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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I feel invisible. Are women treated with less respect after they become mothers?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Are women treated with less respect from society once they become mothers. I dont know if its just me or if this is common but I have noticed that since beoming a mother it seems that Im totally disregarded by society in a lot of ways. It kind of feels like I dont even exist. ... (111 words)

Is oral sex intercourse? Did my buddy lose her virginity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Why is oral sex considered inter course? This is a question my friend asked me after she had given a guy a Blow job. But isn't this kind of the breakipoint between fooling around and sex? I wanted to tell her,"Hun, I think you just lost your virginity by going to far." But ... (118 words)

Don't know what to do for the best... My ex has "social" issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (?) - I have recently seperated from a 12 year marriage and my X is in the police force. He is still coming around on his days off and we have been trying to sort things out as I know how much he loves me. My delemia is that even though I still love him too I am feeling like I am ... (500 words)

We split up. We got back together. But in the "split-time" he got a girl pregnant! Now what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6879 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 years now. In the last 5 months we were not doing so good so we split up thinkkng we were'nt going to be together anymore. Well I moved on to someone else and so did he. We've been together for the last 2 months and things have been great ... (99 words)

My mom treats me like a naughty schoolgirl... And I'm 21! And not naughty (usually).

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Help! My mom won't talk to me anymore. She hasn't spoken to me in nearly a week. She is angry because I am 21 years old and I'm tired of being treated like I'm 13, so I told her what I thought about her practically oppressive parenting style. I posted on this before, ... (205 words)

He calls me fat, then I hit him... And now I have my eyes on the scaffolding guy. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - hello im 22 and ive beeen with my boyfreind james for 4 years we have a lil boy together but he calles me fat and i nasty to me then i lose my temper and hit him.recently ive anouther lad called jason who i really like and he asked me for my number i dont know what to do. so i ... (120 words)

I'm a girl... But I think I should be a boy... But I have a boyfriend... Confused, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I'd like to start by saying, I'm a *very* confused teenager. I've felt like I should be a boy for a while now, but my long term boyfriend tries to make me feel comfortable as a girl (Although, he HAS accepted that I want to become a boy, and has said after we've lived together ... (166 words)

Just broken up with my boyfriend but now I've fallen for his best mate! I feel terrible, but what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (?) - I've just broken up with my boyfriend of two years in the past few days, but I have a problem. The past few weeks I've spent alot of time with his friend whilst I was spending time with my boyfriend, and over time I've started to fall for his friend. I had such a good time with ... (197 words)

Are we both being stubbon fools for not saying "I love you"?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Help! I am thinking about telling my boyfriend that I love him, but I'm afraid that he might not say it back, or that I'll scare him off! (He hasn't done anything in particular to make me think this; this is just my own paranoia setting in.) We'll be dating for one year as ... (500 words)

Are my small boobs putting him off? And is he cheating because of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - hi well me an my boyfrined been goin out for a month an 2 days we had a great sex life but now we lie in bed and i inisiate sex but he says dnt touch me i went through hes phone an there was a message sayin where r u x and cum at 10 x i dnt no wat to think as i feel i can trust ... (101 words)

They say "it's the little things that count" but I'm really bad at the little things! Advice, please...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Hey everyone, i think getting this of my chest will help me and any advice will be greatful. OK, very soon my gf is going to dump me because she states i don't care, love her, etc. I love her so much, i have just been 2 her house 2 say sorry but she is angry so i left it 4 now. ... (307 words)

How can we get my friend to join back in our gang?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Please help me. I have a really old friend who I have known since the age of 3. We've been best friends from then up until now, and we are 14 now. When we first moved up to highschool, we drifted apart because she made new friends and so did I, but we still stayed close ... (333 words)

What advice can I give my heartbroken friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Hiya, I am very upset because one of my closest friends has just split up a with a boyfriend that she has been going out with for a very long time. I knew she loved him very much, and he loved her. They had sex, and my friend's sex drive became uncontrollable, when she ... (182 words)

Told my boss that I was attracted to her, but I think I've stuffed things up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6914 days ago

12 January 2006 (F)

- Hey guys, I am a 17yr old female, and I have been updating you on my love for my female boss. Well, gosh, think I really stuffed it up this time! I told her how I felt after New Year, as I felt like I need to get it off my chest, going in to a New Year etc. However, I made ... (178 words)

