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female
age
36-40,
*lowerBee
writes:HI,The guy that i am with now,is a guy that i ever wanted,he has the qualities that i had dream.We work in the same office.We are happy couples.Nowadays he seldom calls me or ask me out for dates.I have confronted him in a very polite way but he refuse to reply me back.I call and send him many messages but i dont get any reply from him.I am frustated,angry and have no idea what is he realy thinking.At office he is normail with me.I love him so much and missing him alot.But i am so patient and waiting for him,he knows that but i feel so down almost every day.He never calls and suddenly he will call up one day and talk as normal.Then,no more calls.I feel so neglected.Whenever i ask him something,he says,'be patient' and 'pls wait', 'i will let you know'I realy need him.How to get back my darling guy as how we were before.:( Reply to this Question
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reader, FlowerBee +, writes (3 March 2011):
FlowerBee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi there,Thanks for your kind reply,It gives me comfort.Yes,I shall follow ur advice.Im smiling now.thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2011): I have had this problem too. It usually means the guy is very shy, and doesnt always know what to say to comfort you. You have to tell him exactly what you are thinking, otherwise he wont know.When he tells you "please wait, or be patient" you have to say to him "I'm sorry, but I don't like waiting. I would really like for you to answer my calls/messages when I send them. Is there a reason you aren't doing this, and how can I help make it easier for you?"This way you sound caring, not threatening, and he will feel more comfortable telling you his issues.
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