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writes: I am a married woman in love with a married man. Our feelings are mutual. His wife is very controlling; she wears the pants! I am in love for the first time with this guy, it's driving me crazy. What should I do?
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reader, lu lu +, writes (9 January 2006):
you have to really think about what you want, is your marriage really working out, is this new man prepard to leave his wife for you, does he love you, sit down and talk to him to find out what he wants, it is really up to you and no one eles. good luck
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (9 January 2006):
Im afraid you are on a hiding to nothing even though he declares undying love for you. Whatever he tells you about his wife is exaggerated to a point. They have a strong bond and he might give you all the cliched excuses such as:
"We are like brother and sister"
"We dont have sex anymore"
"I can't leave until the children grow up"
"She is terminally ill"
"She will commit suicide if i leave"
"She knows all about us and is happy with the situation as I think she's got someone too"
"She has all the money and controls me"
"She just wants my name but couldnt care less what i do"
Dont expect a future guy but enjoy the feelings you are going through and live your life on a daily basis.It will good for as long as it lasts.
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