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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Why is my boyfriend behaving like this?? Am I overreacting? whenever i see something nice my boyfriend would like i buy him it when i have the money and also cos i know he would like it. my birthday is next week and i don't want him to spend ...

I've never even owned a fish, how are we going to compromise on owning a dog?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are planning on moving in together soon. We have always been opposites when it comes to pretty much everything. But now we are having a problem. We cant decide on what type of dog to get. He has ALWAYS wanted a German Shepard. ...

How do I stop my obsession that my innocent boyfriend is going to cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - My partner and I have been together for quite some time, we have a house together,share incomes,do everything as one.He has never cheated on me yet I cant stop doing things such as checking his facebook post or see his chat logs for MSN and I dont ...

Does she not love me if she's not sexual with me anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - My wife and I were separated for 3 years, It was all my fault. We talked everyday and 3 months ago I relocated back to her home of record to try again. She isn't sexually attracted to me in the least bit. The more she denies me the more I ask, the ...

Is my girlfriend thoughtless or does she not even care?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been in a long-distance relationship for nearly a year and a half now. She is the same age as I am. We've been able to meet before, and had a great time for the few days we could be together. Anyways... I love her very mu...

We don't get many chances to go out alone because she has a child, but always manages to find time to go out with her friends!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for 2 years and she has a child, so we don't get many chances to go out on our own. However she seems to find time to go out with her friends. But on those occasions I'm not allowed to go. When I mention we should go ...

She refused me, what do I do next?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - we were just friends at school for 2 yrs but i had secret feelings for her. after 5 years we met again at an organization. this 5 yrs were so bad for me, as i loved her i could not love anyone else. after few months at this organization i sent her ...

He doesn't enjoy giving oral sex....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for about 6 months. We have a great relationship and a great sexual relationship apart from one thing that really bothers me. He doesn't enjoy giving oral sex. He wants oral sex at least once a day and he gets it ...

Boyfriend watching nude pictures!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - I am in a committed relationship since 1 year and 5 months. its a ldr.recently i visited my bf.we had lots of fun and even sex. but during sex his p***s was not so erect.i don't know whats the reason behind it. after i came back i checked my bf's ...

Can't leave him because he is my first boy and now husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I came from a quite conservative family, with my mom not really cool about the ideal with me having a relationship before marriage. She even said my husband will not respect me if I had sex before him. I met my first boyfriend and ha...

I don't want my love life to be this difficult!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Here was my situation a few months ago: My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then sh...

Having an affair and torn between my love and my husband!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a married woman(33yrs)and i am having an affair for the last 1 year with a single man (31yrs) My husband( 55yrs) and i have a daughter together(3 yrs) and been together for 8 yrs. My affair started whn my husband wanted to divorce me aft...

Can I get my deadbeat husband out of our lives?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - I meet my husband while working abroad and was married for 8 years to a man depended on me for most things, then he got a good job where he was respected and met another woman there. He left me In a strange country with no family with our 4 year old ...

My boyfriend cheated on me once, should I trust him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 1 year now, we'r planing to marry together because he asked me to and I do love him. Our relationship is going well and sweet nowadays. I remember it was 3 or 4 months ago that I found out he che...

Been with my boyfriend for 17 years and all he does is play on his computer and smoke cannibis

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - i have been with my partner 17years we have 4 children i dont feel like i love him no more and he doesnt help me in any way he just likes playin his pc and smoking cannibis he wont get up and go get a job so we always are skint but im afraid to get ...

He is keeping me a secret because I had a thing with his friend! Is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - my bf and i have been going out for a little while now, and he put me as his gf, on facebook, because i asked him too, but he wouldnt comment me or my pics, and if i commented a pic using hearts, he wouldnt answer back. finally he told me that he ...

Has he really lost his labido or has he found a new woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 years. We have always had a very healthy sexual relationship and get on really well as a couple. Recently he goes to bed early in order to avoid a cuddle before sleep or if is awake he refuses to touch me or have ...

He spends all of his free texting his co-worker!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - My fiance and I have been having problems. We have talked about going to see a couselor but everytime I go to make an appointment he says we are fine and dont need one. My real concern right now is, I found out today that he has been texting ...

I don't want her back, but why am I turning down offers from other girls just to prove to her that I can be a committed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - the story behind this is fairly long and extensive so i'll save everyone most of the details on the whole thing, but basically me and this girl had feelings for each for almost 3 years. during which time we both dated other people and tried not to ...

Lack of Intimacy in an Early 20s Relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - I'm 22 years old and I've been in a relationship for almost 2 and a half years, and my girlfriend has hardly ever wanted to have sex for over a year and a half; it is getting progressively worse (she is 20 years old). I am just about to graduate, ...

Help with mad Girlfiend parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - So the major problem started about a week ago when my girlfriends car broke down, I offered to tow it to her house but she said it was ok. Her grandma and sister then later went and moved it to the gas station just down the street. They called my ...

Boyfriend doesn't love me, he loves a changed me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Helppp! I have been in a relationship for the last five years with a guys that is older than me i am 24 now and he is 29. Our relationship has been quite ROCKY and stormy, it has been me mostly going after him, and him being unsure of what he wanted ...

Facebook on verge of ruining an engagement

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, I recently got re-engaged with someone whom i had a 5 year on/off relationship from another state. He proposed in September and now its December and he refuses to add me on his Facebook because he feels "he needs his space and he w...

Where does my confidence go when I'm not on stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (?) - I'm a singer in an R and B band. When I'm on stage, I'm completely in my element; I'm able to be confident, sexy and energetic, and people love it. The problem is that I'm not usually like that. People will see me perform and hang out with ...

I'm always talking about trust and now I've gone and kissed another girl. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years with my girl. Things have been really rocky over the last few months and we've talked about knocking it on the head at least once but then worked it out somehow. I'm totaly confused, do I love her and ...

I'm just scared that she will run and return to being single.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months. For the past month it seems like shes a different person though. I could feel her become distant and slip away. She was always so loving and caring. She finally told me the other week ...

She says it's not me but it feels like it is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

10 December 2010 (M) - Hey people so I have a question and need help me and my girl have been dating for about 8 months we met over the Internet. Everything was fine of course we argued a little but recently she's been acting distant grouchy mad at me she says it's not me ...