A
female
age
36-40,
*aysee
writes: ok so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and for the most part it has been long distance but a little over 6 months ago he decided to move home .. things were great but he was not able to find work out here and things got sour , i live in his house with our two kids and dont have to pay much for rent or bills cause he covers that when he is working , so when he moved home im sure it was for us but like i said he couldnt find work so he has moved back out west about a week or so ago to get back to work . since then he has been treating me like i am a burden to him , he always tells me worry about myself and the kids not him and when i try to have a conversation with him he either rushes me off the phone , don pick up or throws bad attitude at me so i get mad and don talk to him ... he nags at me for the littlest things now , he always is trying to pick a fight and i am not quite sure where his head is at . i feel like he wants us to be over and don wanna tell me but when i ask him he says if i wanted it to be done then id just never talk to u again , he breaks up with me to then tell me he loves me , i am really confused . is there another woman ??? is he stressed ??? has he fell out of love with me ???? all these questions and no answers plz help
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reader, Njanji +, writes (3 November 2010):
I have ready your post, dont worry yourself too much, your boyfreind is just stressed up a bit, give him time coz the more you push him, its like you are overloading him and then hings wont work. just take your time, let him settle down and everythin will be okay. Good luck.
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