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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex-fiance is with someone else now, but I would like to rekindle our relationship. How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I am seeking advice on how to get my exfiance back. We dated back in high school and parted ways after graduation. 13 years later she called me up and we got back together. For 4 years we dated regularly and eventually got engaged and built a new home together. The stress of ... (125 words)

My coworker and I are both in relationships, but I like her a lot. Is there any hope for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I really fancy a girl I work with, however we're both in relationships. However we get on really well and she's said that if I left work she would leave also, maybe she just likes me though. My question is this: when we're out at a works do we'd both had a lot to drink and I sa... (137 words)

My boyfriend wrote down fantasies and picked out girls that he likes on his "Friend Finder" account. He says the whole thing is just a joke, but it hurts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Me and my bf have been having probs for a while arguin and that, but i love him and wanted to make it work. Today i had a look on the computer at the sites that have been recently viewed and he has a account with a "friend finder" and had wrote down fantasies and picked out ... (95 words)

Been married 25 years. Husband is a liar and a porn-guy, but I hate thought of my kids dealing with divorce...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have been married 25 years and have had enough. I have put up with so much in my marriage, the first year he cheated on me. He says nothing happened but with all I have seen during the years I know he is a wonderful liar. He has a porn problem and I caught him five years ago, ... (191 words)

My boyfriend is the perfect man, but I get bored easily and I'm thinking of going with someone else for a little excitement. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I think i've got a problem, I get bored too easily and it makes me ruin my perfectly good relationships. When i was with my boyfrend, a while back we didnt hardly speak but i liked him because he kept me on my toes and i never knew what mood he would be in next. bu then someone ... (158 words)

My boyfriend was texting my friend to tell her that he really liked her, just two weeks after I gave birth to our daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend, was texting my friend telling her he really liked her and they had been calling each other regularly, as far as I know nothing happened but its not been the same since. I couldn't believe it, I had only given birth to my daughter 2 weeks before hand! What should I ... (64 words)

I have a crush on my ex-boyfriend's best mate, who isn't my usual type...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6883 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I like my ex boyfriends best mate! what do i do? my previous boyfriend and i were together for a while and i really did love him but when we were together i met one of his friends and i liked him straight away, we bonded really well. all through my relationship with my ex i had ... (152 words)

I am a girl, and I told my female boss that I am in love with her. How would you feel if you were my boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6877 days ago

15 January 2006 (F)

- hay guys, i asked a question a couple of days ago, abut how i am female and i told my female boss i was in-love with her. CALLING ALL LADIES-can i have your personal opinion on how you would feel if a 17yr old told you she was in love with you? and also how you would feel, i ... (70 words)

Afraid my friend may ask me out and ruin our friendship... What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have just found out recently a guy friend of mine bubba likes me more than a friend. We always flirt in between classes but it is harmless. I like him to, its kind of been a secret. but right now isnt really a good time for me to have another relationship, my friend told him ... (107 words)

He broke my heart! Now I'm scared of being hurt again...

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5386 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I was with a guy for 8 months, my longest relationship, and he broke my heart. before him i was let down by 2 other guys that i truly cared for but my recent break was defently the worst. i'm getting over him slowly but its defently happening. my question is i'm so scared of ... (101 words)

Seems like he's drifting away... Is he sick of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and me have been dating for almost 4 months. He's my escape from everything! But lately he's changed, he used to call me all the time. Not anymore, he used to say the sweetest things. Nope nothin'. I loved spending every waking moment, almost, together. But late;y ... (81 words)

Any tips for a girl to regain her mojo?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6883 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Hi. I'm an 18 year old who lives with her partner. The problem is i've completely lost my sex drive. Any tips or advice to help? It would be very appreciated as i am beginning to think that this is it x x x... (44 words)

My partner is no longer interested in sex! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1511 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I am 35 and my partner is 54 and she has become uninterested in sex, please can you help?... (19 words)

All we do is go to the pub or watch TV...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Is it normal to feel up and down about a relationship that is only 3 months old? One minute I feel he is the one for me, the next I'm bored out my brains. All we seem to do is watch telly and go to the pub (we are both 25). Now he isn't drinking alcohol, he doesn't like going ... (120 words)

I've fallen for my teacher...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6659 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - i am a girl an think i have fallen for my teacher who is female and just got engaged. i don't no weather im a lesbian but i can't stp thinking of her ... (33 words)

Could it work with my ex or could we be true friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - hi there, I broke up with my ex over 10 months ago, as I wasn't ready, and to be honest i wasn't really happy in myself. My ex was mad about me, really chased me and the relationship went on for over a year yet, it wasn't really right for me, I wasn't really into it at all, ... (396 words)

Does he deserve a second chance despite what he did?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6875 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - So yesterday had been the day my world was turned completely upside down and I had endured the worst betrayal imaginable!!!!!! I had been in a relationship with a guy for 3 months. Which were 3 of the most amazing months I ever shared with any person! He just made me feel so ... (821 words)

Should I give her time to get over her recent break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - a girl i am in love with has just split from her boyfriend. she knows how i feel about her and she hase some feelings for me its only been three days since they split what do i do. do i go and see her or do i give her some time to get over the split and see what happnes... (61 words)

