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Archived questions from: 28 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I wonder if I should have broken up with him.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I just broke up with my man after 6.5 years together. We are both gay. I'm still pretty raw over it. I'm not sure who was at fault me or him. I do know that drink had alot to do with it. He has found a new friend and lifestyle which no longer ...

We hardly get to spend any time together...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend and i rarely go anywhere. We used to work together so i was all right with it because i got to talk to him and he would take me home and pick me up everyday. But i got laid off and he didn't. now he works 5 days a week an...

I love him but at the same time I can't stand him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5004 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi im realy confused at the moment just need some advice off someone that isnt my family. so if you could read this and help i would be greatful. Here goes..... I've been together with my boyfriend for 10 yrs today we have two boys together under t...

Is it my own insecurities or is he in the wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Im in a relationship with a guy I have known for a long time and we now have a baby together. I really love him and want to be his wife one day, but I always think hes cheating if hes not with me I think hes cheating of flirting I hate for him to be ...

We love one another very much, but we can't go on like this...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. Our relationship has had many ups and downs. We're very different people and we've both gone through major crises while being together. It put a lot of stress on our relationship. The last year has ...

Should I just cut my losses and go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyf for 3 1/2 years and we live together. Although I do love him recently I have been feeling dissatisfied with the relationship. He is overly critical, to the point of sometimes making me feel bad about myself, insists on ...

I'll never get my dream house with the white picket fence with my boyfriend's attitude

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - hi,my boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years now and we have a 10mnth old.he is not working and is not actively job hunting.he has paid once while out for a date but i had to pay half and i have been paying for dates and our baby's needs ever ...

What if you do not find your boyfriend attractive anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and I don't know whats wrong with me I just do not find my boyfriend attractive anymore. And I don't want to break his heart because he loves me very much. And he's starting to realize it because I've been moody and distant. ...

Help needed! How can I get her to give me one last chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - ok heres my problem, my gf and i broke up because i would unknowingly take out my anger on her and i would disobey her after she strictly told me not to do something. ive begged her multiple times for a final chance to make things better but she ...

Should I forgive him for the flirty texts since he forgave me for my indescretions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for the better part of 3 years with a guy I absolutely adore. The beginning of our relationship was difficult- He is a social guy with lots of obligations (not sure if anyone has dated a drum line drummer but you would ...

Please help! I need to break up with my boyfriend fast and avoid any questions!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - This may sound weird, because I heard that mostly men have this problem. The thing is that I am very inexperienced but not virgin and my boyfriend has a colorful past. It really bothers me to the point that I want to break up with him and give ...

Do I wait around and hope she decides she wants to date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Please help, I’m confused. Ok, so I have been a fb with this girl for around 3 and half months now. She is 21 and I am 27. We get along, have a laugh and both enjoy the sex. Recently I have started to like this girl as more, and feel like I want ...

She basically did everything possible that hurt me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I have a question about an ex girlfriend. we met during our freshmen year in high school and went out for 3 years. i thought all throughout everything was good with the exception of a few arguments throughout the way but doesnt every couple argue ...

My guy friend has sexual feelings for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I met my guy friend a year ago but we have become good friends a few months ago. He isn't in love with me.He loves me as a friend and lust for my body. He touched me a lot like touching my hair,my back,playing footsie with me,asked me whether I ...

How do I stop being overpossive of my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I'm a guy. I think i'm over possessive over my girlfriend. Any guy who just posts on her Facebook wall will make me feel uneasy. Then I will start to be doubtful. I keep telling myself they are just friends (which I THINK it is true) Recent...

Was she trying to stir things up because she fancies me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - whilst my boyfriend was away I had a little bit of a feeling that something was going on so i decided to login to his hotmail to change his facebook password and investigate. I found a message saying " fancy going for a drive and we can have a bum ...

Am I blinded to think that this relationship has hope?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - I met my girlfriend 1 yr ago and we've been together since then. I am 34 years old and she is 25. After we got together officially, she told me that she had sex with a guy she met at a club when we were dating. It bothered me but I accepted it ...

Pregnant, Jealous - how do I stop? urgent help needed!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4925 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I will try and keep this short. Basically I am 3 months pregnant to my live-in boyfriend. Before I got pregnant (this time), his ex (who has a new partner and child) would call him every week or so and despite us being together for 2 years, ...

He wont leave me alone - is he crazy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Two years ago, I went through a painful break up with my now husband. During this time, I had a rebound with another gentleman that I unexpectedly fell for. When my now husband and I reunited, I dumped the other guy. It has been 3 years and this...

Is there any chance of this situation turning positive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Dear all, I am in dire need of advice, and I honestly never thought about posting on an online advice service before - I hope you will be able to provide me with some insight. After a 2 and a half year-long hiatus (not self-imposed, just d...

I want some kind of commitment other than our 1 year lease together!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5070 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years now and we have lived together for 4 of those years. We have been talking about marriage for the last 3 years (it was mostly me asking when we were going to get engaged). I boldly stated that two ...

Sometimes it's like he's choosing weed over me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is a really good guy who treats me well but I hate the fact that he smokes so much (I don't smoke at all) I don't mind that he smokes with his friends or on occasion but he can't go one day without getting high. There were several ...

It it love or is he using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Here’s the deal,I ve known this guy since I was in elementary school. We ended up as classmates in 9th grade of high school,that’s when he started getting all crazy about me. He begged me to go out with him,begged my friends to help him and try ever...

My ex torments me emotionally

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5068 days ago

28 December 2010 (?) - i feel like the bad guy here just because i am a guy. My ex absolutely believes i cheated and that i'm a liar and a jerk a good for nothing. She pounces on my faults and torments me emotionally even though she tells me its just a joke yet without ...

How can I get an honest take on his thoughts on marriage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I recently got back together. We were a couple for three and a half years and broke up for three months this year. We've only been back together for a week, though we remained in the "working-it-out" stage for the majority of our ...

I feel like my husband and daughter are teamed up against me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - My daughter wants to marry someone that I didn't approve of. I told my daughter my feelings and she was glad that I told her. The problem is now she can not saying hurtful things to me and has gained the sympathies of my husband. She will call ...

My mom won't forgive my boyfriend

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - my mom won't forgive my boyfriend. yes, he's bipolar and a recovering addict and has done some things that should be deemed unforgiveable (stealing $400 from her, flipping out on her etc.) but now he's in a mental rehabilitation home and even ...

Why did my boyfriend turn into a different person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - Recently my boyfriend of three and a half years finished he turned into a different person and i dont understand how he turned out like this he is even neglecting our one and a half year old son and making up excuses to avoid seeing him, im heart ...

I don't want this problem to keep going on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - So I am completely new to this but here it goes... I have been seeing a guy for a year and a half. Starting out we had an amazing relationship. We were both comming out of marriages... his 8 years mine 2. He left me and went back to his ex twice, ...

Flirted with other guys to make him jealous, now he doesn't want to be together. How can I make up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

28 December 2010 (F) - I know what I want help with, but I can't find the words. will try. My boyfriend and I broke up twice. The first time I broke up with him because he was chatting to his ex girlfriend who works with me sometimes. The second break up was mutual...

First I was smothering her, but now I don't care enough!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

28 December 2010 (M) - Okay so I am a 17 year guy and I went out with my girlfriend for about 7 months. This is the second time we've split up. The first time was due to me "not caring", not being sensitive enough and generally giving the vibe that I didn't care (despite ...