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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I see what he has to say?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

2 December 2010 (?) - A male friend or ex "fwb" you might call it, ended up sleeping together a few weeks ago. BIG mistake because he has a girlfriend. I spoke to him about it a few days later, and told him i felt like an idiot about what happened. He asked why, and i...

My girlfriend has got MAJOR issues, but I can't dump her. How do I get her to dump me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - I dont understand my girlfriend , she is bipolar and christian she lives 2 streets away from me in a cold dark flat , she doesnt wash up and wont sleep with me in my nice detached house. I have just come back from a trip with her to her country she ...

My trust issues are driving him away from us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - I am a zulu girl dating a congolese man. He has two sons i have 1 daughter. I have trust issues sometimes i take it out on him,fight with him and accuse him of painful things. Lately he is withdrawn from me and my daughter, he spends very little ...

We opened up and shared dark secrets, although his might have been better off left in the closet!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - Well, I am 19 years old. I have a wonderful boyfriend who is 21, and we have been dating for 2 years, and altogether I've known him for about 5 years. Recently we opened up and told "dark secrets" He told me about how he use to be friends with this ...

Why do I miss my ex-boyfriend as much as I miss my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months this time last year, after I moved away to university. I felt that I didn't love him any more and that I wanted to live life and experiment. I met a girl on a night out and we hit it off and became really ...

How do I deal with these horrible girls in college?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - There's been a lot of drama going on! I try to ignore it, but they've been going back to the teacher saying that I've been saying these awful things about them, and spreading rumors that really embarrass me! I don't say anything to them, I just ...

How do you know when you've done the right thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost three years (anniversary next week) and she moved in with me in April. However over recent months we've been drifting apart, or should I say I have. She made it clear that I was the one and ...

Can we get past this, or is the situation hopeless?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - Help me! Me and my gf were together for a year and a half before we broke up and we have a baby together. We took a break for six months and jst got back together. Things were good at first but now its turning into our first relationship all over ...

Should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - I will try to make this short I have dated this guy for almost two years and he works a lot which doesn't allow us to spend a lot of time together which i understand but what i don't undetstand that on his days off he would tell me that he would see ...

I don't know how much more I can take!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into a little argument (nothing major.. but I guess he's VERY sensitive) last week. I said some mean things to him but I have tried to apologize to him after wards so many times. He wasn't having it, so he's been ignoring me ...

We have a child together, he is interested in someone else, will he ever come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5108 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 4yrs. we have an 8mos yr old daughter together. We have had our share of arguements and fights and the past yr has not been the greatest. Most of it was because I was pregnant and emotional. He ended things with ...

I cannot trust anything he does!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - Heya.. Im 20 years old and currently in a relatioship of 7 months. When my partner and i met it was realy nly for casual sex ( ano it sounds harsh) but one thing lead to another and we fell for each other. I found out just before we started to date ...

Is it wrong to move on when its clear the relationship will not work with his baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend has recently had a baby with his ex, he is now seven months old. we got together eight months ago and i new about the birth coming along. he had broken up with me a while ago and begun going out with his ex only to realise once aga...

My wedding is in three weeks and I want to break up with my girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - Hi . My wedding is on 3 weeks and I'm thinking on break up with my girl now ?? Please I need advices thank you. making it short..I am good looking guy and even little shy I always had luck with many women in my life because of that I never tr...

B/f has told me he'd kill my family if I left him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - I found out i was pregnant a few weeks ago. Its not the best news but im learing to deal with it. Im only 21 and recently moved to sweden to be with my boyfriend. Before i found out i was pregnant i wanted to leave him and go home. I have nothen ...

B/f puts his job before me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - My bf currently puts his job before me. I can deal with this for the time being, but I am more worried about the future. If he's always going to put his job before me, Im not sure if I want to be with him. Please help. :(...

