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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How long after my breakup will it be until I'm interested in hooking up with girls again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - hi there. i recently split up with my girlfriend of 4 years (her choice). i have been quite upset as you would. im slowly getting myself back together with the help of friends and family. been out clubing afew times and i have no intrest in females whot so ever, was talking to ... (121 words)

Am I mad... Or is my sister sleeping with my man?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6859 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - For a long time, I have had a suspicion something went on with my man and my sister. I asked and was told I was being stupid, so left it. The trouble is, whenever they are together I feel like there is something between them. This has gone on for 2 years, but it's not like I ... (164 words)

I think that my friend has feelings for me, but that she doesn't want anyone to find out because she has a boyfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - yeah i know that friends come and go but we were realy close like she is realy lovey and stuff when we are alone then when we in front of people sees dffrent and she realy crys when we are alone could she have feeling for me and dont want me to find that out cause she as a ... (71 words)

I'm all that... But they're not. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am a beautiful, successful female. I own my own home and am financially independent. No children- 2 dogs. Why does it feel that I only attract men who have a child/children? Don't get me wrong- I love kids and they aren't the real issue. It just seems that these men all have ... (182 words)

We keep getting left out of things with friends and family... Any ideas to stop the loneliness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi i am a 24 year old female. lately i have been feeling very lonely. my problem being i have very few friends and the ones i do have i have to do all the running just to keep them. my partner and i have been together for a few years and i moved to be closer to him in the past ... (183 words)

We broke up, then got back together... But now he seems more interested in his bikes and PC than me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I don't know if I am with the right person. I may only be young but after being with my bf for such a long time we started to plan our futures together, we were in love and very serious. WE broke up and alot of the plans went with it. Even when we got back together I wanted ... (173 words)

My boyfriend's rushing to move in together, but after the miscarriage and our breakups, I need to take things slowly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6872 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I met my boyfriend around 9 months ago whilst working for my aunt. We live 100 miles from each other, but without a doubt he visits me every weekend. I was 15 when I met him and he was 20. I am now 16 and he is a few months away from 21. My parents have no problem with thi... (336 words)

Scared for my friend who keeps stringing along and older guy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - my freind is flirting with a 24 year old man.it has got to the point where he wants to get closer to her.but insted of saying she is not intrested in that from him. she keeps stringing him along saying maybe when she means no.do you think there is any chance he may turn nasty ... (61 words)

My little sister is naughty and sneaky... Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Hey people, I don't know if you can help but here goes. My little sister is so annoying. She is really spoilt and wants me to play with her all the time even though I'm almost 15 and she's 9. She can be really hypocrytical as well, for instance, today, she came into my room wit... (157 words)

Does my "hugging" doctor want more than just to make me better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6563 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - How can I tell what this Doctor is up to and want from me. I go to him twice a week for therapy and in the past lets say three month he always touches me like on my shoulder and keep his hand there for a while, he has his arms out three times when I got up off the table for a ... (154 words)

Things are great, except... he "forgot me on NYE, and he'd rather sleep than have sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I have been with this guy for about 3 1/2 months now. We get along great but strange little things have been happening. We didn't spend any time together New Years eve because he "forgot" to call. He says he isn't seeing anyone else and that he still wants to see me. And from ... (103 words)

No money and another baby on the way! I just don't have the money to do things to feel good about myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I have this problem that is really affecting me now. I just don't feel that I am good enough for the bloke that im with. We have just got back together after breaking up and now I just don't feel good enough. He says that I'm just being silly and that I'm fine, but it's jus... (227 words)

Was I a rebound for him as he doesn't seem so into me as he was before...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Is he losing interest already? I've been dating a man for about a month. The past couple- he has called or stopped by or both, every day... He even stayed a few nights in a row last week. From the beginning he was talking about 'wanting to settle down'. He took me to dinner ... (143 words)

Should I stay with him or go to be with my ideal man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - What the hell should I do? Last summer i met my ideal man, he's caring, thoughtful, always gives me compliments, sexy, good in bed and very touchy feely. But the problem is i already have a boyfriend of 4 years who is the total opposite of this. Im insecure and need to be told ... (249 words)

We can't be together because of his insecurities...so who will want to be with me if I'm successful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I'm a successful 26yr-old who's actually done really well in school/career stuff. Everyone tells me I'm very smart, and I have good marks to show for it, and I'm happy about that. I always figured I was lucky to have been born with some great talents, and I wanted to use them ... (607 words)

He doesn't want us to be more than friends over the net

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F)

- I like this lad, and I think he likes me. But he says that theres no way we can be more than just mates over msn. I would like to just give up on him, and find someone else to fall in love with, but he's the only one who has shown any interest in me. What should I do?... (60 words)

Is she a threat to our relationship??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Here's my situation: There was this girl that my boyfriend talks to a lot lately and they both call each other. He always call me almost everyday and make me come over every Saturday night to sleep over. However, two Saturdays ago, he didn't. I suspect something (girl'... (256 words)