I just want to sleep with him but now I've said something silly and I don't know how to convince him that I only want sex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I want to maintain a strictly sexual relationship with this guy I've been sleeping with on and off for the past few months. But the other day, after a great night of sex, I made a stupid request. I told him next time I just want to talk and go to the movies. I have no idea why ... (134 words)

I feel traped but how do I leave him when he hasn't done anything wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have been married for a little over 2 years. My husband is sweet, loyal, and there are things about him that I love, but I don't think I am in love with him. I have more fun out with the girls at the bar laughing, flirting,..etc. I am ashamed to say I have cheated on him a ... (239 words)

When she smiles and me and goes red, does that mean she's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Hi, There's a girl at my work and she is Polish, a very nice girl and she smiles at people. But when I talk to her, she smiles more at me and goes red. Is she trying to tell me somthing, as I'm not sure.... (45 words)

There are different rules for my kids and my husband's daughter, and he lets her get between us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Me aad my husband have been together for 4 years. The problem I have is that I have 2 boys, 15 and 20 years old and he has a duaghter 9. He always complains that my boys are lazy, but when his daughter is over she is not made to do anything, including clean her room or wash ... (149 words)

Is the Pill reliable enough to use on its own?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - How effective is "the pill?" My girlfriend is on the pill for other reasons; is it safe to stop using condoms? What is the likelihood of her getting pregnant? She takes it every day without fail, is the risk of pregnancy high?... (42 words)

Is this a creepy infatuation I have... Or is it for real?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Ok, I know have known this girl since as long as I can remember. We grew up in the same church. Anyway, we hung out on occasion, but never that much until I joined the Marines. Then it seemes like every time I would come home on leave, we would hang out. I never expressed any ... (441 words)

How can I show him I love him? Any creative ideas?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4534 days ago

15 January 2006 (F)

- I'm so in love with my bf! Any creative ideas of how to show him it? I want to do something extra special for him as he is always suprising me with his great way in words to explain how much he loves me. All ideas appriciated, thanks :) ... (49 words)

I've grown in a different direction to my former best friend. Now I just can't stand the way she acts!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

15 January 2006 (F)

- For 2 years when I was in primary school I lived in a very small country town (now to those of you who are from oone, no offence intended, I am ONLY speaking generally. I know there are some or perhaps even many of you who are very different to this, but the people I know from ... (380 words)

Guys: How long do you last during sex?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6841 days ago

15 January 2006 (M)

- Question for the guys: How long do *you* usually last, during intercourse? Reply honestly, anon if you like!... (24 words)

Girls: How long does your man last? And how long is too long?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6876 days ago

15 January 2006 (M)

- Question for the girls. Let me set the scene... Romantic evening. Gone to bed. You've had great foreplay and come (at least once!) Two questions: 1) how long would you *like* penetrative sex to last 2) how long does it last with *your* man... (59 words)

Settle for the guy I have (who has no prospects) or look for my first love (who I never slept with)... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello I'm 25 no kids not married and live w/ parents and I am a hairstylist. I've been in an 8 yr. w/ my current boyfriend he's wonderful he's so sweet! But has a low paying FT job and no career education other than high school and I don't feel alot of ... (228 words)

How do I leave my unpredictable, threatening partner? Practical advice required.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I have an unpredicatble partner. He can be loving and caring but also gets angry and threatening. He can be patronising and full of himself. He has a teacherish manner and can be pretty selfish when he wants to be but then he can also be romantic and generous. I've given up... (225 words)

Is selling stories the same as selling sex??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My other half surprised me with a comment the other night and it caused such an argument. He said that all those people (mostly women) who sell their stories to magazines (which can be about anything) are the same as prostitutes. I didn't agree but what do you think?... (49 words)

There is a big age gap and what does he really want?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am 16 years old and have a part time job. About four months ago a new chef started at work. After the 2nd weekend of working together he started texting me. He says he really fancies me and he has even said he is in love with me. The only problem is he is 34 and has a a ... (128 words)

Bikini-line waxing tips, anyone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6882 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I'm trying to get my bikini area mostly free of hair, but I can't find the best way. Shaving leaves bumps and hurts, the creams won't work for the stubble type of hair, and I don't want to have to wait for my hair to get long in order to wax. I need something that either lasts ... (76 words)

How can I change my life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6885 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I am pregnant with my second child, in debt and away from my family. My husband is not happy and we live like roommates and have been for a long while. I am so tired of not having healthy love in my life, what am I to do? I have no where to go.... (57 words)

What if I meet my online guy and he thinks I'm ugly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F)

- I will just sum it up: I met this guy online, we have talked many times, we sent pictures. The picture I sent of me to him was a really good pic of me. So when he asked to see more, of course, I sent him more but they werent that great of pictures. Now he still talks to me, but ... (154 words)

When I ask her out, she says she's grounded or busy. Does she like me or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Help! i like this girl but i don't know if she likes me back. I'm 17, and i've known this girl for about 4 years. At first, I started hanging out with her brother in hopes of getting to know her better, It worked as far as her coming into the room where we were and talking... (155 words)

My boyfriend hides in a shell when it comes to kissing me, and he looks at other girls! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6871 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - well my boyfriend is not kissing me but when people ask us to kiss he does it but he looks at other girls in our school and we have been going out for 3 months now please help me make him come out of his shell what should i do i really dont want to brake up with him ? ... (63 words)

How do I walk away from my married lover and find happiness with the single guy who is pursuing me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6870 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have been in a relationship with a married man for the past 7 months since june of 2005. I met him online when I was living in Cheyenne Wy. He did not disclose to me up front that he was married and he did not tell me until after 3 days I had been here in in Washingt... (352 words)

I'm having sex with my third cousin. Is this wrong?

