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Archived questions from: 13 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm thinking about leaving my husband if he doesn't stop looking at porn

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I have been married for 5 years now and my husband and I are both young only in our 20's and have 3 little girls I found his porn 6months into our marriage and we have had problems every since he says he's gonna quit and never does and now just gets ...

I've been in a relationship with him for 7 years but don't feel the same way as he feels about me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relation ship for 7 years and do not love this person as he does me. I feel terrible about this, and do not wish to hurt him, and so I continue on seeing him. How can I extricate myself from this situation, but make up for the wrong ...

I want a second chance at a relationship with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I were together for a year, before that we were friends for 2 years, and considered the other our 'best' friend for over a year of that. We got together in September 08 and broke up in September 09. Basically we were ar...

Should I ignore this feeling or break things off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Ok so i have been with my BF for 6 years we have a daughter whos 1 together. Latley ive been feeling not so close to him.He has been really getting on my nerves and i feel like im faling out of love i really could care less if i see him again. He is ...

Should I have allowed him to do this? I felt pressured into doing it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - hey guys right if u read my other question it will be about my realtionship wiv my boyfriend but if you haven`t read it,its about me and my boy friend being alone and he tryed to pull my skirt up and i slapped him coz of it and we argued about it. ...

Is my fiancee cheating with his co-worker?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Well,I just got engaged and my fiancee has been acting strange. I usually pick him up from work and everyday all he talks about is his female co-worker. He apparently talks to her about everything, even the problems in our relationship. Apparently, ...

I'm not sure why I can't leave him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - hi, i'm in a relationship with a guy, who most of the time, is very affectionate and loving, but whenever we argue, he becomes quite aggressive, i.e. pulling my hair, choking me, kicking slapping etc. Despite this, I love him so much, that I cannot ...

Can I win her back, even if she thinks I don’t trust her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - I'll make this short. I was dating my GF for 7 months in Oct we moved in together and it was up and down. Basically my past relationships have always ended with me getting hurt so i have trust issues and Im not jealous but i get this itch to see ...

How do I get over her and project a care free attitude when I see her around college?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - i was best friends with a girl sometime back, it was like we both were very close and the chemistry made me fall for her, i couldnt help it. Even she was close to me and used to hug me when going on bike rides, i even used to let her sleep in my ...

Why is he teasing me like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I'm 17 and my boyfriend who is 18 is amazing! I love spending time with him and always have a laugh when I'm with him. We've been together for just over 2 years. I suppose you could say we had a sexual relationship from the beginning. I had done ...

Should I trust my otherwise wonderful wife who is my best friend and soulmate or listen to the frightening inconsistencies about her moral character?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - I am married for about a year and a half to a wonderful woman who I fell head over heels for marrying after only 10 months. There are some concerns that have surfaced that I really need advice about TRUST issues. Shortly after we got together...

He has stopped taking me seriously even though he has had a whole year to see the real me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - hi im a swinger and a round a year ago i met another swinger we both became more attached than usual and started having a serious relationship, he didnt know i was a swinger i never told him. anyways recently i told him and since then his attitude ...

My entire family say I am a bad mother even though I am trying my best! How do I deal with this until I can afford to move out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Okay so I have a huge problem that effects me everyday. Ill start out with the background information. It all started about two years ago when I got pregnant at age 18. My sister was 16 at the time. Anyways, I lived at home then and still do. The ...

How do I stop loving someone who I was going to grow old with...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - My Husband is leaving me after 19 years and two children together, he has been suffering from depression but whether its a side affect or the cause, I dont know. I have spent years bending over backwards to make the marriage work and he has ended it...

As the girlfriend, how would you feel in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I simply want your opinion on the following scenario. Your bf [who has in the past broken your trust issues and met up with an ex behind your back]allows a different ex gf to come to his state, stay over night and generally hang out because she's ...

He cheated on his ex, and now I've found out he kissed other girls whilst with me....am I being fooled?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. And previous to me he went out with a girl for a year and half. He always told me he never cheated on her but I recently he told me he slept with a couple of other girls when he was with her because he ...

We broke up, he hasn't text or called, and his friends are saying he is talking to someone else.....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - HI THERE. well i just recently broke up with my ex on wednesday. he texted me thursday morninq and we didnt talk friday at all .ever since we broke up he hasnt really texted or called me :/ .his friends said he is talking to someone already.but ...

My girlfriend's sister tried to kiss me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

13 December 2010 (?) - Last week I was shocked to find my girlfriends' sister trying it on with me! I'm 22 and live with my girlfriend, who is 23 and her sister is only 16. My girlfriends whole family came to stay at our house as we live quite far apart and one day I ...

I'm always worried another woman is trying to flirt with my fiancee!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Help! I'm constantly jealous about the littlest things. I'm always wondering if another woman tries to flirt with my fiancee. He tells me there's no reason for me to worry. He has said one too many times there is no woman and if they show any reason ...

I cant trust him even though he has never done anything wrong!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi there, I've been seeing this guy for about 3 years now and am having a hard time trusting him. He hasn't done anything to show he's been cheating on me. IN fact, he's constantly telling me he loves me and only me. I'm constantly upset...

