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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He doesn't trust me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for around seven months and are happy or so I thought. He doesn't trust me or believe me half the time anymore and I just recently found out that he thinks I'm am or will cheat on him with my friend who I ...

My girlfriend loves and is attracted to me, but she's not sexually attracted to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We were both virgins when we met and were planning on getting married before we had sex but things turned out differently. After around 1.7 years of dating we had sex and have been having sex often ...

I can't get over my boyfriend's history!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started dating in January of 2010. It was our freshman year of college for both of us, and we had just gotten back from winter break when we decided to make it official. We had been seriously "talking" since around Thanksgiving ...

I feel trapped in this relationship but unsure if I want the other one back...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My head is a total mess and I really don't know what to do any more. My ex and I broke up about two months ago (we were together eighteen months) and I'm now in a relationship with another guy, which is what I guess most people would call a rebound....

Why is my boyfriend trying to manipulate me as if I did something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5012 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend did something innapropriate. He flirted with another woman. He specifically asked me not to flirt with other men. I approached him about it, first he tried to act like he was joking, then he blatantly lied about it. But he never ...

Can we ever live my dream because he has a child with his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for about 3 months now and he has a 3 year old daughter from his ex-wife. I am currently 20 years old with a year and half left of college and my boyfriend is 24 years old with a degree in the job he currently has at ...

How can I get her out of my mind? I don't want to love her anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - hello, please i want every possible advice for me, i really need that, im in a long distance relationship with my girlfriend , it actually been a long time, the least i can say about her is that im crazy inlove with her, but i wanna forget her, tak...

Are my boyfriend's actions justified?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 3 years now, and throughout the years we've had many fights about exes. He's always maintained friendships with his exes, but I have not. Its not that I hate my exes, its just that I don't think its healthy to ...

He tells me he loves me but tells others that he stays with my out of pity

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - ok , here it is i've been with my bf for like 11 month now , but last week he left me his laptop since we had a project to finish together he was so dumb to leave his laptop while he knows whats on it, so out of curiosity i checked his chat logs to ...

Pisces man dumped me, will he ever swim back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Pisces Man Dumped Me Will He Ever Swim Back? Pisces dumped me He has a lot of girls around as friends and a girl best friend that he used to be with..also they say pisces men are freaks..well its true because he's always saying things about men..how...

After 10 years of faithfullness he evicted me and divorced me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - At 34 i became divorced form my husband (MAJOR ISSUES and we had a friendly divorce) I had two children age 5 and 7. A year later I met the MAN OF MY DREAMS..a gift rom God. Although the man was divorced and 18 years older. He acted young and fu...

I don't want children and its affecting my dating relationships

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I am really close to just throwing in the towel. I'll try and summarise as much as I can! My first girlfriend died in a car crash when we were 19. We'd been together 2 years and I know first love is always a biggie but to lose someone like tha...

"He's single, he can do what he wants" I'm told. But in MY house with MY friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I'm 20, he's 22. We dated for two years before I broke up with him. Very bad breakup because I ended up dating someone else soon after and he thinks I was cheating on him. I wasn't, he just got really hurt by everything. He has been totally ...

Girlfriend has problem with texting! How do I get her time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I need help I have a gf when she gets off of work she has either her niece,sister or bother or her ex husband niece texting her alot at times it gets annoying cause I feel like she cares for them more than she does me. And what makes it worse is ...

Second chance in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Do you believe that people should be given a second chance in a relationship? we all do mistake if our partner did something wrong, broke your trust or some other thing and you still love them do you think its rite to give them second chance? i am ...

If he is not breaking up with me surely he would have at least sent a text to let me know we can talk later?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend stopped calling me and i was sure this was his way of breaking up with me. Its been a few days since now but i feel that trying to call him and texting him for a reason why has actually pushed him away when he wasnt breaking up with me ...

Why did he send this message saying he missed me, then not reply when I told him I miss him too?

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3 December 2010 (F) - Ok so me and my boyfriend broke up 3 months ago cause of something big. And my boyfriend moved to another country cause of that...He went back to his original country and left his family here..( he is above 20)... And he said he could never forgive ...

I think I have lost that 'spark' with him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - when this guy first get near me i would get so nervous. and i guess i could say my heart would feel like it was beating fast. when we first went out he kissed me and i felt that "spark." But now its been two months. and i dont feel the same. he ...

Who is right here? I believe we should text at least once a day, he thinks it is fine to have no contact for days!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - so, i have a question, my boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months now, we are long distance. he believes its normal if there is no contact between us for days, whereas i think this is wrong, and that if anything there should at least ...

What can I do about my girlfriend's weight gain?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - Hi Ive been with my partner over two years now, and over that time she seems to have gained a lot of weight. When we first met, she was a 14-16, curvy, but absoloutly fine. Since then, shes gone to a size 20. And is eating lots/ not doing...

I have forgiven him but still cannot get over what happened.....

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a unique problem in my relationship with a Guy whom i know since 1 year, We are staying away from each other in different countries. Everything had been fine until i came to know about a girl. My boyfriend met her during one of his j...

If I confront him and I'm wrong I will look like a paranoid crazy woman, but I really need to know if my gut instinct is correct!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Last year I was ill and me and my partner moved to a new location. He was going back and forth between his old house when he was selling it and our new home. During my illness I got really out of shape and got the feeling he no longer desired me. ...

Is cheating ever something you can get over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me and, naturally, I'm extremely conflicted as what to do. The circumstances are thus: I was gone for 5 months (2.5 at the time of the cheating) to hike the Appalachian Trail and was not available to talk often. She...

Why do I flirt with other men when in a happy relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - I am a 27 year old woman and have been with my boyfriend for two years. We live together and we're engaged. When I was 19, I had my first serious relationship that lasted four years, I was completely devoted to him and the relationship, ho...

Why can't he just be man enough to tell me what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Ok, so i'll start from the top. I met this guy, we'll call him Chris, while I was working my side job as a wedding photographer. He was a groomsman in his brothers wedding, and pursued me from the start. I was not the least bit interested for ...

Coping with my fiance's extremely promiscuous past

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

3 December 2010 (M) - I'm falling apart trying to deal with my fiance's questionable past. I've been reading similar posts from other guys on the subject for the past few months, and although they've helped a bit, the extreme nature of my case leads me to create my own ...

After all that's happened how could I still love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - Ok so I'm with this guy for 2 1/2 yrs, we live together, we have roommates, dogs, the whole nine...anyway, we do fight a lot but I can honestly say I was too uptight. But also about other things like him cheating and then me cheating on him just to ...

My bf's a drug dealer and also very agressive but I still love him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 9 months. I thought I'd be happy with him but guess what? I'm not! I want him to stop dealing with drugs but no one on earth could stop him. The more i try to stop him the more agressive he gets. I love him so much ...

I want to feel appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My relationship of 2 1/2 yrs has gone stale. Normally, I would try to spice things up, or have a serious conversation on making things better, but I'm just at the point where I give up. My boyfriend is not spontaneous, and does not make me feel...

Things are great when she's happy, but when she's not ...

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3 December 2010 (M) - Hey first time asker i've been seeing this wonderufl girl for over 2 and a half years now. and things are mostly great, when she's happy... but when she's in a bad mood things go bad, really bad, really fast. and i don't know how to deal wit...

He said he loved me, now he won't even talk to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

3 December 2010 (F) - My BF of over 2 years and I have had a tumultuous relationship but until recently, I believed we both loved each other. I'm somewhat of a hopeless romantic, believing love will conquer all. He told me last week he has met another girl and is very ...