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writes:I am going around with this girl for more than a year. We were best friends for 5 years before we got into this relationship. Although we already having it tough times as her parents are not approved of her relationship with me and are completely against we both getting married. But we both certainly wanted to. However, that is not what I wish to ask now.During we both were in this relationship, i found out that she used to flirt with a college friend of hers on chat. though they werent friends during collage days they later started talking. The flirting talk (including mention of having sex in detail) was a lot too much for me to read and it hurted me a lot. She says that as long as they dont develop feelings for each other she finds that pretty okay. However, being a conservative thinking guy that I am, this is something that I am not able to take. After being a lot saddened and hurt I urged her no to be that way and she obliged and promised me. However, they now still talk but never flirt. I am still not able to take her talking to this guy even if they dont flirt. For her, she says that she doesnt wanna loose a friend coz of this relationship. Perhaps am a lot hurt by the episode of they flirting on chat that I am not even able to accept their friendship. I trust her she wont be doing it completely, but even I hate that name every time she takes it. I get restless when i hear any one else calling anyone else by that guy's name. Coz of this guy, we almost fight more than 3 or 4 times a week and is a reason for 90% of our fights.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@popeye_loves-cuspi
Just to clarify, yes that guy did made mention of making out and she just replied with this = :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): @popeye_loves-cuspi
this chat conversation that overread didnt read that they will have, but these were flirty talks that were leading to getting really intimate. yes these conversation had happened much many more than one time
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reader, popeye_loves-cuspi  +, writes (1 March 2011):
I had a problem in reading your question, can you just clarify something.. Did she have one or more these conversations with this guy on the net that included the description of sex while you and her have been in a relationship?
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