Can't tell if my online-dating guy just thinks of me as a chat friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F)

- I met this guy on a dating site about a month ago. We have been talking ever since, and I really like him. The problem is I think he just thinks of me as a friend. Like, the other day he was complaining to me about how when he goes to the bars and the girls that go there. I... (134 words)

My boobs aren't quite perfect. Is that going to matter to my boyfriend when he sees them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6766 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Hello. I am a 16 (almost 17) year old female, and I'm *really* self-conscious about my body. Not about weight, I'm reasonably happy with that, but it's things like my breasts, which I absolutely hate! I've tried to make myself feel better by looking at photos online of other ... (154 words)

I don't want to move to Australia, and I can't make my parents see reason!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (F)

- I have to move to Australia. Help! I'm 14 and really happy with my life. I love my school, my family, and especially my friends. I'm gonna be starting my exams in under a year but still my parents want me to move. It really sucks! I've tried to reason with them and asked th... (109 words)

My husband is very moody and depressed..It's very hard so should I just walk away from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I am a 34 year old woman and have been married for 15 years. We have two children. My husband has always been a very moody person, if he is not depressed, he is angry. I get no love, sex or emotional support from this man. He blames me for every thing that goes wrong in his ... (104 words)

I found naked pics of men on his computer! I'm shocked..what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Mrs Confused.............. I have been with my partner for 4 years and we got married 2 years ago, i thought i knew him well, but just before christmas i found naked pictures of "men" on the computer so i started deleting them, but every time i did a new would appear, i can`t ... (82 words)

It really bothers me that my girlfriend had sex with a real sleaze before me. How do I get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - This is really hard for me to talk about because I’d rather not even think about it. But I need to know how to cope with this, for the most part I’m over it but it always keeps coming back to play on my mind. My current girlfriend, whom I love dearly, has only had one sexual p... (271 words)

I'm 38-he's 25..his family won't meet me..his mother thinks our relationship is 'disgusting"! Need advice

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Older Woman Younger Man I'm 38 and my bofriend is 25. We have been dating for 1 1/2 years. We love each other dearly. The problem is his family... they dont accept our relationship and refuse to meet me.. his mother said that our relationship is "disgusting". We've broken up ... (164 words)

The guy's almost perfect, but the sex is over in seconds -- and comes with fits of laughter!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I have just started seeing someone who seems perfect in every way... until we had sex, which was just awful and so disappointing. He spent a long time giving me oral, which was very nice, and very considerate but left me begging for penetration... which was over before i... (125 words)

I can't stop thinking of my ex. Should I risk my current relationship for my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6898 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I'm realy confused! I'm going out with a guy that i think i love but lately i've been thinking about my ex . I've been dreaming about him and i cant stop thinking about him. should i risk my current relationship for my ex? ... (44 words)

Why is my girlfriend so happy to be around me, if we're on "a break"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6916 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Myself and my longterm girlfriend are on a break at the moment (she asked for the break). It has been going on for a little short of two weeks now. I met up for a chat on Monday and we ended up in my apartment kissing on the couch. I suggested jokingly that we should kiss but ... (120 words)

One joking comment from my boyfriend and I've suddenly felt a cascade of doubt and worry!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F)

- Last week, my bf who I was planning to marry one day (!) said something that really upset me. He made a joke about me and how he 'doesn't like me' and it really upset me. I know it's not true and he laughed about it, but it made me so upset. Now I'm having serious doubts a... (267 words)

Not sure what to do next. Can a guy fall in love with you over the Internet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6889 days ago

12 January 2006 (F)

- I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years but we have been drifting apart, always arguing, and the relationship is boring. No sex hardly etc. Anyway I have been in contact with a guy on the internet and he has blown my mind. We seemed to hit it off straightaway. We know what eac... (121 words)

What did I do? He seemed interested, then he just disappeared and started hanging with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Why are guys so fickle? This guy I didn't even know at school (I’m 16) sought me out and started talking to me on instant message. We kind of hit it off and he came over and hung out. All his friends said he liked me. Then he started never being on the computer and I never ... (307 words)