This question has 105 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Recently i have been having sex with my third cousin, it's been going on for the past month now, i really really enjoy it, and i feel like i love him, i cant get him out of my head. But when im not with him i think about the what ifs and get really down about it. Is it sick ... (112 words)

I'm not in love with him anymore! How do I tell him without him freaking out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - I've been dating this guy on and off for about 3 years now. I just saw him for the first time in 3 months because we live far apart and I needed space because we were not getting along. I love him but I'm not in love with him. I'm not physically attracted to him anymore and ... (97 words)

Feel let down that my husband has gotten lazy, fat and less attractive since we married! I haven't so why has he?

This question has 58 answers - newest was posted 1053 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - Short Version: If I am taking pride in my physical being-looking after my health and wellbeing as well as my sexual attractiveness for my husband then is it wrong to expect him to do the same? He disapproves of other women "letting themselves go" and has stated the same about ... (467 words)

We fight light cats and dogs, he cheated on me with his son's mother, and now I hate the kid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years and I fight sometimes, but when we do it is really bad, screaming , cussing , pushing, He is kinda abusive, but it has got so bad that we do it around our kids. It is driving me up the wall. About a year ago he cheated on me with his 4 year old sons ... (230 words)

My foreskin doesn't retract easily. Will it hurt to wear a condom when I have sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (?) - Hey, let me cut to the chase, my foreskin dosen't retreact easily, if i was to have a comdom on while having sexual intercourse would it still hurt or not? please i need to know thankyou ^_^... (37 words)

We've been friends for 18 years, but she is everything that I want in a girlfriend! Should I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I have been friends with a girl for nearly 18 years and about mid last year I noticed that I would get excited when I heard from her and was going to catch up with her. From then on I have thought that maybe my feelings for her have changed and well they have. She has just ... (165 words)

She let me put my hand on her butt, and she kissed me twice! What does this mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - I've known this woman for about 13 years and now she's seperated from her husband. The other day I helped her with a monetary problem (I loaned her some money) and then I asked her if I could have a hug? She gave me a hug and I put my right hand on her left butt cheek and then... (121 words)

Is her no-sex thing mental or physical? Any ideas to help before her partner explodes?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Hi I have a family member who's partner ( female) is a virgin still, altho in her late twenties. She seems unable to partake in sex and was wondering if there is any physical process that could unknowingly stop her, or would it be a mental thing. They have been living toge... (79 words)

She said that dating me would ruin our friendship! Why did she make this excuse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - this girl i asked out turned me down because she said it would ruin our friendship, is that true or did she just not want to go out with me?... (30 words)

Does she deserve a second chance after having an affair? Will she love me again and not cheat on me this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - should i leave my girlfriend for having an affair on me after one and a half years of true love with her or should i give her a second chance? can she really love me again and never do it again?... (41 words)

Once a cheat always a cheat?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - is the saying once a cheat always a cheat true?... (10 words)

Can we still be friends after our breakup? Ladies, your comments appreciated...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6195 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - You don't know what you got till it's gone. Those words have never rung so true since my girlfriend of two and a half years broke up with me a little over a month ago. I'm going to put as much information as possible in this post, because I believe the more information I give, ... (1342 words)

He wants us to get back together but is still seeing his other woman! Am I right not to trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - My partner of six years split up with me after sleeping with another woman. Soon after, he decided he wants us to get back together. However, I am not convinced of his sincerity. He has not finished with the woman he was seeing. He says he is scared of repercussions as he works ... (148 words)

My girl won't let me love her! She blows me off to spend time with her friends, and plays games when I call her! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (M) - Hi..... I dont know who to turn to but ill make it brief. I am in love with a very special girl. I am 22 she is gonna be 20. We've been through it all. We are fighting constantly.. all the time. And usually it becuase I want to see her but cant. It seems she enjoys... (123 words)

Do I deserve a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - i never thought this could happen to me but i cheated on my boyfriend. since the day i met him i loved him so much. i dont even know how it happened but it happened. my first mistake was not listening to my boyfriend after it happened, till now i dont know why i didnt listen ... (189 words)

Our sex life is dull and nothing to brag about, and we haven't even been having sex that long! Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6884 days ago

15 January 2006 (F) - im going out with a boy iv been with him for 2 months and a bit n we have started having sex but after a couple of days its gone dull and dnt seem like nothing please help!... (38 words)