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writes:MODS NOTE: OP's own title.Okay first off I'm new to this site, so if its in the wrong category, my bad. Anyways I had this teacher 1st semester. At first he was like a normal teacher, then after the 2nd semester started he started to act all funny and weird around me. Every morning me and my friends would hang out by the heater in front of his room, like we always do. He would be coming in to unlock his door and every time he would walk down the hallway to his classroom he would look at me and smile. Then when he would walk past me, again which is every morning, he would get up close to me when there was plenty of other room to walk. One day my friend said "I need to go ask Mr. Dude a question. Come with me" He was walking down the hallway and she stopped him and asked him something. He looked at me first, back to her and answered her question, then back to me and had this nervous looking smile on his face. In the 10th grade we have a writing test so we got paired up in different rooms. Out of all the other teachers I got him. Oh, and I wasn't alone either by the way. Well after we we're done taking the test my friend and I were talking minding our own business. He came up to us completely ignoring my friend and shoved these papers in my face. He said, "Look what your going to have to do when you have me next year" I said, "How do you know I'm going to have you?" Then he just shrugged his shoulders looked at me and smiled. A few days later I was at lunch and he was outside with another teacher looking through this magazine. I looked out the window to see if one of my friends were coming to eat and I saw him kinda turned his head a little in my direction and looked at me. Then the other teacher looked at him and said something then he turned back around really fast then pointed to something in the magazine. Then he turned slightly back to me then smiled. If you're wondering, yes I like him too. Well I actually love him now and I've loved him since November. I have no idea what to do. I got my schedule today and I DID get him again for this year. I'm kind of confused on what's going on. I'm 16 and he's 25 maybe younger. He's a really awesome teacher and he's never tried to touch me or nothing.Thanks a ton too. Oh, and I'm sorry if this is confusing. Thanks again.
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reader, Skiie +, writes (5 August 2010):
Skiie is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks (:
You're probably right, I'm readying too much into this.
Thanks again.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 No, nothing unusual going on here. Yes your teacher likes you, probably because your a good student, or have the potential to be one. Teacher's like different students more than they like others, they can't help it, they are only human and and they get on better with some students than others..
But love.. nope... attraction.. nope don't see any signs of that. Your in love with your teacher, so you see things that you didn't notice before.. you like him so you exaggerate his actions and now everything he does you see as proof that he is in love with you.
Your teacher is a man doing a job, he does it to get money. He's probably got a wife or girlfriend at home, he may even be gay and have a boyfriend. You know nothing about this man. He's more than a teacher, that's a job. He has friends, hobbies, dreams and goals you know nothing about. He's not at school to fall in love with you, he's there to get money to pay his mortgage.
I suggest you accept that although you might love him, he dosen't think about you in a romantic way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): From your post I cannot really see any signal that he likes you. It strikes me that you are reading WAY too much into very little. Just leave him alone. I would surprised if he is interested, he stands to lose his job and a lot more if he got involved with a student. I am sure that you like him but I don't think it's reciprocal. Move on and leave him alone, and stop reading into everything he does, you'll drive yourself mad.
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reader, Salacion +, writes (5 August 2010):
I wouldn't go down that road. Stick to boys your own age, even if they are immature and ignorant. You don't want to be the girl that slept with her teacher.
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reader, maverick494 +, writes (5 August 2010):
It's hard to really decide if he is into you or not. Sometimes seperate incidents that sound like they mean something actually mean nothing at all. Also, he could lose his job (or worse) if he ever got into a relationship with you while you're still a student at this highschool.
So realise the possible consequences and the fact that you can't really be objective.
So I would say, enjoy his company for what it is, but don't make a pass at him. If you still feel the same after you graduated, you could always contact him then and see what happens.
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reader, Over..worried.  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Um I say, that you ask him to back off, cause he can get in some serious trouble ... and he sounds like a pedo. Chances are too if he is a highschool teacher he;s atleast 26.
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