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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My 15 year old son got suspended from school-for fighting..how do I deal with his aggression?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6853 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I am a father of two. My 15-year-old son has been suspended from school over allegations he started a fight in the classroom which resulted in an innocent boy going to hospital. He refuses to discuss why he has aggression with us, and we don't know what to do. The schoo... (80 words)

My sister and I are happy with our bigger sizes, but mum just won't leave off about how fat we are!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6852 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hello, me and my sister have both put on weight. We both used to be a size 12 we are now a 14 - 16 but are happy and content. The thing is, all the family are slagging us off. My mom finds it embarrassing that we have put on so much she is forever telling me that I could be... (240 words)

I don't think it's fair of my ex to ring me up drunk and tell me how much I mean to him...especially when he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my ex were together, on and off, for about 9 months. He split up with me 3 months ago, because there wasn't anything wrong with me or our relationship, but he didn't want the pressure of a relationship. I'm still struggling to get over him, but we stayed mates and we ... (401 words)

I've fallen in love with a co-worker, but she has a bf! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6349 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - recently i have started giving one of my colleagues a ride to work most days - (she is quite new in the office) as soon i we met we just clicked and talked for ages about everything - i think i have fallen i love with her - only problem is she has a bf who she lives with. ... (74 words)

My husband refuses to stand up for me after his cousin and I argued. I am heartbroken!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I love my husband dearly we have been married for only 3 months, but recently his cousin and I got into an argument. I had asked my husband not to bring him to my home until he apologizes to me for going too far. I will not do it and he told me that he will never choose ... (86 words)

He said awful things to me and times were hard-so why do I want him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - i split up with my ex 3 months ago after being together off and on for 5 years. we had more bad times than good and he did and said some foul things to me. i am so angry with myself though because i still love him and want him back. the good times are what i keep thinking ... (81 words)

My gf cheated on me and we broke up-so how do I resist the temptation to go back to her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - a couple of days ago i caught my girlfriend of 4 years, cheating with another man. it was friday night, she went out with her friend to a bar. she called me around 2:20 am and said she was on her way to my house, just down the street from my apartment. around 3:30am she stil... (169 words)

I really like my BF but i like the other guy, too.What should I do about this situation

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6866 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - hey guys.As u all know i am 12 and in the sixth grade and i thought u guys could help me out with this problem i have. u see before me and my boyfriend hooked up a few months ago their was this boy in my homeroom that kept asking me if i would go ... (251 words)

One of my Dad's friend's sexually molested me while I was sleeping-not sure if my parents will believe me. What should I do?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - please help.i dont know who to ask about this...my parents often have big parties with many of their friends. its always very "uppity" and full of people i cant stand. everyones always drinking, and quite often since there are many spare rooms in my house, many people will stay ... (374 words)

I'm tired of being in limbo-should I just back off this relationship, once and for all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (M)

- My girlfriend and I split 9 months ago after she said she was confused, spark gone, space etc. Since then we have been every few weeks but only because I initiated the contact, she has never contacted me but never declined my offers to go out either. Occasionally, I would ask ... (216 words)

I still have feelings for my ex who is the Mother of my sons. But I'm married now to someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My Xwife and i were married at a young age. We were married for six years and together maybe 2 yrs of the six.Currently we have been divorced for 9 years and I am currently married to another for 8yrs.I am not happy in my marriage and find that I still have very strong feelings ... (89 words)

Does turning her chair mean she likes me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - A girl in my class keeps sitting in her chair sideways to face me. I don't know whether it is just coincidence but this has happened in French and English. I like her too. Advice asap!!! ... (36 words)

Has anyone been though this problem? My boyfriend's foreskin is so tight it splits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend has a problem with his penis which is affecting our sex life. He is 31. Basically, his foreskin has got very tight, and when he pulls the skin back it splits (very painful for him). He has seen his doctor four times about it, and is now waiting for an appointment ... (185 words)

Don't want to break things up, but my boyfriend and I are drifting apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I really love my boyfriend but since starting university we seem to be drifting apart, i have sort of put this down to me maturing quicker than he his but it is starting to aggravate me as he is sometimes very narrow minded and no longer very passionate. I want to try new ... (101 words)

I'm 16 and ready for a baby...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year. He is 20 and I am 16. It's a great relationship and I really love him. He was a family friend before and the feelings grew for us over ages - we never acted on them because the age difference wasnt appropriate until I was ... (214 words)

Update on a question for 'short and sweet'... or anyone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hi this is for short and sweet, Thanks for replying to me last week (23 January), it was nice to know that someone else is in a similar situation. Just to let you know a little bit more about my problem, no im not seeing anyone else and as far as i know (and hope) he isnt (we... (217 words)

Should I date a guy outside my race, even though my family would be opposed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6857 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Dear Reader, I have meet this guy, (very nice) and he has asked me out and taken my number. There is only one slight problem that I am not so sure of, he is black. It's not that I have anything against black people but my family does not agree with black and white marriges. ... (99 words)

I feel terrible about my past bad choices, and thinking about what I've done hurts my wife, too!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6861 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I hope we can get some help here. I am married about 6 months. We are in our fortys and in our second marriages. We are sure we are perfect for each other in all ways. Our problems stem from my past before marriage about 20 years ago. I lived for the moment and that included... (429 words)

I can't seem to get over the hurt of my boyfriend chatting to other girls...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6849 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. The problem is, during the first few months of the relationship, I found out that he was talking to a lot of girls online, and not just a friendly chat. Well obviously this hurt me, but he has a way of making me forgive ... (101 words)