I always think about my ex when it comes to having sex! It is ruining everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I am very confused about my sex life. My ex boyfriend dumped me 2 months ago, now I really want to have sex. But every time I am ready to do it, I always think about him and ruin everything. What should I do now? I need some advice....

I wasn't her first. How do I cope? How do I move on?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - How can I let go of the things she did before me? We've been together for almost 8 months now, and we're very happy. Of course, there have been some bumpy spots here and there, but we've overcome all of them. There's just one thing that I ...

Should I just leave her be or actually ask her what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - My ex and I have been broken up for a couple of months now and we decided to stay friends. We both agreed to this because there was a loss of attraction on both sides. However, even though we agreed to stay friends we both gave each other space that ...

Was I right to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - I recently met a girl 2 months ago, we clicked very first and after one month, I discovered she was lying to me of her relationship with her ex who she said that they had broken up. I realised this after she returned my phone back after she got ...

Will we ever get back together again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - What am i gunna do?? am soo hurt:(? my boyfriend and i broke up last night we we kept arguing..he takes me for granted and he doesn't appreciate me yet he says he loves me very much and he says hes really tried but he doesn't like hurting ...

Is he too complicated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi all. I am 25 and from Australia. My bf is much older than me, he is 42. I have had problems as you all know about his ex wife and there divorce status. Now guys i need your help again. My boyfriend has three children from previous marriage, which ...

I’m worried this relationship is doomed……..what can I do to sort things out once and for all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys was wondering if I could have an objective view on this as it is really worrying me…please bare with me as it will be long cos I feel I need to give as much info as poss. Me and my guy have been seeing each other for almost a year. ...

I'm just so confused... why the sudden change?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I have a MASSIVE thing for this guy. I've posted questions on here before and 99.9% of the answers say he's flirting and interested... but now I have a problem and I need a guys insight into things. so I don't know this guy (we'll call him ...

Neither of us really understand what love is! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - I'm 19 and I used to be a bad person. I was raised by a single mother that never really cared about me because i was a mistake. I was shown no love growing up so I gave non. About 2 years ago I looked into this girls eyes and sense then she is all i ...

All we do is argue over little petty stuff!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend now for a 1 1/2 years, to me he is everything I've ever wanted out of a guy! But the past 2 months all we do is argue. We moved in together about a 5 months ago. We are going to the same college and thought this ...

I feel doomed at 21 to be alone forever!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - Although 21 years of age is still relatively young, I can't help, but feel doomed. I am god-awful at relationships. I have tried multiple gay dating sites, but the results were far from what I expected. I have tried getting out there and "meeting ...

I made a mistake, and just want to be forgiven!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - Hello, I am desperate for some advice here. And im at a complete loss. Anything helps. So a few years ago I had dated a girl that I really liked, and it all worked out pretty well. Eventually, I started feeling constricted, and felt like I wasn...

If he only sees me as a friend, why would he go on a date with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - My crush told me he only saw me as a friend, but he said he would go on a double date with me. if he only sees me as a friend, why would he want to go on a date with me? Would there be a possibility that he could end up having feelings for me? ...

I found it I was pregnant and he started calling me names

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - I am very confused and in need of advice . I hv been a commuted relationship for three years. I just found out I was pregnant , not sure how my birth control failed , I use depo shot. Anyways I told my boyfriend I was pregnant and he freaked o...

How do I tell my ex I don't want him back and I'm happy with my new boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi,me and my ex broke up because of some misunderstanding,but it was so clear that we still loved each other,i kept regreting why we did that until i met this guy that swept me off my feet,he was so gentle and nice.we got to know each other for a ...

My ex says she loves me and misses me but she has a boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - My ex and I dated for our senior year in highschool, we always had a rocky relationship but we were completely in love then about 2 months into college she broke up with me the day before my birthday and i was devastated, she started seeing this guy ...

I cant get over my trust issues to have a healthy relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Ever since I started dating when I was 14 years old (I'm 21 now) I have always gotten hurt in some way. I've been cheated on several times, lied to, dumped for someone else, and the list goes on. Anyways, after my longest relationship, I became a ...

Does he speak the truth when he was drunk

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - do u speak the truth when your drunk okay well me an my ex aint together but we still see eachother hes done alot to me but i dont want to be with him right now until last night his dad called me drunk saying his son can get any girl he wants an...

How can I encourage my unemployed boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend has been unemployed for about a year and a half. He used to have quite a nice paying job, and saved about half his salary every month. I know he is looking forward to buy a house later on and the savings are for his down payment....

How can I rekindle this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 December 2010 (M) - I've been with my girlfreind 3 years now, and i think we may be coming to the end of our relationship, she says im too nice to her, and when im with her it just doesnt feel the same as the 1st year we dated. I'm her 1st serious boyfriend and she ...

Boyfriend pressured me into having an abortion

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and about 6 months into our relationship I fell pregnant. I was on the pill at the time and think it must have happened due to a little tummy bug. I was head over hee...

Is my boyfriend serious about me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 December 2010 (F) - Okay before I ask my question ill give you background information and I would really like advice from male readers but I'm happy with whatever I can get. I have been dating this guy for about 7 months. He told me from the beginning that is very ...