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Archived questions from: December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

HIs attitude has changed overnight and I don't know what I did!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hi I have been dating a man for a few months and everything was going really well. He complimented me and wanted to speak and spend time with me. We spent xmas together and I stayed at his (invited of course)Then all of a sudden on the Monday he...

Should I be the one to 'cave in'? We haven't spoken for four days

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - This is kind of a followup from my last question. I haven't spoken to my boyfriend in 4 whole days now and I don't know if I should be the one to cave or not? http://www.dea...

He may be confused, but now he's confusing me, and is he emotionally blackmailing me as well?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey. I am 17. I met a guy on a gaming website 6 months ago. We played games and there was a chat box there too.. So we chatted and played for a month. He is 22. I told him where I lived after a month and found out that he lived in the same area as...

My BF has rejected me because he has a 'mental bock' about my previous relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Currently my ex-boyfriend broke off with me as he says he has a mental block re my past relationship which lasted for 5 years. I was with a guy who was married and when the previous relationship started 5 years ago we were friends and then we had a ...

My mother's manipulating ways are driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - my mum has always been controlling and manipulative and we used to argue when I was growing up. im from a strict asian family and didnt have freedom like my friends through school and had to lie about going out, boyfriends etc. now im at uni ...

I love her, can't stop thinking about her, but she hates me. I need advice please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - I'm 14 going on 15 and there's this girl i really like, only thing is she hates me, and i don't know what to do next. I think it's because first of all i got my mates to ask her out, and second when she said to them that she wouldn't go with me, ...

I don't want to lose my boyfriend by telling him I'm pregnant with his twins, but I don't want to give them up or have an abortion either!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hello, I found out I'm pregnant at 17 and to make it even bigger its twins! I am so scared to tell my boyfriend. We both noticed I was gaining weight but I stopped working out the past few weeks because it was too time consuming. I don't want to ...

How do I earn my boyfriend's trust back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - How can I earn my boyfriend's trust back? I didn't physically cheat on him. I'm going through a VERY hard time right now. I recently lost my family. We were separated with foster families. The reasons don't matter, the point is that I went to a town ...

I just wanted to feel appreciated after doing a favour for him. It that too much to ask?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf broke up with me few months back since he said he got too attached to me and we got back together 10 days back. We work together. Yesterday he asked me do some of his work since he is going out with his friends. I too had a ...

I'm obsessed with my ex and he's happy in a new relationship and going to get married! HELP!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I feel worse every day. my boyfriend dump me five months ago for another girl. We worked at the same place and i cant avoid bumping in to him daily. he looks happy in his new relationship and am going crazy getting jealous any time i see him talking ...

5 years together and planning to move to another state, but we're having problems. Should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I've been together with my boyfriend for 5 years, not engaged, ugh, but I do love him very much. We lived together once around the 3 year mark and broke up because he wanted to spend every waking moment with me. I mean, I love him, but I needed ...

Fight or flight - is it even worth it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for four months, passionate, loving, attentive and productive relationship. The problem, I was the "other women" - wait, let me explain. He isnt married to her, never has been, they have a baby together, a son (now 7 ...

The perfect boyfriend but I'm not sure if I like him or love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Hey guys,i think im confuse.im not sure anymore if this is "love" im feeling towards my 2years boyfriend,or just my hormones talking.well..lemme tell you about my situation.i came from not-so-happy-family.people say im very cheerful and ...

Would you leave someone you love to protect him from being hurt even if he disagrees and says that the only thing that hurts him is being away from you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5063 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i was with a girl for 2 years in a LDR and few months ago she said that she "can;t handle a gd relationship for now" and needed us to take a break and pause our relationship untill she works and fix her life problems, like an addiction to drugs and ...

He enjoys hanging out with his friends more than me!

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31 December 2010 (F) - i m 20 yrs old n in a relationship with a guy since the past 5 yrs..off late differences r popping up in our relationship like in our choices of places to go or any opinion..n moreover he has this whole guys friends group whr he enjoys himself ...

My wife wants another man on the side and still be with me as well.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4141 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - me and my wife have been married for about 6 months and she tells me that she wants a little something on the side .so i asked her what she wants on the side .she told me that she wanted another man and still be with me as well. what should i do?...

Dating a man who is resentful that his marriage failed, should I bail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I am in a new relationship, following a 23+ marriage that ended resently. My husband left after our youngest turned 18. He wanted a divorce so he could drink and party like a youth, since he did not get to as a child. The divorce took two years, as ...

Should I invest in a keylogger for his laptop and phone even though my heart tells me it will probably spell the end of our marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5062 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I have been together since we were 19, married since the age of 20. He's always been heavily into pornography and is constantly pushing me to engage in activities that make me uncomfortable. I understand that porn use is very comm...

Can u sleep with someone and have no feelings for them and still be in love with your wife?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5057 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - Im lost...I've been married to my husband for over 8 years ( and we have 2 kids tog) and i found out 2 weeks ago from a womans husband that my husband had been sleeping with his wife for the pass 5 months while he was in kuwait..hes home now and ...

