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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He touched me inappropriately, while I slept.I've told friends but they don't seem to care. Am I over-reacting?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6862 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - no one seems to of taken what happened to me seriously, i was touched up while i was asleep , i woke up to find him looking and touching, he didnt know id woken up, thought i was just stirring so he covered me back up but carried on stroking my boobs and hair, i told my husband ... (185 words)

I think my 12 year old was masturbating. I feel I should be aware of this..so how do I ask her?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I have a daughter who is over 12 yrs now and knows most everything about the human body, its functions, about sexual intercourse and has also started her periods. A few times, on my way to bed, when I go in to straighten her blanket (she rolls around a lot), I saw her hand ... (129 words)

It seems to seedy and wrong but my boyfriend loves to mb over page 3 girls!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Someone please help me. I dont want any of you Men to brand me as another silly woman getting her knickers in a twist about nothing and I dont want any of you women to just say Im right hes wrong, I need to know other women feel the way I do and that all men are the same! ... (449 words)

I have a gay crush on my younger 19 year old co-woker

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - I am 23 year old male and in a position of authority at work. I have never been in a relationship and have very little experience. Recently I have developed a huge crush on a younger 19 year old male colleague. He is straight. Is it wrong to declare my feelings to him ... (115 words)

When his child's Mother phones him-he leaves the room to talk to her. Why is he doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years and he has a kid already. I know he has to keep in contact with his baby's momma because of their kid. But I just had to ask why everytime he uses the phone he has to go somewhere else in the house to talk to her. Please! Can ... (83 words)

My ex gf and I broke up 3 months ago but we still hook up. Should I just move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - I am needing help on what to do? Me and My ex broke up about 3 months ago because she said she didnt know what she wanted. We were getting married this summer. Well about three weeks later she started seeing someone a lil bit. All during this time she called about once a week ... (153 words)

My man prefers porn to me..he's hugs me and is affectionate..he just doesn't like making love to me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - BF prefers porn to me. What can I do? Have been together 1.5 yrs, living together 7 months. Were having sex 2x/week but then 1x/week and now once every two weeks. He's affectionate but doesn't want to make love and becomes annoyed whenever I bring it up. I always have to ... (181 words)

My husband is an international businessman... But while pregnant I fell for my OB/GYN doctor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6889 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - HELP!! I feel like I'm losing my mind!! I'm married 14 years to a wonderful man whom I love very much, but who more and more has me on an emotional roller coaster by being either moody, distant and cold or (getting rarer) happy, attentive and passionate. I had never thought ... (582 words)

I'm seeing my bf of 2 years in a different light, over birth control issues. Am I being over dramatic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

4 January 2006 (F)

- Iv been with my partner for a couple of years but I'm beginning to see him in a different light. The problem is he wont use condoms anymore,he says they dont feel right so he suggested I'd go on the pill which i did. Anyway,i have tried 3 different types because the 1st lot ... (166 words)

My husband asked me if he can sleep with other people..I am horrified! But I'm wondering am I being a prude?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - my husband asked me this week if he can sleep with other people and would i mind as our sex life has gone flat. we have been married for six years and together for eight. i was horrified now i wonder if im just being a prude? am i?... (50 words)

How do I approach this girl I like? Should I do it now or wait until my acne and greasy hair and eye infections have gone? Please..advice needed.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6531 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I'm 14 years old and I really have a crush on this girl at school, I can't stop thinking about her, she's really cute and pretty, and she has a great personality, she's kind, sweet, funny and intelligent. I try to be kind, friendly and funny to her on MSN, but though I... (411 words)

I have a baby face and look younger than I really am..I need tips on how to look older.

This question has 88 answers - newest was posted 4496 days ago

4 January 2006 (F)

- This may seem like a odd question so don't take it too seriously. I am almost 19 years old and I look as though I am 16. I have a "baby face", and it sucks. Of course, this attracts the wrong type of guy, sorry but 15 year olds aren't my type. Anyway, what can I do to make ... (83 words)

A small percentage of people invited to my party showed up..what could be the reasons that more didn't show up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Had a wonderful party on New Years Eve but feel annoyed and disappointed with some of my friends and relatives. Sent out invites to a new year's eve party - only 36 out of 105 people came to the party. Seems a low number to me - is that the usual percentage for a party? The ... (404 words)

I'm 13 dating a 24 year old man... Is this cool?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Im 13 and starting to get on "WELL" with a 24 year old. Im 13 and had met this 24 year old guy and we have a hell of a lot in common. We feel strongly for each other. And we have kinda been steady for while. Im a extremly mature 13 year old,and i am mentally older, i meen ive ... (115 words)

Really lonely... Should I go after the guy who is dating my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I am really lonely. I have never admitted this to anyone. I have friends and we go out all the time, but I feel like something is missing in my life. Which if you knew me that would sound completely insane because I have everything going for me right now; I am doing great in ... (176 words)

