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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We're in college and going to different schools. My girlfriend thinks that it would be easier if we weren't together. What should I do?

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16 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year now... we both are in college at differnet schools and now she is saying she doesnt kno about us. and she is sayin it would be alot easier on us if we werent together....what should i do?...is she just upset we are apart ... (63 words)

Sometimes I feel I'm just his booty-call. What if I ask him where we stand?

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16 January 2006 (F)

- I was in a relationship with a guy for about 18 months. In all that time we just kept splitting up and getting back together because he never knew what he really wanted. We have always stayed in touch with each other, and have known each other 3 years now. We sometimes s... (428 words)

I'm older than my girlfriend, but she has slept with more people than I have. Should I feel bothered by her lustful past?

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16 January 2006 (M) - Hi everyone. I'm a twenty-something guy, and have been dating my 21 year old girlfriend for 2 years. I love her to bits, and I know she loves me just as much, and is completely trustworthy. My problem is that we are probably a little too honest with each other. She has s... (247 words)

Am I doing the right think by breaking up with this "kissing" guy... Or not?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Two days ago, exactly, I broke up with my boyfriend after finding out that he had cheated on me. Yesterday I went to his house to get my shoes and sweater. While I was there he was crying, and telling me how much in love with me he was. He said that he had kissed that other ... (315 words)

Is he interested in me? Otherwise, why would he been looking all the time?

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16 January 2006 (F) - I'm 14 years old going on 15 and there's this boy I've took a fancy to lately. Me and my mate went into the town centre a few weeks back and he kept looking at me and I was like, 'OK, why is he looking at me?' Then he suddenly came up to the bench me and my mate were sat on a... (388 words)

I got a sick feeling, checked his ATM statement and email, and found he was pricing escorts. Is he lying when he said nothing happened?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm 28 and have been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We love each other a lot and have our ups and downs but work hard to iron things out. During the holidays, I went to visit my family, got a sick feeling in my stomach, checked his email and found that he had cont... (133 words)

I told my old flame that I am still interested in him, and he responded with a metaphor! What does it mean?

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16 January 2006 (?) - i wrote a while back and this is an update, but with a further question. i have been back in touch with an old flame for 10 months. he has another girlfrind of one year but is not in love with her and sees no fruture with her. i still like him and want to prussue my intre... (214 words)

Is cheating contagious?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi... If a boyfriend constantly has friends that are either cheaters or way younger than he is, is this a warning of what our relationship will be like in the future?... (34 words)

My girlfriend is very self-conscious and tries to hide her emotions. How do I get her to relax and open up to me?

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16 January 2006 (M) - I've been seeing a girl for 6 months now. she is very self concious about her weight. she also doesn't show affection and always tries to hide her emotions. By her own admission: She can't pay compliments to me or say nice things but can about other people. She thinks it but ... (230 words)

I am having sex with the new CEO of my company...and loving it! But I'm married, and I think my husband has caught on...

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16 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am a 45 y/o white married female. Six months ago my company hired a new CFO who is African American. After one month of working with him we have some type of sex almost every day. I love it from him and can not get enough of IT from him. However, it must stop-I t... (82 words)

I hate the anxiety and paranoias I feel about my relationship..can anyone advise me?

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16 January 2006 (M) - I am 27 and have been together with my girlfriend for 5 years. We are very much in love and care for each other dearly and often talk about getting married. Recently I have been getting paronoid attacks about her. That she might be losing interest in me, she may be seeing ... (130 words)

Should I ask her out??

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16 January 2006 (M) - Hi, help me please. I really fancy this girl in school and we are both in our last year. I think this girl knows i fancy her and I want to ask her out but i no she likes another boy. People still say i have a good chance with going out with her and i have never seen this person ... (88 words)

Would my boyfriend rather be with my friend, than with me?

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16 January 2006 (F)

- Dear All, I really need some help, because I really feel like giving up. I've been with my boyfriend, 'James' for 8 months now. He truly is the most wonderful guy I've ever met. I met him soon after coming out of a long-term relationship. James and I hit it off straight... (346 words)

My baby's father would rather break up, because he can't deal with things I did before we met!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I'm 18 and I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year and 2 months. I love him with all my heart and we are going to have a baby in 3 months. The thing is that he always thinks that I'm being untrue to him and we can't even have sex without him stopping and telling me he can't... (255 words)

Phone sex? Shaved or trimmed pubes? This is all new to me... help!

