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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I'm not a virgin and that bothers him, we are starting to get 'physical' but I'm concerned about the arguments.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boy friend for a year we are getting physical now but there is a problem. I am not a virgin and he is, and that bothers him so we always get in arguements for that reason. What should i do if we fight alot but still want to get ...

Emotionally upset with boyfriend after anal sex and his past with prostitutes.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am feeling upset and insecure in my relationship of 10 months now. My partner is 53 and I am 38. He told me early on in the relationship that he went to prostitutes when he was in his 38 for about 3 months but stopped because he was wasting his ...

I think my relationship may be nearly over...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4764 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Ok. I dont know if its me but i think my girlfriend is kinda very selfish. I'm an artist and I need to keep my skills up in all sections I deal with. When i'm drawing or doing something in general she feels to be all affectionate, shes not like this ...

My boyfriend is completely unsupportive of my new business...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Well, i've been with my boyfriend 4 years now. He is married with 2 kids, but separated, we've lived together abroad for 4 yrs while his wife n kids lived back home. I put up with this situation for 4 yrs then decided that it was time to put him to ...

Is it too much to ask that we spend our time off together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Please let me know if I am being unreasonable. I have been dating this guy of 7 months and we have been living together for 3. During Thanksgiving break we visited some of his friends a few states away. Shortly after he told me they invited us to ...

What else can we do to make things better in our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - hi i have been having problems with my relationship. my guy and i started going out 8 months back and we decided to get married, he has been having financial problems for which my family is not agreeing to get me married to him. the main probl...

Am I staying because I am in love or because I'm just comfortable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - A lot of relationships where girls date a gamer, refer to the problem that he doesn't pay enough attention to the girl... but that is not my problem. He does pay attention to me, and if I do ask him to go somewhere or do something with me, he ...

I'm scared that I'm going insane staying with him! WHY am I still with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Why the hell am i still in love with this guy 1. who never wants to marry me since im older to him 2. who breaks up with me whenver he feels that i am pressureing him for commitment and gets back after few days as if nothing hpnd 3. Never c...

What did he mean by he realized he was shallow?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - yesterday was my boyfriends birthday, when we went to lunch he told me about the party he went to the night before to celebrate his birthday, i was unable to go. he was going on and on about all these funny sexual birthday cards he got. i bought him ...

Why does he flirt with other women on facebook?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4574 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - why is my partner like to flirt on facebook i been with him for a year and half he was married for ten years his ex wife never new why is he doing this two me i give him anything he wants i love him so much when i ask him about it he just smiles ...

Does anyone else have problems with adult stepchildren and their spouses?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Does anyone else have problems with adult stepchildren and their spouses? I have 3 who are for the most part, polite and courteous to me when in my presence. They do, however, fail to recognize me as a legitimate family member. Its dad's house, ...

Am I crazy for feeling jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone..:) i am a 19 yr. old girl..i am going around with my bf from last 2 yrs.. We both love each other like anything. But i had a fight with him just now that puzzled me on my own behaviour.. We had a great day together..we both were d...

Is she having an emotional affair?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - We were in married for 10 years and have 2 kids. She have a restaurant. There is no or few customers coming to the restaurant after 11:00pm. She can close before 1:00am and come home. But usually she come home after 2:00am. I know for sure for the ...

Am I doomed to be the girl who passes up nice guys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid. I suck. There's something wrong with me! I'm in an "un-labeled" exclusive relationship with a man whose good to me but has traces of Mr Hyde..I dunno. We'll call him Angelo. But this is the bad part, I've skipped over two...three..four ...

Long distance, nosy mom and commitment issues?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - This is the first time I have a long-distance relationship due to school and work, and it totally bums me out not to be able to see my boyfriend more often. Anyway, I met this guy online about 8 months ago and we started dating. Everything has been...

Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Still jealous with past sex and love lives of partner. What is the best way to refrain from being jealous on a present girl with her past sex and love lives??? Considering she did everything in sex, how would i convince myself that it is ok to...

The rebound girl - ignore stage - need for closure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm sorry if my story is too long and messy. Please bear with me :) At the time, I was a needy girl, with low self-esteem, no real friends... We started off as friends; then dated for 1 month. Then, he started to shut me out, I wasn't willing t...

Why do I get mad at my boyfriend so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now but I always get mad at him like every day!! He tells me you need to stop tripping before I leave you I trip because he always prefers other people than to see me and it gets me soo mad! I love ...

It seems like our paths are meant to diverge?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Two months ago I met a really great guy. We are taking things slow but are developing strong feelings for each other. I think that I can def see him in my future (although it's too early to be sure). The problem is that I need to get a Master's d...

How can I get my parents to accept him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I like this guy but my parnets don't agree with me . I had a 9 mouth old baby he treats him good n me too. What can I do so my parnets can accpet him so I can be his girlfriend...

My boyfriend has stopped replying to my texts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend stop replying my text since like 2 days ago. I dont know why he stop replying me. We didnt quarrel when we last text each other. I didnt say anything to piss him off. I have texted him yesterday and today asking why hasnt he reply. I ...

Why do I never get it right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - I was dating a girl recently and I thought it was going well but then she made excuses to avoid me and as a result we broke up. I'm 23 and I have dated 3 other women. The first broke up and got back together with her ex, the second was not looking ...

