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Archived questions from: 17 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5067 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...

He was talking about another girl's vagina!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Ok my boyfriend (both 26 years old) and I have been together a few years. We have a daughter together and I recently found out we are expecting again. Last night he had a friend over and they got drunk and I went to go to sleep. I could hear the...

How can I make my insecure girlfriend feel more secure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I am trying to figure out a way to make my girlfriend feel secure about herself. When I first met her, and we started dating, she seemed perfect, confident, nice, smart, beautiful, everything. The way that I love who she is hasnt changed, (and all ...

He wants a child but I'm not bringing a baby into this toxic relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - So confused! I have 2 boys ages 16 and 9 from the same man which I left 5years ago. Since, then I've been in a toxic realtionship for 5years. He has a temper and has been violent in the past just last week he came to my house and broke my perfume ...

Maybe this relationship isn't that perfect.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - What do you do when you're in a relationship with someone who should be perfect for you. They're pretty much your own age, clever, funny and just generally lovely, but it's not enough, and you find yourself completely falling for someone else you ...

Am I expecting too much now that we're married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I met my wife online and we had a great relationship in the beginning. She was NEVER in a long term relationship before me but I never thought that to be a problem until we started having problems. I was previously married and have 4 kids. While we ...

What should I do about my persistent ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - My ex keeps calling me like 5 times a day and wants me to be his gf, what should I do?...

I can't watch him destroy his life, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Should I stay with my boyfriend? Way to get right to the point right, it's just that my boyfriend and I live in two very different worlds. We started going out about two years ago, fall 2009 he went away to college, and when he came back last ...

How can I ask my procrastinating BF to not put things off until the last minute?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend likes to put everything done in the last minute, and it annoys me. We are having an appointment with our lawyer at the end of the year and for all the dates the lawyer is ok my bf chose 12/30, of course the lawyer rejected it and ...

How to Get Over Jealousy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - What's difficult about retrograde jealousy, is that it really has little to do with person towards whom you're directing those feelings. If you're a jealous person, then you'll find a reason to be jealous. It's true, isn't it? Imagine Jesus' ...

Hurt, confused, and don't know what to do

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I've been going out with the same guy for the last 8 months. It wasn't until recently that we started arguing a lot over dumb things. The problem that i have, and have stated in the past fights we've gotten into, is his lack of trying to make things ...

Is my boyfriend getting too involved???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and living with him for nearly 1. He's a very caring person and goes out of his way to help other people, it's his second nature almost. Usually I don't have a problem with this (as I'm pretty much ...

Why can't I be with the girl that I love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - Why can't I be with the girl that I love? People always say no pain no gain but how much pain I have to go through. I seriously had enough pain and I am too tired to continue. I have loved two girls so far at different time. I spent 15 month...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - Hello there, i will tell you my story and hopefully you will help me with it. A cousin of mine (due to some circumstances Not blood related) asked me out on a date with a straight forward way few days ago, I never though her like this way I know...

My partner and I had a really nasty violent argument... I don't know what to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I really done know where to start... my partner and I had a really nasty argument,to the extent he physically hurt me. He is being very secretive with his phone and says its about his divorce, but normally he would show me. I did discovered a few ...

Am I expecting too much even though he's not her biological father?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend I have been dating long distance for a year. He has a strick job and a boss that refers him self as the devil... I tell him to get a new job but it seems like he's stuck... I have a two year old daughter who does not know her real ...

My girlfriend keeps picking fights and rejecting me. What's a man to do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4999 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I returned home with my girlfriend about half an hour ago. We just spent the last six hours with two new friends. One of which happens to be an old girlfriend of mine. But before you go "oh you idiot", it wasn't my idea. They've friended on facebook ...

I feel so unloved and I no longer love my husband. Is divorce the answer, or is there another solution?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I am 25 years old and mother of 2. I'm married for 6 years now and I find my self not in love with my husband anymore. I have been supporting my husband financially so he can graduate for the past 4 1/2 years. (he is supposed to be done next summer) ...

Her interest in me is waning. Is it time to break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend 2 years younger than me finished her studies in NZ, and she went back to vietnam due to family issue. She will be there for at least a couple of years, and due to my personal issue, i cant work in vietnam. so, we are currently in a ...

Things are about to get complicated. Should I tell my ex girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - Should I tell my ex gf that the person who broke her heart fell in love with me when my ex was breaking my heart. I met my ex gfs ex two weeks ago at a job fair. Its weird. We have been seeing each other ever since the night of the job fair. We will ...

I just want my mum and my boyfriend to get on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I would like know how to handle the situation between my mum and boyfriend, i live with my mum, we dont really get along that well. i also have a boyfriend of 10 months, my mum loves him, but my boyfriend doesn't like staying at my house when mum ...

Bigamy in my family. How can it be resolved?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - My sister got married 10 years ago in India. Her husband is working in Abu Dhabi. They have three daughters. For some reason her husband got an affair with another girl in india (through internet) and they got married without divorcing my sister and ...

I want this guy back in my life but I don't know how to resolve this and I'm filled with anxiety over this problem

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - I can't forget about this guy I was friends with; it's been months but I still cry over him. I'm pretty sure I'm in love with him, but I've been in a situation where I'm not around people and my social anxiety has become so bad I have trouble ...

It was our secret relationship and now I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - what should i do if i was dating this guy and i didnt tell my friend that we were dating and she starts to like him and i try to get them together knowing me and me and him flirt all the time and i stop it a lot and the last time he said f*Ck it and ...

Help please! My girlfriend doesn't feel the same!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - Hi! Here's my story... My girlfriend (of three years) has gone to university about four months ago, while I am on a year off (going to a diff uni in sept..8 months from now). Her uni is only 2 hours away away so we would see each other often and ...

Abortion shattered our lives!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - Basicly I was with a woman I truly cared for. We loved each other to death. We have matching tattoos on our hands on our ring finger. We were engaged for over a year now and known each other for 6 years. We have been through everything together. I ...

He practised with me, it ended, but does he still like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5095 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - ok i dont "fall in love" with guy it doesnt happen. but i have been best friends with a guy who i think i love.. we have been friends for 2 years and over the summer we wanted to "practice" stuff so we were ready when the time came with someone ...

I used the online hard-to-get tactic and it backfired!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (M) - I was a asswipe and fell for playing that stupid "how to get and keep a girl" tactic and it ended up backfiring right in my face and now the love of my life is moving out of state with another man Please tell me how I can stop it in the next two...

Did I blow it by telling him I was attracted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

17 December 2010 (F) - so i have a dilemma. i met this guy about two years ago. we were both single, and he showed interest, but i didn't really take the bait too fast, i didn't want to seem easy. as time passed we hung out and went on a couple casual dates, but somehow ...

Is it unreasonable for me to be upset when he drops this bombshell?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

17 December 2010 (?) - Hi. I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 19. We've been together for 3 years.(He's a year older, so I skipped my senior year of HS, graduated a year early, just so we could go away to college together.) As far as our future goes, we've always had a reasonably ...