She says she wants to be back with me and then changes her mind...do I meet her again??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Hi Ive just split up with my girfriend we were together for 6 months. When people first found out about us we had a lot of trouble not only of both families but friends aswell due to the age, im 27 and she is 16 but we got through it and it made us stronger. For the first ... (294 words)

He's been taking photos of men getting dressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Hi there I am 21 and I live with my boyfriend who is 23. He has recently been banned from the local gym after complaints about him taking photos of men getting dressed. He's been banned from another local one too, after a man saw him taking the photos and threatened... (114 words)

His past is threatening what we have...please help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6880 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Hello, this may seem like a bit of a stupid question but I am having serious jealousy (and other) issues with my boyfriends past. He has a 7 year old daughter from a previous relationship with a women he claimed tricked him into having the baby just to keep him. He took cocaine ... (300 words)

She's having a baby but I'm not sure I'm ready!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - im 20 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have just found out we are having a baby! im not ready to leave home yet and cant afford a place of our own. her parents wont allow her to live at home if she has this baby. i love my girlfriend but sometimes when i go out i meet othergirls ... (75 words)

Our 16 year old son is with a 43 year old woman...what do we do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Recently me and my husband found out that our 16-year-old son has been dating a 43-year-old woman and has got engaged to her. We asked our son if this was true, and he said it was. He told us he is talking of getting engaged to her and having children with her as soo... (171 words)

I could be pregnant by my married lover...do I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have fallen for somebody I cannot have, he is married (by 2 years) but we let temptation get the better of us and I'm now worried im pregnant. I know in myself that I wouldnt be able to keep the child for financial and emotional reasons and i know that sounds... (118 words)

Is he being a friendly neighbour or does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi, i am going through a pending divorse and have moved into a new house. i am 47 and the neighbor guy is 37. i have known him from work and have run into him at sports events. when we meet he keeps staring at me and is very concerned about the way he looks when we talk. he... (112 words)

Her insecurity is driving me out of my mind...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Please help , I am in desperate need of some advice, my wife is very in-secure and refuses to get help. We have been married for 6 months and there have been always been issues and problems, even 4 months before getting married. I have known my wife now for 2 years. In the b... (359 words)

I feel I'm not a priority for him and that he prefers to spend time with his family and friends than me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm kinda annoyed, it's stupid really but I feel pretty hurt. My bf and I have been in a long distant retionship for 2years, and he'll be comming home soon, and when I spoke with him, He wants to catch up with his family and friends, thats great but it feels as though t... (162 words)

I want my wife's sister...

This question has 45 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - for weeks now my wife sister my sister inlaw has been giving me mixed signals ,you know a little touch hear and a long stair there, my sister inlaw other half went away on a business trip and me and my wife stayed over for the night so my wife could have a drink and not worry ... (260 words)

How can I win back the trust of my partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - How can i gain back trust in a relationship where i dearly want to stay in but i've lied and lied and said there's nothing else to know, when more has come out. Now there is nothing else absolutely, how can i win back and gain the trust and understanding of my partner?... (53 words)

My friend and I got on so well but now she doesn't want to know me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi im agirl my friend is a girl we got on realy well and we were close when we drank together she would always say i love you to bits dont ever hurt me then kisses me and hugs me alot and starts crying.we went out new year everything was fine the next day she bought my birthdy ... (160 words)

I have sexual feelings for my twin sister...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Somebody please help me. I don't know if it's normal but i have started to have sexual feelings for my twin sister. My bedroom is being re-painted and i have been sleeping in her bedroom, i can't stop staring at her when she is asleep. She is really confident and extrovert with ... (112 words)

I don't know what she's up to and she puts all the blame on me but I still want her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Me and this girl met just a few days before i had to leave the country. We spent my final 24 hours together but no intimacy involved. That was actually the first time we got to spend time alone. I called her the next day from my home country and she cried, telling me how much ... (496 words)

My husband does not show that he cares and I'm lonely...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am 26 years old. I have been married for 6 years with 2 beautiful daughters aged 5 and 2. My husband does not show any signs of affection, he is not communicating with me even though I attempt to talk to him. I have been interested in having another child but he doesn't want ... (132 words)

How do you kiss properly??

