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My boyfriend called me a breeding sob!

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Question - (9 February 2011) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, *addleup writes:

I've been with my boyfriend off and on over two years.We've been together 8 month this time.He's not sexually active,we have sex maybe once every three months.The other nite a mutual friend of ours came over with her boyfriend.She was talkin about wantin another baby and she had asked me if I could and out of the blue my bf says I'm a breedeing sob jessie you want to breed.Needless to say I was hurt and told him and he said I was a jealous ass and he didn't do anything wrong.Tell me if you think I was in the wrong?thanx.

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A female reader, ashley187 United States +, writes (10 February 2011):

ashley187 agony auntWell...asking the other girl still shows disrespect to both of you. Who talks like that other than a pig? C'mon..you deserve better. It doesn't have to be a problem, it can be the past. And if you only have sex every three months..what are you getting out of the relationship? Are you close in other ways? I think you would be happier with someone who loved you and showed you in every way what a lady deserves.

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A female reader, saddleup United States +, writes (9 February 2011):

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saddleup agony auntActually I'm the one who posted the problem.I'm not jessie the other girl is jessie and he asked her about breeding.I guess u are rite it is my problem and only I can solve it.thnx

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A female reader, ashley187 United States +, writes (9 February 2011):

ashley187 agony auntIt sounds like he has absolutely no respect for you, and you put up with this.. why?!?! You may have low self esteem and being around someone who treats you like this, I can see why. Get away from him! Do something good for yourself to feel good about yourself and move on. If someone said that to me, I'd honestly probably try and knock a few teeth out. He sounds disgusting, I hope you take him out to the curb when garbage night comes around. Good luck to you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011):

LazyGuy she's not "with" him. It's on/off, that's not even a relationship, I don't know why she's calling him her boyfriend either. This is just one of the "on" times before the next break up because as is blatantly obvious to both of us they don't work well together at all. No sex and he insults her regularly, sounds great.

It's a pity she's here to resolve one of their petty little quibbles and not actually here looking for a way to find a proper partner.

OP he didn't do anything wrong, this is not the first nor the last time he will speak to you like this, so I say you just resolve this amicably or do the break up/make up thing and go back to your pretty much sexless "relationship".

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A male reader, LazyGuy Netherlands +, writes (9 February 2011):

LazyGuy agony auntWhy are you with this guy exactly?

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