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female
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30-35,
*rs.CKJ
writes: i am 18yrs of age, i have a birthday coming up i'll be 19. i am very into sex i only had sex with 5 guys and im with someone, love him like hell but i never had an orgasm, why is that?
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (3 November 2010):
I've been having sex for 4 years, slept with 12 guys and have been with the love of my life for 2 years.
I have never had an orgasm from a man. Over 90% of women dont have orgasms from penetration.
I've been having orgasms since I was a very young teenager because I use a vibrator. Invest in a high powered hard vibe and enjoy! (Don't buy a bunny)
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reader, xanthic +, writes (3 November 2010):
Might a lack of knowledge be the reason? Most women can't orgasm through penetration alone, and if you know a bit more about your anatomy and how things work, it'll be easier to find something that works for you. There are plenty of resources online that can help, just search for it and start reading. If that's not the reason, then it's likely a lack of sensitivity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Its possible you are making your goal of sex to achieve orgasm. Focus on the small sensations instead as pleasure is what should be on your mind only. Perhaps youre putting too much pressure on yourself to achieve orgasm and should not. Thats not what sex is about at all. Hope this helps miss.
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