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - hi how do i kiss? i havent got a clue how to do it, i wanna now how to just normally kiss like a peck and how do you kiss with tongues? i need to know cos i really wanna kiss my boyfriend and i am really ready i just dont know how? please help! thank you very much every... (65 words)

How do I know if he has an erection??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - heya i am 16 and i want to know how i know if my 16 year old boyfriend has an erection around me. if we hug or kiss or something how do i know if he has an erection without asking him cos i dont really wanna ask him ha ha. is there any signs like what do boys do, do they hav... (77 words)

He says I'm tiring him out with all the sex... Guys, what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - i hope someone can give me so good honest advice on this, esp men! im 25, engaged and my partner is 28. ive slept with about 35 men and hes slept with aboue 20 women. i decided not to tell him my real amount as i thought there are some things a partner is better off not k... (389 words)

When he was drunk, he said he didn't love me...should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, i think ilove him. he has never been married, no kids, and in his 40s, he says lots of nice things to me, but twice when drunk he has said he does not love me, as love is special, should I move on... (55 words)

He left because of my nagging... So should I nag him about whether he was seeing women while we were together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6881 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - My husband has walked out on me reason does not love me anymore and sick of my nagging. The last few months he had been totally withdrawen from me could not stand coming home from work or facing me. He had been working shift work for years. Since he has moved out i have ... (149 words)

Did I not move fast enough as now she's with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Things seemed so clear, but did I wait too long in not moving in on her? She gave me every indication that there was real interest in me (over several months).....the connection was great with us with our back and forth/give and take!! Suddenly, i'm on the outside lookin i... (208 words)

Why would my ex-wife lie about seeing another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - My wife and I got legally seperated almost three months ago she has a daughter that I have known since she was 10 months old and is now 5 yrs old. I found out the other day from her daughter that my ex-wife is hanging out with another guy. when I asked her about it she said ... (92 words)

Worried I might have erectile dysfunction. So how would I bring it up to my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6880 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - I think I've got ED. I'm 18 and moving out of the house soon. I think I should go see a doctor about this, but I can't be like "Hey Mom, I think I've got ED... Can I go see the Doc?" What the hell am I supposed to do? ... (57 words)

Have I seen too much porn? I can't get hard enough when fooling around with my girlfriend!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - Hmm, where to start. I've been looking at porn since I was like 13 or 14. Just do it like every day out of boredom, ya know? Well, anyway it has fucked with libido. I'm 18 now, and I can't get my dick to go full mast when my girl and I are fooling around. I don't know w... (70 words)

Happy with my wife, but I can't stop fantasising about a threesome with her and her sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6601 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - I'm a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t want to do anything with her ... (234 words)

Stay with my boyfriend? Or follow my heart with the new guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I have a big problem. I have a boyfriend and I've liked him since high school, but I've met someone within the last year or so that I've grown to love and he really loves me. I just recently got into a relationship with my current boyfriend. I don't know what to do because I ... (76 words)

I raised my voice, and my girlfriend left me because she was afraid I'd abuse her! I've never hurt a woman. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - I had a misunderstanding with my girlfriend of 1 yr. She said that i was loud and she left. now she says that she's afaird that i'll abuse her. i've never hit a woman and don't have a hot temper. i never called her names or cussed her just raised my voice. she won't answer my ... (101 words)

When we were together, we chose to abort our baby, but now his one-night stand is pregnant, and they're keeping the baby! I feel so hurt and alone...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I am 27 years old and newly single. A week ago I found out my ex is having a baby with a supposed 'one night stand'. She is keeping the baby, with no respect to him. A year ago I was pregnant with his baby and aborted cause neither of us were ready. I was miserable with him, ... (150 words)

I'm thinking about having phone sex with my boyfriend, but I'm concerned about losing my virginity, and I haven't a clue what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I'm considering phone sex. Me amd my boyfriend have done dry sex(rubbing up against each other)and touching to get orgasms and to help us sustain from sex, but I got worried and felt like I wasn't a virgin anymore for doing this and have kinda stopped being physical with him. ... (94 words)

I think I'm a lesbian, and it's causing me to feel anxious and depressed. I like this girl on my sports team, but I won't see her for a few months. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - I'm a 17 year old female. I have really bad anxiety and depression. I think it might be caused by a huge secret I have: I think I like girls. Right now, there is one in particular that I just can't stop thinking about. She is on one of my sports teams. I told myself that ... (196 words)

He says he doesn't dump girlfriends, and acts like a lovesick puppy. I don't want to end up spending my life with the wrong guy. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6882 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend seems to be the best thing around,there really don't seem to be any decenguys around and I don't want to break his heart by staying with until I find someone new, that would be wrong. I love him, but there I times I really feel we are not right for each other, but ... (316 words)

My girlfriend asked for space, and I didn't respect her request. Is there any chance that she will contact me again and want to get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I of two and a half years broke up over a month ago. She said she didn't think she could rekindle the feelings she once had for me. Yet she kissed me after we broke up.... I was like OMG why did you do that!? She said she wanted to kiss me one last time. I ... (193 words)

My friend kissed my boyfriend and slapped him on the face! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - what would you do if one of your friends kissed your boyfriend and slaped him on the face? can you help?... (21 words)

Why don't the men who use porn...ever think about the pain and hurt they can cause their partners?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

17 January 2006 (F) - Why is it that a lot of men dont seem to even think about the hurt they can cause their partners by using porn. Dont they stop to think how it would feel to them if we used pictures of young hunks to get off especially as they are changing and aging. Why dont they realise ... (64 words)