Can my girl's mom stop her seeing me? She is 19, I'm 21...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriends mother doesn't want to be with her daugheter. What do i do? I am now 21, and she is 19. She lives with her mother and goes to college. Can she see me? Can her mother have the state police after me. I live in PA, is there any laws? We have been together for two ... (101 words)

My fiancee cheated on me...so do I stay with her or leave this relationship?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Hi ive been in my relationship with my fiance for 2 years now just recently i found out that she was cheating with another guy i know she loves me and i feel like she made a mistake the question i have is should i give it a go or should i get out while i can so i dont get hurt ... (63 words)

Love my new boyfriend, but in bed, I can't help comparing him to my much-better ex boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6553 days ago

4 January 2006 (F)

- I recently got a new boyfriend and I'm worried that our sex life wont keep me as satisfied as I was with my ex. Although my new guy is older, he can't last as long and doesn't have a very high sex drive compared to me at all. I love him so much and don't regret leaving m... (176 words)

I'm too controlling and get angry easily at my bf...how do I stop being this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - ive been in a relationship for just over 5 years now but its coming to an end as im too controlling if my partner wants to go out with his mates or go up to the pub with his mates i always have an issue with it, so i tell him hes not allowed to and he'll either give in and not ... (153 words)

She had a dozen pictures of her ex on the dresser and we've been together 3 months. Red flag?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6891 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - In the past 3 months I got back from Iraq and have been "dating" a girl that I have known for years since high school. Currently both of us are 24 and just trying to see how this relationship could work out. I'm new to relationships on a recent aspect and was concerne... (137 words)

I think the boys' mother is trying to turn them against us! We're at our wits' end...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my live in boyfriend for two years. He was married for 20 years when his ex wife walked out on him and 4 young boys, to live with her boyfriend. At the time the boys where beside themselves with grief. It's taken the dad a great deal of time and a lot of love ... (417 words)

We fight and fight for silly reasons. I've tried to change him, but no luck!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I knew this guy since 6 months ago. I love him very much but we are always fight. One day passes and everything seems to be wonderful; the next day we fight for a silly reason. The problem is that he is very sensitive and he got a hot temper too. I tried to change him so m... (202 words)

We're at different stages. First I was distant,, now I'm cuddly, but she just wants fun and excitement!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Hi there I am confused about my relationship. We have been together for just over 2 months after having a break for 6 months. (we were together before for 11 months) The first time round the relationship deteriorated because she said I didn't show her enough attention. This... (165 words)

My husband cheated twice this last summer, but thinks I should be over it by now!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I found out a few months ago that my husband of over a year cheated on me at least twice over the summer. I had moved out of our apartment but we sort of reconciled and he acted and talked as if we were back together. He went away on a trip and when he came back I found ou... (195 words)

After she told me she loves me, I found out my girl kissed two of my best friends...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - I tried to get over my girlfriend's past. I thought I did. I'm with her now, and I cry every night. She kissed 2 of my best friends on the lips in her past when she said she likes me. I feel sick and weak, I can't be with her. I love her and don't wanna lose her. What do I do.... (62 words)

I want more than friendship from her...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6737 days ago

4 January 2006 (M)

- Ok so I know this girl. Shes 27 and she is AWSOME. I can't get enough of her when Im around her and we connect on all levels. I've had this major (you prolly can't fathom how big this crush is) on her. Now we used to work together and we've still carried on a great ... (231 words)

She has 75 guys in her address book... And I just hate to share her with any of them!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Some one please help... I have a small problem with sharing. My girlfriend and I have been friends for many years and have always wanted to date but something has always stopped us (distance being one factor). We are together now and are extremely happy and madly in love. ... (273 words)

Does my willy have too much skin? What will my MSN love think?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6221 days ago

4 January 2006 (?) - Hi, i've just turned 14 (december) and have met this girl through over mates of mine. I havn't seen her in person yet but she wants to meet up soon. Many girls on msn have said i look "fit" but this girl says she "loves" me. But the only thing is that when i get an erection... (133 words)

Worried my boyfriend will do something awful if I leave him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - i'm 24 yrs old and currently dating my boyfriend for nearly 7 years. I'm having an affairs with someone else he seem to knew about it and started to cursed me saying that he would want to kill me and the guy if he saw it on his own eyes.I broke up with him a few times but every ... (155 words)

I took back my husband after 15 years apart... Now he's impotent and I feel I've made the wrong move

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I am a 57 year old woman. My husband and I have been back together after 15 years apart. He ask me to forgive him for the wrong things that he has done and if he can make it right. We have one adult child together. We have several problems but the wrost one is that he is away ... (160 words)

My ex husband wants me back... Reason say walk away but my heart says otherwise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6889 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I am so confused. I was married for 7 years. We have two young children. About a year ago I found out that my husband was unhappy in our marriage and wanted out. After he left, I discovered that he had been cheating on me. Shortly thereafter I found out his mistress was ... (235 words)

