in a relationship with a 26 year old male. The problem is, I lied about my age. My birthday is in March. I will be 18. He thinks I will be 19. Its only a years difference. It could be worse... but I'm just terrified to tell him. The reason I lied wa... (178 words)

Why can't she see I'm sorry for my lies... ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - hi there..... me and my gf are going through a tricky patch i have been seeing her for 8 months now and love her dearly and want to be with her so much i am 29 she is 21, recently i lied about a job i lost and money to her which caused her pain and tears and she has since ... (157 words)

Does the guy who dumped me want friendship or something more? Here's his dumping email...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6874 days ago

25 January 2006 (F) - I met a guy on a dating website who I went out with for 2 months he finished with me with the following message:- I've been thinking lots about us, and although i think you're a lovely girl, if i'm honest i'm just not feeling the same about you as you do about me. I have ... (177 words)

A guy at work keeps making eye contact, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6873 days ago

25 January 2006 (M) - I have started a new job at this company and have noticed this guy looking at me nearly everytime I pass his desk on the way to get a drink. As I am a repressed homosexual myself, I have nobody I can talk to about it. The other thing is I have this real strange feeling inside ... (243 words)