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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We've come clean about our affiar, but now he thinks he has to choose between me and his job!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm currently in a 3 yr relationship with my boyfriend, Jonny. But recently I've started going out with his boss, Ant. I've really fallen for Ant but he is engaged to another woman, Selena. Ant and I have just told our partners about the affair and Selena has left Ant, whi... (141 words)

Is my flirting, chatting, emailing, girl's-home-visiting boyfriend, cheating?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

2 January 2006 (F)

- been with my boyfriend for 2 years, found some emails from him to another women he is doing a class with, there is alot of flirting in these emails, such as him saying how he finds her hot, there was also one email from her saying that she had a boyfriend now and she hopes that ... (85 words)

Friends of the girl I fancy have me down as a stalker!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - Hi im 14 i met this girl in school, i really like and i want to kmow her better but all of her friends keep me away from her and telling her that i'm a; salker ect. please help me find a way around this? ... (46 words)

Phone sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - What really is PHONE SEX?... (5 words)

I feel that I already know the answer, but still... The guy I want is already in a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a problem that I feel many people that I do ask only have one answer to. I am in love with a guy at work - a guy which is in a 5 year relationship. Of course, the only answer/advice I have had is to forget about it. As i intend not to cause his girlfriend a... (106 words)

Am I stoopid for dating a 37 year old married guy? Age 16...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. i am 16 years old and have been dating a 37 year old married man for nearly a year now. He i adore his children and i am friends with his wife. We have recently told each other that we love one another and i've stopped seeing each other for him an... (163 words)

Feel like my pet allergy came between me and my boyfriend and his friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, I am 19 and he is 6 years older than me. On new years eve he invited me to go round to his friends flat for the bells, as i hardly know his friends i declined the offer. However changed my mind after he persisted. I forgot about ... (195 words)

Only said "yes" to stop him feeling bad... Now how do I dump him nicely?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6858 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - A boy likes me but i only like him as a friend but he has asked me out and I said yes just to get him off my back. Now were going out and im not very gappy how can i dump him and not do it horrible?... (48 words)

Can a woman abuse a kid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F)

- I need some advice on something I'm a bit confused about. It might sound a bit silly but here goes . . . When I was 6 years old, a woman did sexual stuff to me. Is this sexual abuse or does it have to be done to you by a man? Thanks xxx... (60 words)

Her ex-husband buys her expensive gifts still...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I've been dating someone who is divorced with two children (Age 6 and 9). We argue during the holidays (or gift giving time ex. birthdays, mother's day) because she see's nothing wrong with receiving a gift from "her children" but bought by her ex-husband. I don't have a ... (106 words)

Do I need help? I like to put things up my a**...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - Hi. I have a bit of a wierd problem but I feel it's time to get over it. I masterbated alot as a teenager as most guys do, but recently I have been turned on by putting things in and near my a**hole. I mean i've always been interested in woman so I know im not gay, but I ... (100 words)

A little white lie is haunting me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old. I have been with my partner for a little over a year, he is in his 30's. We have been in love from pretty much the fisrt time we met! My problem is prbably the hardest thing I have had to deal with, When we met he was informed that I was already 18 when in ... (175 words)

Should I tell him about my secret kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend, but I recently kissed another guy at a party and feel terrible about it and really regret it. My boyfriend dosent know and I dont want him to find out, but I feel incredibly guilty. If I tell him there is no doubt that he will break up with me. What should I ... (58 words)

I am shy so wait for women to come to me... But what complications does that bring?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I'm pretty shy when it comes to approaching women and i have cursed missed opportunities because i don't know what to say or do. But when women approach me, we get talking ok and i do get their phone numbers but i can't hold on to them. It's normal for the man to chase the wom... (80 words)

In my spare time I look at pictures of women... I'm an 18 year old girl. Confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6099 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I'm not sure whats going on with me right now and I'd like some help to find some answers. I'm an 18 year old female and I'm attracted to guys but I find that in my spare time I look at pictures of women and when I go to clubs I'm usually surrounded by girls buying me drinks ... (186 words)

What on earth should I do about these obsessed girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - hey.. i am a 15 year old guy.. i have little self confidence or should i say little confidence infront of girls.. i wont say i am good looking. i have a question.. nearly every week, i hear from my friends about a new girl liking me.. i tend to have many close girl frien... (187 words)

How can I earn my preferred guy's trust back after I double-dating with another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - i was dating these two guys at once. This went on for about 3 months. The one i really care aqbout and wamt to be with for the rest of my life found out about the other one. But the other one won't stay out of mine and the good ones relatinship. all he does is tell lies ... (120 words)

Help me decipher the girl I fancy's feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I like this girl at work but she is in a bad relationship.She lives with him and also have 2 kids together,I have been doing a lil flirting she has too she teases me on my age she calls me old man,I also gave her a nickname ,everytime i call her by her nickname she puts on this ... (294 words)