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16 January 2006 (F) - Well this is my first time having sex and I waited for the right person, but now I'm scared because I don't know if he will enjoy it and will he fit. I'm scared to ask him if he like girls wih hair or no hair down there because I already keep mine shaved and trimmed. I don't ... (91 words)

I feel like his sneaking looks at porn was cheating!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I have been married for 2 1/2 years and we have been together for 10 1/2 yrs. Recently I found out my hubby has been looking at porn and I have found this very difficult to deal with. I confronted him and he denied it. He hasn't appologised to me or anything. I feel very bet... (107 words)

After some hard losses, my boyfriend just seems restless and bored with our relationship!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I have been dating this wonderful man for just over 5 years. After the loss of a family member and a pet everything seems to have gone downhill. He his always been somewhat pessimistic but since these losses he has become bored with life and miserable. Nothing excites ... (157 words)

How do I go from being attracted to a woman who lives in my building, to actually asking her out?

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16 January 2006 (M) - There's this woman that I'm attracted to that lives in the apartment just below me. The problem is that I would like to ask her out but I have no contact with her except if we run into each other coming or going from the building. Should I slip a note under her door as a way ... (94 words)

I'm 15 and looking for ways to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend...

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi there... I'm a 15 year old lass and me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for around 6 months. We sleep together (and my parents are aware, I talked to my mum before anything happened). We have a very great and active sex life, but we seem to do the same ... (142 words)

I've tried buying condoms and sexy underwear, but my husband just isn't interested in sex! He says that cuddling and making love are nasty... Please help!

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16 January 2006 (F) - i am living in a sexless marriage. my husband doesnt seem to have a sex drive at all. the last time we had sex was last august and then he went limp after a couple of minutes after we tried. the time before that was february - ive tried buying condoms and sexy underwear but ... (139 words)

My boyfriend was upset after his uncle died, so he kissed another girl (with tongues)! Does this count as cheating?

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16 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 2 1/2 years kissed another girl (with tongues)the other day, he found out in the morning that his uncle had died and he says he was upset, so he went with this girl we both know to a coffee shop where they chatted for a bit before kissing and continued to chat ... (110 words)

He was in a serious relationship while he was "hooking up" with me for casual sex. I feel like he has no respect for me... How should I react?

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16 January 2006 (F) - I had dated my ex-boyfriend for about a year and a half. The last four months of our relationship we were both miserable and decided we needed to take a break. We broke off the relationship but still were "hooking up" once a week or so. He constantly told me how much he ... (277 words)

How do I stop myself getting frustrated and upset with him??

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16 January 2006 (F) - me and my partner have been together a 10 months im only 20 and half way through our relationship i was so easy going . now he drinks less for me cause i hated that . we see each other practically every day. i seem to want and need all of these things i didnt need before. when ... (191 words)

How can I get them to see me as girlfriend material?

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16 January 2006 (F) - i'm 16 and just wondering from a guys point of view, what is it that most guys look for in a girl at this age? I know everyone is different, but it seems like the girls who act all flirty and slutty, or the ones with big boobs are the ones that all the guys like. People say I ... (177 words)

I need him but he's jealous and threatening and he wants me to have his child...help!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I'm 15 years old.. And I met and fell in love with a 22 year old. He never asked me to have sex.. It was my choice to give it to him. Now that were sexually involved he talks about me havin his child.. And he does things like take the condom off during sex. He's also ... (149 words)

I'm worried he has gotten engaged to me for the wrong reasons...

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16 January 2006 (F) - hi i know a lot of people out there are going to be saying how stupid i am, but i really hope someone, anyone, can give me some advice please!! ive been going out with my partner now for 4 months, and we got engaged over christmas (i can already hear the, "what were you t... (514 words)

How can I resist the temptation of an affair?

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16 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I could really do with some advice. I'm in a happy long term relationship , My partner is older than me and has a strong personality . We have the odd disagreements about things but nothing out of the ordinary. Our sex life could be better but that is because of medicati... (202 words)

What the hell is it with these hungarians and their hatred of jazz?

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16 January 2006 (M) - with regaurds to this girl at my work, reminder she keeps smileing at me and going red every time we chat as she is hungarain girl, i just got in from work but i asked her if she wanted to go to a jazz club beacause she likes jazz and she said " i caint " as she is hungarain ... (72 words)

Find it hard to relate to people but want to change... What can I do?

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16 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I am worried about my personality as i find it hard to relate with people. I am 24 yrs. old male and don't consider some people (esp. those who are ugly) as worth of glance. I just keep by head down and talk with them. Same for people whom i feel to be unworthy based o... (120 words)

The MILF factor?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Does being a mother make you lkess sexy or attractive to men??? This came up in another question where someone said that once you become a mother you are less employtable and less attractive to men and its got me thinking...If it does make a woman less sexy why....(Im not talk... (57 words)

How do I extract our valued friendship from a dating relationship that's not working?