Do alot of men run when they find their partner is pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - i going to be giving birth in the next month and the father who i was dating for, for 6 years did a legger as soon as i told him he has a new gf now anyways i have to do it all on my own to be honest i don't think i'm ready to be a mam or to do it ...

Am I abnormal or just introverted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have friends, and a boyfriend. I'm only 15. Yet whenever I'm with people, I just don't enjoy it. I don't make an effort to talk to people, they talk to me but I just don't get why I don't like talking to them. Am I abnormal or just introverted? ...

Its Me or the drugs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have had this one boyfriend for six months starting on the 7th and he means the world to me. But we have a huge problem. I can't trust him. I'm 15 years old and my boyfriend is 16. I first met him at the beach near my house on June 1st. First ...

My son is a crack addict, with criminal charges, on probation for the last 7 years. What can I do in this horrible situation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - My 27 years old drug-addict son ,causing me and my family lots of pain. He moved back several times in our home, and we tried to help him over and over again. But it failed every time. He is here again. On house arrest, so he can avoid jail. I...

Almost married a compulsive liar in 2 weeks

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

31 December 2010 (F) - I have been with a guy for 3 yrs and been engaged for a yr and a half. when we first met everything was amazing and we both decided we wanted to marry eachother and worked towards it. I knew he had broken up with his last 2 gfs and they were serious ...

I don't wanna be lonely and I LOVE HER! I'm a sweetheart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

31 December 2010 (M) - Hi everyone I just broke with my girlfriend and now we are trying to work/talk it out. Heres the situation we got in fight she was saying i didint give her I didint give her attention and affection the last day before she lefted to go home for the ...

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

I don't love him anymore but I still haven't got closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is SO long and I apologise :/ My boyfriend had been making me miserable for quite a few weeks by like just doing things like calling 31 times a week, but then when i did talk to him not pay attention to what im talking about, talking c...

Married man or emotionaly unavailable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I had been seeing a man for over a year, then he broke it off stating he was not ready for a long-term commitment. After 8 months with no contact, we recently reconciled. I suspect he may be married and have tried to ask questions to determine his ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5063 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. ...

Boyfriend so stingy I don't get him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5062 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Good day ya'll Please advise a sister here. I have a boyfriend who is so stingy l dont even get him.I mean l have always paid my own bills with no problem and l dont intend on asking him to pay mine. Now my problem is that, he doesnot mind cal...

Am I getting close to the psycho girlfriend stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi there, this is gonna be quite long so I hereby thank you in advance for putting up with me. I'm now in a long distance relationship with a British guy living in the UK while I myself live in Thailand. We met when I went there to do the research. ...

When boyfriend gets angry he is verbally abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half. I love him VERY much and he feels the same for me. The problem is, when he gets angry, he is verbally abusive. He says things that he knows will hurt me, things that are so ...

In the last 3 months my boyfriend has become controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I dont know if im wrong,but i dont think so. My boyfriend doesnt want me to talk to male friends,he doesnt want me to sleep at my relatives' houses,he wants to know where i am,with who and if i delay picking up his phone call,he starts shouting.we ...

He doesn't show me off to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for almost two years, we're very much in love we're about to have a baby and get married, but there is something ive never been able to get off my mind. When we first started dating he would mention his a little s...

Pregnant by an older abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend has been putting hands on me for while and gets outta control when we get into arguements sometimes. I am 20 and he is 20 years older than me. He always says the things I do causes him to do what he does. I really started thinking ...

Does my baby's father really love this Probation Officer or is he using her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5061 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend of a year. I broke up with him at 9 weeks. He was layed off from his job and I was working 2 jobs at the time. I would come home and he was never there, claiming to be looking for jobs (at 9pm at night). I ...

How do I get emotionally close to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i'm a 16 year old whose mother left when i was 13. the only person i'm close to is my sister. i'm afraid of emotion and i'm so used to being by myself that it's weird to have attention. i want a boyfriend and i want to be kissed and held but i'm ...

Why does he want me to marry someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My story is long but am in a very miserable condition. Please aunts help me.I am around 30 and my boyfrnd is around 40. When i was in his city, he was around 34 and was crazy after me. But i only had oral sex with him during our relation. This is ...

I really feel neglected and don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are together for about one year now. Many a times I felt neglected by him because he is someone who prefers to have his personal time. I am not a very sticky person I think... I hope to meet up more times in a week rather than ...

Girlfriend finds me physically repulsive now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I would like to get a read on what is considered "normal" loss of attraction in a relationship, so I can at least put upper and lower bounds on what would be reasonable as it applies to my circumstances. Backstory: I am 31 years old, and have be...

Finally I've realised how much he liked me. What can I do to re-establish our connection?

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30 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally into someone else at that time, that i never noticed that he liked me. ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5066 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...