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writes: Is it normal for me to feel compleatly jealous because my husband looks at porn? I have always known he is not attracted to white girls(which I am) and that he prefers latino girls. I KNOW that he loves me, but he downloads only latino porn. I feel I cant satisfy his needs. Recently his porn was geting in the way of our sex life, so i confronted him, and now he tries to have sex with me almost every day, to satisfy my needs, but he is taking so long to cum... way longer than before. I just feel sad when we have sex because I cant make him satisfied near as fast as I used to (before we had our own place and he was living at his grandmas and couldnt really look at porn that much there). How can I deal with knowing he is looking at pornos of girls he finds more atracted to when we are always home at the same time?
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reader, Danielle934 +, writes (10 February 2006):
Danielle934 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Well, things have gotten better and worse. BETTER: he stoped looking at it so much and he stopped downloading videos (now he only looks at pics. WORSE: He sill looks at it when I am Home, and assumes Im too stupid to know what he is doing (I can see the reflection of the comp screen from the hallway, but when I walk by the room he closes the window and pretends to be looking at something else, but that something else is always the same page). He never wants to make love anymore, and last time we did he was only hard for the 30 seconds it took him to cum. I know that it is better that I can at least see him trying to not upset me, but the thing that bothers me most is that he cant stop looking at it while I am at home. I have confronted him several times, but he always plays stupid "what are you talking about". I have gotten to the point where I have not been sexually attracted to him in weeks, but I dont think it really matters because he never tries to make love to me anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006): i have had this problem too. men just cant see how it makes us feel. think ive sorted it though, ive told him i dont care what he looks at when im out but if im in the house it is degrading to me that he looks at porn in other room. if he feels like sex why cant he just come to where i am instead of getting off to strangers. thing is im still checking at what hes been looking at try not to but just cant. feel like im mad sometimes.
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