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16 January 2006 (F) - I'm too nervous to break up. Though I'm pretty sure it's not working on my side (I find him too soft, too much of a pushover; I often worry he won't stand up for himself if he needs to, or that I may accidentally hurt his feelings being too honest and him not tell me about it ... (268 words)

My boyfriend denies that he was shopping for escort services, but then why would he have directions to the place?

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16 January 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I saw a bunch of weird numbers in my bfs cell phone. Then I went on our computer and saw that he was looking for escorts, and guess what else I found? That the weird numbers belonged to escorts. There was one in number called a few times. I asked him about th... (200 words)

One minute we're friends, and the next we're having an affair! I'm so confused... Does he like me or not?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I'm extremly confused I meet a guy and he has a girlfriend, we have started seeing each other as friends although we have slept together a few times but are not anymore, just hanging out... Don't understand what is going through his head one minute where mates then having a... (96 words)

Even when I work to support her, my girlfriend seems to put her relationship with her ex before hers with me!

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16 January 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now and I love her more then anything. She is amazing and she loves me so much. The problem is I can't get over her past. I know this is standard. A lot of guys have this problem. She has been with 5 guys(not including me). 4 of ... (1124 words)

I love her, but she doesn't want to be more than friends, and she likes a guy who doesn't like her back. What should I do?

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16 January 2006 (M) - i love this girl, we're not going out and i think she likes this other guy but he told me he doesn't like her, so what should i do? we have alot in common but i asked her out once and she turned me down, but i think if we went out it could work, we both are alot alike and are ... (72 words)

I want to have deeper, more meaningful conversations with my boyfriend. Any suggestions?

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I wanted to know how a lot of you other guys in relationships are able to ahve meaningful conversations and I mostly wnat to know what types of questions to ask yourthe person you're dating to really see what kind of character they have. I find that it's difficult for me to ... (175 words)

The thought of my boyfriend with someone else makes me ill, but the thought of being with one of my guy friends makes me happy! Please help!

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16 January 2006 (F) - So I have been with my B/f for 7 months, but i started Just Talking to one of my guy friends and have become attracted to him, my B/F went out of town for the weekend, and the new guy that im attracted to and i stayed on the phone all night, i am really starting to like him, ... (141 words)

My love for my man has faded. He could give me everything and I still don't think I'd feel the same...

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16 January 2006 (F) - I am 21 years old, and have been dating a wonderful, considerate man for 1.5 years. He still opens car doors, remembers my brothers’ birthday and tolerates “chick flicks.” For the last 8 months, I have lost most of the “loving” feelings for him. I often pick pointless fights ... (165 words)

He is all I want in a man, and I know he's looking for a girlfriend, but he doesn't seem to like me!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I met this guy about a week ago and now I want to see him and here from him more often. He made it clear to everyone around that he wanted a girlfriend and I know i want a boyfriend but he does not seem to like me. when I met him he seemed like the ticket but now since that ... (113 words)

We moved to Florida because we thought it would help, but my wife now hates everything about her life!

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16 January 2006 (M) - We have been married for 6 years and we have a 5 year old daughter. This is my 2nd marriage and my wife's 3rd marriage. Our ages are 42 for myself and my wife is 38. The first 5 years of our marriage was simply put was outstanding! This past year has been real tough on the b... (541 words)

I know it's wrong, but I have feelings for the guy I used to sleep with, even though we're both in a relationship with someone else...

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16 January 2006 (F) - Hi, whilst I had broken up with my boyfriend I meet a guy with a girlfriend although he didn't tell me this i confronted him and he admitted it they have been together for 6yrs and have a child together. Stupid me continued the relationship and slept with him a few times. a... (123 words)

He's a drug addict, but I love him and I promised his kids I wouldn't leave him. Now I'm pregnant, and I don't want a drug addict around my baby! Help!

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16 January 2006 (F) - I have a problem and don't know what to do I got involved with man who I love so much but he is a drug addict his first wife and left him with twins they are 11 now and his daughter got me and her father together now i had a miscarriage on march 12, 2005 i blame him for that ... (234 words)

I'm in love... what to do?!

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16 January 2006 (M) - i'm in love with this girl, what should i do... (10 words)

I gave my sister's good friend a Christmas present, and neither of us have heard a word from her since! I think I've ruined their friendship, but I really like this girl!

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16 January 2006 (M) - I really like my sisters friend, they have been friends for years, they met because they used to work together and have been like best friends ever since. Im older than her but I like her she used to live near us but then moved away to Cyprus and I went over for a holiday an... (152 words)