I'm 21 and my parents don't want me to leave and live my own life! I want out of here...help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Howdy, need some advice, I'm too nice for my own good, I cant say no, I do everything I'm told, my mother is way too emotionally dependant on me, and when I want freedom to go out and travel to another country I cant because they wont let me go, i'm the last of 3 kids at home, ... (195 words)

He chased me but now has decided he wants space...what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Long story short. My boyfriend is finishing up with his divorce (which by the way I was unaware of for the first 3 months- they've been separated for 2 years), we have been together for 7 months. After a drunken night on New Years (i was the drunk one) he decideds that he needs ... (128 words)

Her dad won't allow her to be with me...what can we do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Hello, I'm 21 and my g/f is 16. Here's my problem: We have both been a part of the same social group for months, with friends ranging all in between our respective ages. I had met her parents once before when we had a big group hang-out, way before we even liked each other... (448 words)

Lots of non verbal behaviour...does this mean she likes me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - dear ladies..i have just got out of a relationship of 5 yrs(10 weeks ago now) and have just met a lovely woman, we have been out on a couple of dates, and theres a lot of the flicking of her hair, playing with her hair, knee pointing at me..do i take this as a sign she likes ... (80 words)

I'm not sure if I'm ready to get married or whether I should find out what the world has to offer me...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4934 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Okay, I am hoping someone out there can give me some advice... cause I am a bit confused. I am 25 years old and became engaged after 5 years to my boyfriend recently. Since I became engaged, I am feeling more and more clostraphobic- and am avoiding making plans or wearing my ... (188 words)

I've lost friends because he's overprotective...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Hi im am 16 and have lost most of my friends because my boyfriend is very overprotective! What can i do to stop him from being like this and getting my friendships back?... (33 words)

When he leaves to go back, we argue much more...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I'm.17yrs old.hes..20 I knew him b4 he went to the army hes been in the army for a Year/half now. We've been inGaged for 9months.*Long Distance is harder than I thought.I just dont understand. When were together we dont argue but when he leaves we argue alot more.He thinks I'm ... (128 words)

I will never forgive her for stealing from me..but why do I still have feelings for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am a 27yr old married mother of 3 young children. The thing is I fell in love with a close friend of mine two years ago during that time she almost destroyed me and my family by stealing my personal docments for id fraud and also taking various things like money jewelry ... (262 words)

I like this girl I used to date..but I don't know what to say. Can anyone help me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6917 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - im having a problem with my ex-girlfriend. the problem ive been with her 2 times and they only lasted no longer then 3 weeks. ive been getting to know her really really good, i guess she thinks as me as a really really good friend, well ive like her again, and im thinking of ... (108 words)

I asked her out but she said it would ruin our friendship. Should I ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - i asked this girl out, she said it would ruin our friendship but i really like her so how should i ask her out again.... (25 words)

I feel horrible for violating her need for space. Please let me know if there is anything all that I can do to mend things between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me a month ago today. She said she needed her space. I violated that space by sending her mails VIA internet. I realize that I totally messed up, and I let her know that. She said It's good that I realized that I messed up but it doesn't change ... (271 words)

I really like her so should I spill my guts, or try and let things work out slowly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Well, this might take some explaining first. I had been seeing this girl years ago (4 to be exact), and I really messed things up. Basically to the point that I never saw or heard from her again, until last year near Christmas. This was huge for me, I hadn't stopped thinking ... (187 words)

We broke up but she gone cold on me and I don't want to lose our friendship...what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6918 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, It has been just over a week since my relationship ended. We parted on good terms agreeing that it was for the best. We were together for 6 years but for a year now we were stuck in a rut and I think the relationship got boring. She started distancing herse... (247 words)

I dont trust him, but I love him. I dont want my relationship to go bad, thinking this way. Help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6919 days ago

12 January 2006 (F) - I have been Hurt in the past and ever since that its hard for me to trust any guy. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we have been friends before dating. I always feel like if i leave him alone or give him his own space, it will give him the oppertunity to ... (113 words)

How do I get over my gf breaking up with me for my ex best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6919 days ago

12 January 2006 (M) - How do I get over My girl friend breaking up with me for My Xbest friend? we got back together but Its hard to deal with my Xbest friend of 20 years now out of my life forever... Tell me what to Do?? ... (43 words)