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writes: I've been with my girl for over a year we've been through a lot I have only lied a few times about small things that where in the past and I even cut off contact with a good friend(female) just to save our relationship and after I did my girl still doesn't believe me she thinks all I want to do is be a player and I don't want that. All I want is to be with her and love her but I feel everytime I try to prove it she just believes the negative even more and more she is asking for my phone records just to see I'm telling the truth I love this girl with all my heart and soul but I don't want her distrust to tear us apart she says she loves me to and even says that she loves me more than I love her and I know she doesn't want to leave me but her distrust in me makes it hard on us. I even gave into her beliefs on somethings I've done and said even though they're not true just for her to trust me. How can I fix this problem how can I show her I'm truthful and honest even though I've haven't been in the past I would truly kill myself for this girl cuz that's how much I love her
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this is such a problem with so many couples, shes obviously been hurt before really badly for her to react like this, you need to ask her why shes like this, its gonna take time but you have to show her you truely love her, ive been that girl before, your head goes crazy because you been so hurt before it just seems inevitable that its going to happen again, promise her that your not going to hurt her that you just want to look after her and love her in the best way you can sometimes you boys need to be a bit soppy, pick an evening sit down on the couch and talk it out, if she crys hug her, be as honest as you can with her, maybe even show her the post you put on this website if the talk doesnt go well, shes been hurt you need to help fix that, good luck :)
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