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Archived questions from: 31 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Happy with my engagement and my relationship, I still find myself attracted to another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6865 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I'm engaged and I am happy in my relationship, but I recently felt a strong connection with another woman. I think about her and email her a lot but I am not sure how to deal with it. I haven’t told the other woman that I am engaged, and I don’t what to do. It is confusing. ... (57 words)

She said we needed "time apart", but that came as a shock to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend of 3 months just recently told me we needed some time apart for herself she said she still cared for me and everything and said that she wanted to be with me. This decision for time apart came out the blue to me; we was happy and everything. What can I do to get ... (65 words)

I just need a second chance to remind my ex how much we loved each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6673 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for almost a year but we were dating for about 1 year and 6 months. We broke up due to the fact he did not trust me and said I was a flirt, so basically it was a jealousy problem. He always promised we would get back t... (171 words)

I want my wife to understand that I think she's loveable and beautiful, but she has terrible self-esteem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My wife has such esteem issues from her ex-husband. They were married 15 years, 3 kids. She was a beautiful athletic build, a hottie when she was young. He broke her down so bad she feels all men are the same. She feels like she is being judged and compared. Just the idea that ... (156 words)

Can I choose to move from my father's house in the UK and live with Mum in Canada?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I'm 16, and i was living in Canada for most of my life, until a couple years ago moving to the UK to live with my father (my parents divorced). My mother is still in Canada, and after all this time I've wanted to move back. Only recently have I been able to talk this out with ... (121 words)

Hubby's been texting other women, while I'm home alone. When confronted, he didn't even apologise!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi - am 7 months pregnant and my husband has shown little interest in this ever since we found out, have been pregnant before but unforutnatley lost the baby - he seemed quite excited when we first found out that time. We were both happy to try again for a baby. He is als... (316 words)

My friend of 20 just got engaged to a 68-year-old. What problems might they expect?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me what problems would she would face as a result o... (92 words)

He finished with me because we didn't see each other much. Why wasn't he willing to work at things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hey there. I am feeling quite down/depressed at the moment and I would really appreciate some advice. I am an 18 year old girl and 3 weeks ago my boyfriend of 4 months finished with me. It was long distance as he lives in London and I live in Brighton and I got to see him... (266 words)

She had sex with a married "rebound" guy for 6 months before we met. I don't like it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6674 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - Hey, I'm on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. It's something that I have caused because, before I met her, she went on a rebound with this married guy (one of her managers) at work (who also slept with loads of other women at her work). He had a lot of influence... (232 words)

Is this post-natal depression, or something else?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6851 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - This isn't really about relationships as such. I think I may be suffering from post natal depression. Are there any signs I should be looking out for? I got really bad baby blues when my baby was 4 days old. I wanted my partner with me but he was out and hadn't taken his phone ... (187 words)

I am so unhappy that I drink alcohol and cheat on him..why can't I just leave him? Help.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5893 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am 22years old and have been in a relationship now for over 6years but have been unhappy for years. Ive tried dropping hints, didnt work. I told him, he promised that he would change and make me happy, which worked for a week, then he went back to his normal self. We have ... (290 words)

Just don't know what to do about the pain of breaking up...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I need help urgent. My gf has told me that's it after we split for a few weeks. She has told me it's not working. I feel like I have been shot in the heart. I don't know how I can live without her, I really don't. I can't go 10 minutess without breaking down. What am I gonna ... (69 words)

How do i get someone to like me for what I am?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6218 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - how do i get someone to like me for what i am?... (12 words)

My Mother has said if I don't gain weight I can't see my bf...this is so unfair! Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Ok this a very random question but i need help. My mom and i keep getting into arguements about my weight. Im 20 years of age and i weigh about 107 - 108 pounds. My mom is nagging me about my weight and is constantly telling me that i need to gain weight our she is going to ... (272 words)

My partner want to give birth without medical help...this is dangerous and I am worried. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - how do i cope with a woman in labour? she's 27, but wants no medical interventions - i told her this was dumb and she could be endangering her and our unborn baby's life but she said that if she went for any checkups or anything then they might intervene with the birth. i'm ... (189 words)

I'm very pregnant and he doesn't want sex for fear of hurting the baby. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i am 6 months pregnant with my first child. 5 weeks ago i had some abnormal spotting and my husband panicked and rushed me to the hospital. everything was fine - our doctor found it all quite funny really (me and my husband running in at 2am my husband still in his slippers and ... (142 words)

He dating his ex and she's pregnant with his baby, but he wants to be with me too. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - i met a lad, my brothers mate when i recently went away to visit my family.We went out and we kissed but nothing else. When i returned home we kept in contact and he was saying that he really like me. I am now moving up to this place ( bearing in mind it is not for him its for ... (114 words)

I test him to find out what he's up to but its causing problems for us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - for some reason i hate it when my boyfriend spends time with his mates and always text him to see who he with, what he up to and where he is. but for some reason he sees it as a problem that i always have to know where he is. its not a trust thing cause i fully trust him. this ... (83 words)

How can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been spending time apart but i feel i can't trust him. I've spoke to my mum but it not do any work. I planned a night in for us both and he called me and said he's not coming. He was out playing football but what sort of match lasts 2 hours long just ... (77 words)

