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writes:hi i have a problem, i am 52 years old my so called partner is only with me as i begged him not to leave me we dont live together. we have a 14 year old son so our whole relationship is based around him. if i ask my partner anything he will always ask what our son wants to do or think. we stopped having sex 6 months ago and when i asked him what was wrong he wont even talk about it, its like he is dead inside. i am so lonley he dont text or ring me hug or kiss me unless i ask him to when i tell him i love him he says i know i dont know what to do!
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reader, this woman +, writes (1 March 2011):
this woman is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhi all thank you so much i know what i have to do in my heart i have not spoken to anyone about it as every one thinks we are so happy and it is a great to be abel to talk about this i am so scared of being alone i hope i can find the courage to let him go
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reader, TEM  +, writes (28 February 2011):
 It sounds like he has broken up with you, even though you begged him not to. After so much time, and a child, he owes you an explanation as to why. Unfortunately, you can't force him to tell you why, but you can ask. I do agree with the young man that posted an answer. It is over and you do need to move on. Your partner only answers questions regarding your son, because he is only communicating with you for the well being of the child. I know that you don't want to think this, but it looks like he has either found someone else, or is just not interested in having a romantic relationship with you anymore. I know this hurts, but in time you will recover. In the meantime, you need to do what is best for you and your son.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (28 February 2011):
 The relationship is dead. You seriously need to move on and find someone else. Maybe that will light a fire under his ass.Seriously, my parents are your age andt hey have a shit relationship. My mother is super sexual, because my father is an alcholic that is fat and probably can't get it up. He is so entangled in his glory days back when he lost his tenier position at a university. He can't get over it. If you want those people to ever get over whatever it is that is bother them, that they won't talk about, LEAVE.You need to LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. If he loves you, believe me, he will come back.
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