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writes: Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years, at one time we had the perfect relationship that everyone wonted you could see the love thst we once shared it was perfect some where it went wrong I dont know what has happened to us I would like to get some advice is it me is it him or has the relationship ran its course. I am going through a hard time now I lost my mom to lung cancer July 15 05 Im the only child. My fiance has both his parents he has no idea what im going through I told him I dont know what is going to become of me once my mom passes Can you be strong for me and help me through this and he said yes he promised my mom before she went home that he would never hurt me but that is all he does he tells me that I make him miserable and he cant stand being around me all i do is cry he tells me to get over it and get on with my life all i wonted him to do is hold me let me cry and tell me that its going to be ok he has hurt me more then words can say he spends no time with me he is always gone he has nothing to say to me he tells me that when im away from the house his happy what could i have done to him to make him say that to me he tells me that I because I think he is out cheating on me and he says he is not that pushes him away what do i do i feel so hurt and empty inside i have the hurt of losing my mom and he has no idea how much more he is hurting me he never used to be like this im i the cause of him treating me like this
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): So sorry to hear your loss I know that is so tuff to deal with. Has he told you what you do wrong why you make him miserable? He needs to realize that no matter what, death is so hard to deal with and of course your gonna have your days but he should be doing things to make it easier on you not worse. He seems to be selfish and I think you should suggest counseling or the door because you need someone to talk to especially because you're dealing with a tough situation. Maybe he'll go, maybe he won't, but think about it. Do you want to marry a man that can't be there for you in such a time of need? I mean that's like as bad as it gets death is so difficult and you need all the help you can get to get through it. Gosh, it hasn't even been a year!! What's he gonna do when you have to relive that day? May be he is cheating I would try to find out if you don't get answers soon I would pack your bags he's making you an emotional wreck and you don't need that right now. I wish you the best of luck I understand what your going through hang in there I'll be praying for you!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2006): This guy is a fool. You are obviously a thoughtful and sensitive woman. He clearly doesnt appreciate you enough. You say he is your fiancee. Can you really see yourself spending the rest of your life in these conditions? My advice would be to get out before you are chained to this insensitive creep for life.
Best of luck. Hope it all works out for you.
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