Should I date this girl while she still has issues with her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I have been talking to this girl for a few months now. We get on fine and as friends and she has agreed to go out. The trouble is when i first met her she was in a relationship up to last year. I have never asked the question when she did split from him but she has said that ... (115 words)

His ex wife has offered to have sex with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - The man I am dating and plan to marry told me right after we met, that he would occasionally take his kids and exwife to dinner so as to let them know that both parents love them and that they can get along. I thought it was commendable that he kept such an open relationship ... (226 words)

Is this right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - is it wrong to loose your virinity to man twice your age at the age of seventeen... (17 words)

When my in-laws come and stay they practically take over the place!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6872 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I am really struggling for some answers on how to deal with my situation. My wife and I are struggling with a certain issue which on this subject has really driven a spike between us. My wife's parents regularly come to visit at least twice a year from out of state and sta... (218 words)

The idea of sex with my husband actually turns me off now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - Married 7 years, have a toddler. My husband (41yrs old) always had a super low sex drive. It was almost always me who initiated sex. For at least two years now, I find that I no longer desire him. I've stopped asking for it. We are less kind to each other. The idea of sex w... (68 words)

If I keep emailling, I might be flooding him, but I don't want him to think I'm not interested!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F)

- I have been talking to this guy online for about the past two weeks. I email him like every other day and he usually writes back. I really, really like him. He is so different than anyone else I have ever met. The problem is I think I am scaring him away because I email him a ... (79 words)

My man is obsessed with hygiene... Could this cause problems with our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6835 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - I'm in a relationship going on two months that's going great, except I've discovered a "quirk" that I'm afraid may be indicative of larger issues... My guy is concerned about cleanliness and hygiene to an extreme; that's ok, I appreciate those qualities, but he refuses to eat ... (209 words)

Thinking of leaving my longtime partner because I think he's seeing his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6898 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - My man of eight and half years cheated on me 5 years ago. He has a child from this relationship who I have not seen since she was 1 yrs old. The other girl lives 20 minutes from us and I think they are still seeing each other. She is constantly around his family. I have exp... (135 words)

I have been suffering depression for around five years, now I've given it to my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - dear cupid I have suffered with depression for about 5 years. I have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year and now he has depression. I am on anti depressant and my depression was well managed. Although I understand how he is feeling and I want to be there for him... (179 words)

Is the smiley girl from my college into me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I hope my question get answered cause i been confused. First off, let me tell you that this has been going on for 5 months straight. All right, here's the deal, I am in college and I get the feeling that this woman in my class likes me or is playing games with me, b... (872 words)

So scared my one-time friend is going to trash my relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - OK, this is kind of a complicated story, but here goes. I moved from a big city to a small town. I met this girl we'll call "becky". i didn't hang with her much but the guy she was dating had the total hots for me. I want to make it clear the he came after me and one night we ... (374 words)

Been married a few months and I am getting divorced!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6533 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - Iam currently in the process of divorcing my wife. She is a great woman, but I am truely in love with someone else. The woman that has captured my heart we fight and argue a lot lately and now we are not speaking at all. I am still going to leave my wife. Even if things d... (264 words)

I feel terrible for kissing my best friend's boyfriend. Should I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - Recently when I, my best friend and her boyfriend have all been at social events, her boyfriend and I have flirted and touched each other when she isn't looking etc. We haven't gone further than kissing on the lips but it isn't right and I feel really bad about it now. Shoul... (80 words)

My penis is 5 inches and I'm too shy to have sex! Is that too small?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5344 days ago

2 January 2006 (M) - i am a male and i have 5 inches penis and i am shy to have sex . is it very small ? does girls will run away because it is small.... (32 words)

What's with all his mixed messages? Is he playing mindgames with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6897 days ago

2 January 2006 (F)

- Dear Cupid, Me and a guy have been flirting for over 18 months now. I like him a lot but he really makes me angry sometimes, he only texts me very very occasionally, but when he does it is as if he really has the hots for me, and when I see him its like he can't get enough... (217 words)

It really bothers me that my man isn't affectionite unless he wants to have sex with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - My man is'nt very affectionite unless he wants to have sex with me it bothers me cause I try to give him kisses or rub him or what ever but he never does it to me unless he wants sex. even when we go out drinking he hates P.D.A's I hate it I could care less who see's us and if ... (75 words)

I want my ex back but he thinks he can't give me what I need. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

2 January 2006 (F) - I want my ex back and i don't know what to do. Heres the situation- I previously posted a question about how my ex can't get back on his feet job wise and self esteem wise. He told me that he can't get himself back on his feet and juggle our relationship at the same time. We ... (363 words)

I need some tips from women on how to get my gf turned on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6867 days ago

2 January 2006 (M)

- hoping some of the women on here can help me. just wondering what exactly gets you in the mood, what are your biggest turns on and what not please don't be shy now as i've tried everything to get my girlfriend in the mood but nothing seems to work so i'm justing hoping s... (64 words)