He adds pretty girls on Facebook and has blocked me from seeing his profile!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - I've been in a 3 year relationship with my boyfriend. In the past we had a lot of problems because he lied to me and also had an emotional relationship with his ex. Everything was going really well until I recently found out that he is lying to me ...

Caught between two men....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - i have two men in my life, tonny and Thomas, i have been with Tonny for over 5 years. i have known thomas for one year. we had problems with Tonny one year ago and thats when i met thomas. Thomas has been a very sweet man and he has asked me to ...

Is my boyfriend ashamed of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - okay i'll try make this short as possible. ive been seeing my boyfriend since early febuary, we had a falling out around may and had a break for a week then got back togeather so have been on and off ive felt very insecure in our relationship up ...

My husband has a 19 year old female friend! How should I react to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - What are you really supposed to do or how do you react when your husband has an 19 year old friend that's the opposite sex? He knows you don't approve of it. But he says that's his friend no matter what nor how you feel. And he's 36 years of age. ...

Is my fear rational or should I just forget about the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, First i want to say that im sorry its long. I hve been dating my boyfriend for 11 months now. We had a nasty breakup last year, and were apart for half a year. he had been the one that broke things off and it had broken my ...

I think my boyfriend is still seeing his ex, how do I confront him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5107 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - Hi all, I've had my suspicions for a while but always thought I was being paranoid and they were just good friends still and hang out in the same groups of friends. Last night he said he was out so i decided to sit outside his house and see wh...

Massage gone wrong on my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

2 December 2010 (?) - me and my girlfriend are together for 1 year.....we have a very happy relationship...i have been regular at having massages at home...they are done to me by my male masseau..he is very professional at his job...so i thot of letting my gf have a ...

She won't accept my apology!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - well me and my girl friend were having a bad day today. We got into a fight about something and in the end i told her that i was sorry for the way i was acting so i could be nice. But when she replied she just said "umm yeah it doesn't matter". I ...

She used to text me nonstop, not so much anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - Why wont she text me back dang? Ya she goes with her family but she can text everyone else. It drives me nuts ill talk to her for a little bit then out of nowhere shell just quit texting me. Ill say babe babe and shell say hold on then three hours ...

How much time and space should I give my boyfriend after an argument?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I got into an argument on Monday, it was a petty argument and actually quite stupid now that I think about it. Later that day on Monday, I texted him asking to talk about it since I really prefer not to take arguments into bed. ...

Our relationship is going under!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (?) - I need help badly my I really feel as if my relationship is going under I am seriously in love with my gf but she says she loves me but she's not in love with me. All we do is fight because I am sensitive and thinks I am a pussy and immature she ...

He calls me a complainer when I want to talk about something!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5109 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - My bf and I argue a lot. We don't have very good communication. Any time I try to talk about something, he gets upset b/c he thinks I'm looking to start a fight. And he'll tell me to leave him alone. We've been together for 4 yrs and the arguments ...

My girlfriend is sending her boss inappropriate emails!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - I just learned that my girlfriend had a boss and they sent personal e-mails back and forth to one another such as Hey Sexy and Hey Handsome. In fact, her boss mentioned in an e-mail that he missed her to baby and signed it by saying xoxo, hugs. She ...

I don't like my girlfriend hanging out with a guy who has previously kissed her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

2 December 2010 (M) - What do I do?! My girlfriens says she's tired of me asking her to do thing she doesn't want to and she might be thinking about breaking up with me. We have been together for almost 2 years and during that time we took a month-long break, in which ...

When I ask him for sex he gives me a bunch of excuses!

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2 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am very confused about my relationship. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years (where both 22) and I love him more than anything. The problem is he wont have sex with me. We never had an overly crazy sex life we'd do it once a ...

I don't want to leave my boyfriend hanging but I'm not ready to leave the nest yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5110 days ago

2 December 2010 (F) - im having a dilemma on whether or not i should move out with my boyfriend or not. we have been together for almost four years and we have our ups and downs but we love each other very much. for the past few months he has begged and begged me to move ...