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Husband masturbates to porn when we have sex every day!

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Question - (28 May 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 18 years old. My question is why does my husband masturbate watching porn on tv if we have sex every day. Iv seen him masturbating when he thought i was asleep. What can i do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010):

Men are visual. We like to see the female body and seeing two people have sex is exciting. It's nothing against you. I too have a high sex drive and can have sex and still want to masturbate. There isn't a problem unless the porn is homosexual, then he may be lacking that component in his sex life. Something that he won't be able to talk to you about. Usually the porn will satisfy that need.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2010):

Masturbate with him. It is nothing agaist u. All men do it, and must women. Its ok. It a part of life. Just let him know he dont have to hide. Do u masturbate? no one is perfect. When he is not around, i'm pretty sure u do.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntYour husband masterbates while you are asleep... if you have no problems with your sex life, I would say thank him. He's a kind husband, he lets you sleep and goes and takes care of himself, and still loves having sex with you every day.

It's hard to keep a man sexually satisfied when he is young and has a high sex drive. You'll get no sleep if he has to wake you up everytime he has a hard on. He's letting you get some rest so he can love you again the next day.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010):

sounds about normal to me. dont stress too much.

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A female reader, @bC  United States +, writes (29 May 2010):

I think it's sick and stupid don't worry my does the same f'ing thing and I'm leaving him for it ... I hate the fact the he's looking at other girls ... The only girl he should be thinking about is you and only you

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A male reader, Problem.helper United States +, writes (29 May 2010):

Problem.helper agony auntHe's a sex addict if you want him to stop watching porn just do it with him more :)

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2010):

I don't think it is terrible that he is masturbating every day if he needs to do that for his sex drive, but I do have a problem with the porn. Why not ask him to masturbate while watching you shower? Or offer to masturbate him.

Read all parts in this series, it really helped me focus my masturbation. I no longer masturbate to the pictures of airbrushed women, I always, always, think of my wife when I masturbate.

http://www.iamhusband.com/search/label/Masturbation%20In%20Marriage

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