I have a great new job-I'm back in school-I'm back with my husband...so why do I still feel unhappy? Help me understand.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I had my daughter with my boyfriend when I was 20 but we broke up. I have been with my husband for 5 years, since she was almost 1. We have been married for a year and a half. I left my husband for another man a few months before our first anniversary. I found out he was ... (232 words)

He wants to give a new love interest a try at dating-but why doesn't he want to try with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I've liked a guy friend of mine for quite some time. We've known each other for around 5 years now. I didn't really keep in touch with him after graduating, but he made an effort and we started meeting up again (more recently this year). He recently told me someone set him up ... (178 words)

He's put our relationship on hold so he can pursue a past love who is getting divorced.Do I wait or move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Ok, here it is. I met this guy 2 months ago and everything seemed perfect. We were CRAZY about each other. Then out of the blue, he stopped calling. He finally emailed me and told me that the one person in his life that he had always dreamed of being with, but never had the ... (240 words)

I split with my gf of 4 years a couple weeks ago...now I want her back! She's unsure-what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6895 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - need advice,split up with my girl friend of 4 years 2 weeks ago, a decision we both made but i sugested it, all though it was very hard for me. but now i know how much i love her and want to get back with her. I have told her this but she is unsure at the moment and says it ... (77 words)

My bf and I always had great sex in the past...but lately it's not the same. Need advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6896 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - hi im 18 and my boyfriend is 20 we have been together for a year now,our sex life has been great + wild,we both have a big sex drive, but the past few times we've had sex,just hasnt been the same were not enjoying it, we,ve tryed different sex positions, used toys ect, but ... (64 words)

I'm developing feelings for him but he already has a gf...what should I do if he makes a move on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6892 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Okay I have known this guy for about 10 years and we have always got on well, he would always ask me out when we first met but I always said no because I felt that we where friends and I didnt want to lead him on when I never saw anything happening between us, basicall... (163 words)

He's 21-I'm 15..is it weird to be friends with him? How do I act around him to make it seem like I dont fancy him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6896 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I kinda have this problem with a lad that i know. See iv grown up with him for pretty much my whole life. My cousin and him are real good mates, and my sister sort of too. I, for my age, and mates with him too, but not on a high level. More of aqcuantinces. But see my sis... (466 words)

My husband seems to think I should just "get over" his infidelity because he said Sorry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I discovered my husband had an affair one year ago. We are still together but he treats me so badly. He is constantly nasty- and emotionally abusive. Everything is my fault and I am rubbish. Everything I read says how "sorry men are and how they beg their wives to forgive ... (73 words)

I'm so terrified about sex I can't even use a tampon. How could I ever have a baby?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I have a huuge problem that I'm not exactly ready to face. I have a problem with sex. Im 19 and my boyfriend and I have decided to wait till marriage to have sex. I'm fine with that, but I'm dreading the day we do get married and I'll be obligated to have sex. I'm so... (175 words)

Lots of sex, but no orgasm for me, because my boyfriend is too quick! What can we do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6889 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I've had sex with my boyfriend many times, but he comes too fast and I've never really had an orgasm. Can someone tell me what should I do or how to delay him from ejaculating so fast?... (37 words)

Am I a wuss? I just want my girlfriends to be happy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6894 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Why can't I keep a girlfriend? I'm an attractive and very outgoing guy who is very carefree in relationships but I am unable to keep a girlfriend for a significant amount of time. A serious and successful relationship is the one thing I am looking for that I seem unable to ... (229 words)

Feel like I'm emotionally cheating by being attracted to my friend's husband!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5981 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Help! I'm married and am very attracted to my friend's husband. It didn't start out like that, but we have taken our kids to the pool a few times and we share many interests, and occassionaly he will say things like "I should have married you" or he'll tell me how his wife, my ... (235 words)

I want to protect my son from being hurt or involved in a sexual relationship with the girl he's seeing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Hi, My name is Sue and I have a little problem: my 13 year old son really likes my friend's daughter (who is 16). They are always meeting up, even though they go differents schools (about 3 times a week). They are always at each others' side and when they're not, they're on ... (359 words)

My gf wants a break, but she says she loves me. I don't know what to do!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

4 January 2006 (M) - Last week my girlfriend suggested that we should take a break (no time limit) claiming that she feels a little smothered and she needs her space. We have been together for almost two years and we had been doing very good. She says that she loves me and I am the perfect ... (155 words)

I'd love to date the guy from my church...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6896 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have quite a problem. Well, I go to church with a guy who seems perfect. I've known him for quite some time. He's 6 (sometimes 7) years older than me though... Him and I are just friends right now and I would have no intention of actually being romantic at this time. ... (129 words)

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This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6893 days ago

4 January 2006 (F) - I just wanted to say a belated Happy New Year to all the people who visit this website, whether it's people asking for advice or the agony aunts who give it. The things being achieved on this site are amazing - I think it is the best site on the web! It has been a source of ... (71 words)