I'm a grown woman, but my dad still wants to guide my love life! Any thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F)

- I have had to return to my parent's house following a divorce, although I am waiting to return to my own home, which should be in about four months. They have been very supportive and we have managed well even though I have become a born again teenager in their eyes. My seve... (502 words)

I need to go from my normal submissiveness to being more dominant in the bedroom...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend wants me to be more dominant in the bedroom and I'm not sure how to do that. I am normally submissive in nature but for him I'm willing to try to let out the dominant side. I'm not sure how. Any help is appreciated..thanks... (47 words)

Third time lucky, after his text cheating..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6861 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Boyfriend of 2 years who has sent texts to another girl about a year ago, has now sent texts and phoned a different girl, but pleads to stay with girlfriend pleading his love and wants desperately to stay with the girlfriend. Should she ever trust him again and give him a 3r... (103 words)

Something's missing, my boyfriend tells me. He just doesn't know what!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and living together for the last six months. He is the most amazing person and I love him to bits. We have a wicked time together and he knows I would do anything for him. Recently he says that there is somethi... (85 words)

My friend was a victim of sexual abuse. I want to do whatever I can to help her cope...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hey well, last week wasn't a good week for me and I need your help. I found my best friend! I mean I'm really close with her family and everything and her father was having sex with her and her fourteen year old little sister. By the way, she's fifteen and her mom read her sist... (100 words)

Her ex bf's made up lies about her and I stupidly believed them-Now we are have broken up! How do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - Me (21) and my girlfriend (19) loved each other. She has two ex's who make up alot of stuff about her. At first I stupidly accused her of these. But they are all false. I trust her with my life and have never been so happy with someone, she is amazing. But now she has broken u... (175 words)

He wants to go slow in our relationship-but I want more time and committment from him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Hi I am seperated from my husband of 25years and have met a guy who has never been married or had any children. He had fallen in love in said and the girl broke his heart. He is reluctant to get involved with any one too soon and wants to take it very slowly which is fine wit... (100 words)

I don't feel the same anymore...what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out with each other for nearlly 2 years. I loved him once but i do not feel for him anymore. I would love to spend the rest of my life with him but i just can't figure out what is missing. I have been thinking it would be better if we ended ... (72 words)

He said he loved me...will he come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - We IM'd, talked on phone, and visits to see me. Every morn. as soon as we woke up we had to say "I love you" before the day started. Every night we talked til we fell asleep. This went on for a month and half, then one morning he asked for a break. This hurt me, so we broke up. ... (159 words)

We are 13, friends but I want to go out with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (?)

- I really fancy my best friend. He is moving to Australia in the coming year and I really wanna tell him how I feel before he goes. We are both 13 and at the moment we are really good friends and tell each other everything which is why I don't think he would go out with me. I've ... (93 words)

How do I win her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6641 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend left me 5 months ago and wouldn't really explain why. I asked her if there was someone else and she said no. We were planning to get married but weren't engaged. After she left me, she didn't want me to call, come over or email her (4 months ago). I sent her a ... (131 words)

Does physical chemistry have to be mutual to happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - A Question in general... On the experience do you think that chemistry between two people can only happen when there is a deep mutual attraction or do you believe in one sided chemistry? Can one individual feel an intense connection and chemistry whilst the other perso... (84 words)

Should I leave him as he doesn't want sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Me and my husband have been married for one and a half years now, and for the past 3 months he has refused to have sex with me. He is pleasant and cuddles and sleeps in the same bed. But no sex? I am confused and very very sad. Should I leave him? ... (53 words)

I am 15 and my boyfriend of 25 is married but now I'm pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6250 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I am 15 years old and my boyfriend 25. I just recently found out that my boyfriend of 4 months is married. I saw him with his wife and son but i dont know what to tell him. I am pregnant now with his child. What should i do?... (49 words)

I'm in a relationship but I'm confused because I feel a strong connection to another woman...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6868 days ago

30 January 2006 (M) - I'm engaged and I am happy in my relationship, but I recently felt a strong connection with another woman. I think about her and email her alot but I am not sure how to deal with it. I am very confused and any suggestions would help.... (48 words)

If we take a break what might happen as a result?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been togather for a year. He has started college and our relationship has become stressful. We fight constantly about stupid stuff. I cant take this anymore. I love him and he loves me. I have a promise ring from him as well. I need a break but i get ... (84 words)

I just can't be friends with my ex! I'm in love with him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - Went out with this guy for almost ten years, and then broke up for six because he cheated on me. We became friends for about one year, and he expressed interest in having a serious relationship again. I decided after a year that I wanted to try to have a relationship. Then he ... (143 words)

I think that he thinks I'm involved, but I'm not. Now I live nearby, and I wonder if he feels the same attraction I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6870 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I know a guy from work, he's about 10 years younger than me. Last May we meet at a baseball game and we talked for a long while and he kept staring at my eyes. I was married at the time and my husband had just told me he had a girlfriend and was leaving me, but I never to... (195 words)

My ex and I moved back in together and he's very flirty. But then he tells me I'm not his girl!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6869 days ago

30 January 2006 (F) - I am madly in love with my ex we just recently broke up about two months ago. We were about to get married and it seemed like he just got cold feet after that things just went downhill. After the breakup I was completely hurt. Then I found out he was dating someone but it f... (383 words)