A
male
age
30-35,
*luenee
writes:Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. Me didn't speak to her for first nine hours but later talked with her for last three hours there.. Me and her only.. She'd apologised for doing so.. And she's got break up with that guy too coz of some problems and also said that she's in deep love with him and can't feel for anyone now and is sorry for hurting me since long time.. She do beleive that i love her so much.. Yeah its true.. I got happy that now i can face her easily and now at least i'm clear about that she's no feelings for me and no way of we being together.. And i kept up missing my girl.. Whom i fell in love.. She , lets say A, too loves me lot.. I love my ex but thats past na and my present , i love her so much.. When i talked with ex, i didnt. Tell about A.. After being from the party i'm not in contact with A.. And not willing to contact her as i used to do before.. Feeling of letting everything behind is coming up in my mind, which i can't do.. A has her boyfriend, but she is in love with me, she can't leave her relationship and accept me.. We're just hoping that she can leave that relationship easily without any problems ahead.. But i still want her to accept me or leave me.. After meeting ex, i've been listening a song which i'd listened in the party from my friend's mobile which i liked a lot. I've been listening this song so many times since yesterday and every time i listen it i do miss my ex.. Despite of being happy yesterday for clearing everything i'm upset.. I don't know why.. Either of being no chance to be with my ex, or being in no contact with A, or because of thinking in mind that A is still in next relationship.. I'm just listening the song continuously and continuously.. Don't know what have happened to me.. I'm totally off.. What shall i do?
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reader, Aluenee +, writes (11 February 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHer reply to my mail..
Thanks bf.thank you so much..i'd never thought that you would leave me alone in this situation.. At present, i'm far from you, so you are not understanding my love for you na?is accepting, only love? Does love means only accepting ? I love you so much na. You know it very well..but why are not you trying to understand me? Please...i can't stay without being in contact with you.. Is it that you are reducing your love and care towards me?i love you lot and missing you so much. Take care...
Hey all do help me na...why no one giving response to my questions
A
male
reader, Aluenee +, writes (10 February 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts so hard.. I've just finished off chatting with her.so hard to do it.. We got discussion over three hours.. She kept saying i love you so so so much.. I want to be in relationship with you. But please understand na.. I'm now not in condition to accept you.. But i want.. How to make you understand. Oh god,please help me to understand my bf(its me)..about how much i love him... When i said her don't contact me , don't say me bf. She replied. Who're you to say me not to say you bf? You're always my bf,my love and my best fren... Please i can't chat now. I'm unwell.. Please bf,don't think over this and don't think of nonsense. You know na i love you so much... I said it means you don't want to continue the relation with me and only want me to love you? She replied.. I've not said so na.. How to make you know how much i love you.. You're everything for me. I do share my tears , sorrow, joy, everything with you. Don't behave like this.. I'd never thought my bf will say this all to me.. I love you na.. I've always been with you, supported you always na? Won't you support your gf?And others bla bla and i've sent her fb mail like this."I love you so much.. And Sorry i can't change myself. I'm serious about you and i want to be in relationship with you..if u can't accept me i'll sway myself away off ur life.. You just have your good times.. If you think its my fault to be serious about you then sorryBut i can't change myselfOk gdntDnt AtTeMpT 2 CONTaCt mE UnlEsS U'RE CONFIDENT ABOUT YOUR DECISIONS OF YOUR LIFEAnd unless you've power to face the truthsgdn8I love you..See you". Hey aunt honesty, please advice me properly.. Read all properly and do advice .. Make me clarify all, ok
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A
female
reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Well its your choice on what to do, but she needs to pick end of story. Or else you will only ever be the other man. Its your choice.
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A
male
reader, Aluenee +, writes (10 February 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIf i talk about this topic with her, she'll get upset again n will start saying. You too not understanding my situation...how hard it is for me...why you talked about this topic and hurting me?you know na i don't like talking about other in between me and you.. And after this discussion she 'll say i love u lot..
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A
female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (10 February 2011):
You should not be the other guy to another woman, what is it so hard about her situation that you need to understand, she either picks you or him tell her that she cannot have both and tell her you are not going to contact her until she makes up her mind and then leave it at that.
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A
male
reader, Aluenee +, writes (10 February 2011):
Aluenee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBut she says me to understand her situation.. For now leaving the previous relationship is nothing coz she is away from here.. But i want to be the only guy of her. Should i avoid her? But how 'll she know that i'm avoiding her coz of this reason? Just yesterday i chatted her with net.. But i've stopped doing miss calls sms and mails and calls like i used to. Is it good to discuss with her again about the same topic? She'll get hurt again
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female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (9 February 2011):
First off you now need to accept the face that your ex partner does not want to be with you anymore. So stop listening to the song that reminds you of her as this will only keep hurting you more, you need to leave her in the past now and accept that she no longer wants to be with you.
As for this current girl, well if she loved you, then she would end her current relationship and be with you, but she hasnt done that therefore I feel that it is best you dont contact her, you are doing the right thing. Let her come to you once she is finally single and ready to give you what you deserve, commitment.
You need to just get out there in the time being and start meeting single girls who are able to commit. Get a good social life and start talking and getting to know people. It will be fun and you never know who you would end up meeting. Goodluck.
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