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writes: Just to give you an idea of who I am. I am 30 years old and married to my high school sweetheart. We have been together for 13 years. She is bisexual, I have known this since we have been together and we have had a threesome when we were young. Now, years later, she just wants women alone and without me. Together it was fun but now that I am out of the picture I don’t like it.I don’t feel right in telling her no because I don’t want to take that part of herself away from her.What should i do?
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (10 January 2006):
Whether it is same sex or different sex it is still cheating. The fact that she is bi does not give her a license to cheat "as long as it is with the same sex." If you are uncomfortable with her doing this you need to let her know. The most important thing is that you set clear lines of what is acceptable, be it sex with girls with you in the room but not alone whatever. This is your marriage too, you do not have to accept infidelaty just because she is bi. Good luck.
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