I still have feelings for my married ex bf? Help me understand-why we see each other?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I have seen my ex boyfriend after 20 years hes still the same and we have had fun togther hes married though I dont know whats going to happen between us both.He has a small child also and hes doing well for himself too so why do we see each other and want fun still. I have ... (61 words)

I'm insecure and worry he'll talk to other girls..I need help desperately with this!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi have im 20 years old and i have dated my bf for about a year. I have an insecurity problem with myself do to the fact that i have been cheated on before. ( I mean don't get me wrong i know im a very pretty girl but there is always that scared feeling) I need help with g... (148 words)

He asked me...then told me he asked someone else to the prom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hey well this guy that i really like asked me to the prom and of course i said yes but then yesterday he comes to school happy as anyhting and i saif wow your pretty happy and he said no not really n asked wats wrong and he said his dad's an a hole and then im like y u so happy ... (109 words)

I am going on the pill..any advice on the side effects?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I am planning to go on the pills. Juust curious about the side effects? And also, once started on the pills , after how many days/months/weeks is it safe to have sex without protection? Thank You... (39 words)

Because she is not my sole beneficiary..she claims I am not making her top priority. Is this reasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years and have been living together for about a year. We have decided to marry but have NOT set a date. Recently, our plans to marry have run aground when I told her that I had made changes to my beneficiary designation. ... (214 words)

My husband told me he's "not in love" with me...how do I help us find that spark again? Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 7 years and married for 3. He has recently announced he's not 'in love' with me anymore, he has just seen me as a best mate for the past few months. We are still living together, but in seperate rooms. We went to a counsellor which... (189 words)

He didn't answer my important question...does he really want to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - hi there i need advice from people i am in love with this really wonderful man but i asked him the real question " do you really deep down inside want to be with me?" the only reason i did that was because his moods to me lately have changed dramatically and not for the best ... (88 words)

I blame myself for not doing what he wanted...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - Please help. I am gay and have just split from my boyfriend of six months. He is 21 and I am 33 but our age gap has never been a problem. He chased me from the start. Since the beginning of this year he has not been coming over as usual at weekends, just perhaps coming o... (411 words)

Does she still have feelings for me and should we start seeing each other again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6311 days ago

31 January 2006 (M)

- I was seeing this girl for a few months. She turned round to me one day saying that she just wanted to be friends because she had feeling for her ex boyfriend. Although she said she still had feelings for me as well and like us equally. I ended up falling out with her cause of ... (161 words)

I hurt him badly and ruined my chances of getting him back! Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6471 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi I have a major problem! My ex boyfriend and I were together nearly 3 years. We both live with parents and I found he was very much under his mother's thumb as she has been divorced from his dad for many years. He lives with her. I live with both parents. I am 2... (641 words)

I'm too sensitive and over-emotional! I'm not the person, I used to be and I dont like the person that I've become.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I need some urgent advice, I'm too emotional for my own good, I'm too sensitive,and get hurt easily, or offended, dependin on the situation, there are days where I'm fine and any critisim i take well because i makes me improve myself, but lately when im tired, i feel depresses, ... (201 words)

I want to know if he likes me though I'm with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - hi there! it seems that everthings turned out different since i have known this guy.i met this guy where i used to work. we are in one department.the one big problem is i dont know if he likes me or not? i want to know the answer. nahihirapan na kase ako. actually, im already ... (152 words)

What about the age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6152 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - Hi Im a 16 year old who is in love with a 35 year old man, we hwere close friends since i was 12, but i started to see this guy as more than friends, then i told him.... i couldnt believe it, he felt the same, but never acted on it cos of the age difference, he thought it would ... (217 words)

I went too far with the guy I like. Now I realise I'm too young for that sort of thing...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6846 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - OK...Well I'm a 14 year old 9th grader in High School. I met this really cute 16 year old who's an 11th grader. Well I was sooooo naive and young in love. I went to his house one night and it led to something more. I regret it so much because I'm just too young for that kind of ... (75 words)

Friends are hard to come by now that I'm in uni. What can I do to meet more people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F)

- Hello, I am 19 years old female, who is going to college full time and working part time. Since I graduated high school, I have lost contact with ALL of my friends. I have tried to join clubs at my college to meet some new people, but that failed. Also, I don't have much time ... (143 words)

I witnessed him flirting with a woman at his workplace-he saw me too and ignored me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - My husband and I have been married over 5 years with 2 young children. Need advice. I thought our relationship was very good, excellent in fact. We communicate, we're honest, and respectful to each other. Except for something I witnessed today. I went to his work to pick ... (518 words)

I really regret kissing an older woman, but I'm afraid to tell my girlfriend what I've done!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

31 January 2006 (M) - I got very drunk and kissed an older woman. I can't remember it properly and I would never have done a thing like that sober. I feel really guilty and ashamed. I am fearful about telling my girlfriend cos I love her so much. What should I do?... (48 words)

There's 20 years between us and he's married, but it's only a bit of fun. Should we leave off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

31 January 2006 (F) - I'm 17, and after a drunken night I ended up fumbling in a back of a taxi with this 37 year old married man. We got intense but we didn't sleep together. I have started seeing him every Sunday, and things are getting more intense as time goes by. We both like each other, flirt ... (95 words)