Drunk and possibly cheated, this is so out of character for me! Should I come clean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my partner for two and a half years and we are amazing together!many peole comment on what a close and genuine couple we are! we are so happy! But a couple of months ago he left the pub early and i stayed out with his friends....

Did I make the wrong choice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - i really need someones help. for more than one year now i have been talking to a man who lives in argentina, we met on xbox and we have done a lot of stuff together. i live in the uk. we keep meaning to meet but problems occur which means we have ...

Am I going to be alone forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I need a lot of advice. I am good for an afternoon and then I get sad again. I broke up with my ex of 6 years and after 3 miscarriages. I now have a beautifull 15 month son. I will graduate in March with my Masters degree. I have a very close ...

Is this love or am I addicted to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - actually i have a boyfriend he loves me a lot, i'd always hurt and shout at him for nothing but yet he always forgive me, he has dated many women, he is 40yrs and i 20yrs, he said for the first time he has loved someone truly and deeply and that's ...

His daughter will always be more special to him than I am, how do I get over this?

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Please help me, I want to leave but am so scared. I have been with my boyfriend 1 year. He is 7 years older than me. He has a daughter of 5 and I get along well with his daughter but do sometimes suffer with jealousy towards her,, although I never...

I met the love of my life, my soulmate...but he cheated on me with his ex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I just found out a month ago that the love of my life was cheating on me with his ex girlfriend at the beginning of our relationship. I have NEVER IN MY WHOLE LIFE met anyone like him. It was like we instantly had a connection and we could already ...

I think she got back with me only because she's pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - hi, me and my girlfrind have recently got backtogether from a break, but i feel that she has only got back with me because she found out she was pregnant, we have another child together, but i am doubting pperternity of the child she is carrying, as ...

Am I wrong because I feel uncomfortable about girlfriend's relationship with her ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together about 10 months now and the only issue we really fight about is her ex boyfriend who she is still friends with. Now, they only dated for a month or two and then decided to be friends.. which I was generally ok ...

I need assurance that he'll stick around but I don't want to freak him out!

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15 December 2010 (F) - I've just recently started dating this guy about a month ago. We've been best friends for about four years. The relationship so far is going extremely well, but I have major trust issues with people. The reason for this is simply because of my past,...

My mom and sister are like the gruesome twosome!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - Please help! My sister has suffered from manic depression and a chronic eating disorder for the past seven years. Living at home with her had been an absolute nightmare! I stayed in my self-contained flat at the house because I wanted to be t...

My gay best male friend wants to get drunk and have sex with me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - dear cupid, i've been in love my bestfriend for about 6 months and he has no idea but hes gay so that gives it no chance but these past couple weeks hes been talking about how he wants to have sex with a female and saying all these things he would ...

No matter what my girlfriend is always mad at me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend (of 2 years) is constantly mad at me. Nothing I do is good enough for her, I try so hard to make her happy you know do cute stuff for her and everything, still upset. Just lately she is just mad at me, almost mean to me, even when I ...

I have strong feelings for him I just don't know if its love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - i've been with my person a while, and usually i'm happy, but sometimes, like right now, for no reason in particular, i feel trapped. i feel like i'm being compromised, that i could be settling that there might be more out there and I'm scared about ...

I don't trust my online girl with all of her story changes

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - ok to try to make this as short as possible I am going through a divorce met a girl on myspace who is 19 Im 34. She lives in the next state over well we talked online and on the phone for a few months. And I have fallen head over heels for her. The ...

Almost 8 years together and STILL no marriage proposal!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I'm stuck in a rut. I've been with the same guy for almost a eight years now. I love him more than anything. He's my best friend. He loves me just as much. I know that he loves me, not ONLY from what he says, but the lovely things he does fo...

Am I crazy? Or is he crazy? Or are we both crazy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I met a guy who has, in the space of less than 2 months, told me that he loved me, he could see us being together, that he had changed his mind about having kids and that he could see us having kids together, helped me a lot on a home improvement ...

How do I deal with unrequited love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I am a young woman who has fallen for an older man. I know it can never really work, but I find myself upset and dejected by the unfair way things have turned out. The reasons it wouldn't work are not within our age difference, but our differen...

Am I simply being needy or are my feelings valid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

15 December 2010 (M) - Well my relationship with my girlfriend was very happy in the beginning, and we both felt really happy to be around each other. She gave me a good amount of attention and affection to me and i did the same for her. However these past couple of w...

He can't spend time with me until next year??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - This is th first time I have devoted my energy to write a letter open for everyone to see about my love. This love has provided me with happiness, strength and smile for almost a year now. I write now because I have discovered that I have become t...

His teenage daughters and ex dictate his life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - my boyf of two years has two kids - 18 yr old girl and 16 old boy who have never liked me even though i've made the effort but they claim they want to see their daddy 'alone'. we split up for 6 months and during that period they have started to ...

How to stop an inappropriate relationship...help!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

15 December 2010 (F) - I have a friendship with a married man, I am married too, it is nothing physical. The relationship began thru work and has slowly developed over 3 years. It started out a casual text or a phone call just to chat and now is an everyday event. We are ...