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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My boyfriend called me a "whore", does he deserve a second chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Ok let me tell you my ex bf called me whore even though i didnt sleep with anyone and asked me forgive and told me he lost his control and promise me and i gave him one chance Then he did the same thing and called me different words which made...

I lost my virginity to him, but he chats with girls online in inappropriate ways

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - what am i supposed to do when the person i love and lost my virgnity to, chats to girls online, including asking some of them if they want to see him cum. like. seriously. do i break up with him? i know it sounds pathetic to ask if i should but i ...

You persuaded me to chose you, now you miss your ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Here's my dilemma. I just got out of a 4yr long relationship. Right after the breakup, I started talking to another guy who recently got out of a 6 year relationship. I really liked him but I kept talking to my ex boyfriend. The new guy, would ...

I have a problem with my OWN sexual history!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Right, this is probably going to said really silly but hey! When I was abit younger I was quite promiscuous, and now I can say I'm ashamed of it, but now I am settled down and in a relationship and would never go back to my wild days... But for some ...

Should I even bother trying to work this out?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (?) - I'm going to try and explain this as best i can. For a while now, roughly a year, i've been in a pretty confusing situation. A male friend and i had a casual "relationship", i hate the term "friends with benefits" but i guess you could say that's...

My self righteous, rude sister makes my girlfriend feel uncomfortable in my house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - i have three sisters by which one of them is a loudmouth and can be a bitch a times. My girlfriend and my sister are total opposites. My gf wont tell someone off if she is offened while my sister would. She makes my gf feel uncomfortable in my own ...

I feel like food is the competition with my obese boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am a 45 year old female with a wonderful 58 year old boyfriend who is considered obese. He is not lazy, but he does not make attempts to use our exercise equipment, take walks, or join me in any activities. I am much smaller then him, ...

It bothers me that my guy keeps adding women to his facebook. Am I just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Can anybody help me on how to deal with what I think I am having is insecurities? I was married for 14 years to a guy who preferred drink to me and it was a domestic abuse case,the second guy who I got engaged to put me down a lot too so that ended. ...

While drunk I acted disrespectful to my boyfriends parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - lastnite i was told i had acted very disrepectfull to my bfs family cople that i did not know about it because i was to drunk to know what i had done...the couple are very nice sweet loving ppl i would never would do anything to disrespct that but i ...

Is it love or convenience?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend(D) 2 years and we have had sum pretty bad situations happen throughout. he is 28 and I am 42. I look really young for my age but my body has its basic wears and tears from having kids n life in general. In the ...

How hard do you find it to say no?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Just a quick question. How hard do you find it to say NO. This is just a general question. I have always been a yes man. And find it very very hard to say No. But just lately i have tried it and now people seem to think i am just being awkward. ...

Fiancee messed up bad, should I give her the chance to fix herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - Currently I am in a very rough patch in our relationship. We were engaged for like 2 years and in July she got an abortion. we both it was for the best. I was in college and she could barley find work and it wouldnt be a good time. She was the wi...

My mom died over a year ago, but I'm still moody and shut off, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Ok, I need to learn to chill out. I cant understant why im moody and morngy sometimes. Im scared of ruinin things with my current boyfriend. He's the best thing thats happened to me in a long time. Ive been through a lot.. i lost my mum in 2009 n my ...

I am unsure about his 2 children, but I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Im 26 I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months. I love him to death and don't know what I would do without him. He has 2 kids aged 6 and 10 from a previous relationship who live with him full time. I bought my own house last year and would ...

I just want him to love me as much as I love him, but right now it seems impossible...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Hey, I hope there is someone out there who can help me out. Basically my friendship with my best guy friend is detraining. About 3 years ago he started university. We would talk every day, via email, skype etc. When he started university he ha...

Why would he want me to smoke when I clearly don't want to???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - hey, im 16 and my boyfriend is 19. so he smokes pot and something else called buddha bud a lot. he says he doesnt do it that much but ive noticed that its a lot. he knows i dont like it. so last night we were texting and here is our ...

If he loves me then why doesn't he show me more affection?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - ok so ive been with my bf for ten months and he purposed too me few weeks ago i love him dearly so i said yes thing is he is not fully secure with me when he should be he told me he has fear to go to pubs with me cos men look at me and thinks i look ...

Ex girlfriend has been so cruel to me, should I give her another chance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - My ex-girlfriends has... 1. Broke up with me more than 40 times in one year 2. Talk to her ex-boyfriend almost daily while in a relationship with me 3. Been physical agressive 4. shouted at me, at home and in the street 5. Put men in the hou...

How do you keep a relationship burning?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - I've been dating girls,bt i can't seem to last a relationship for long.I just want you to help me by telling me what can i do to keep the relationship burning.I need help,i want a girlfriend so badly bt i want tips of what to do to make a girl happy ...

We had a falling out, now she's pregnant with her ex's child, do I talk to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - ok so im a 20 year old dude who is in a bit of a situation with a good friend of mine.ive been best friend status with this girl since the 2nd grade and i really do love her. but we stopped talkin recently because of an arguement that occurred about ...

My 57 yo boyfriend in involved with a 26 yo who is now pregnant!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - I've been involved with a older man for the pass, 9.5 years. I Thought the world of this man. I have never met anyone so devious and down nasty as him. I caught him cheating several times with different woman, they were always his friends. Now he is ...

Is he using his injury as an excuse to leave me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - i have been going out with this guy for more than a year he has a bad circulation in his leg as was injured by a motorbike accident years ago everything was fine although we had some problems as he seemed to be very distant and i always had to ask ...

We've tried to have sex and we kiss a lot but my step brother pretends it doesn't happen!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Ok.... here it goes... my mom divorce my dad and is now engaged. my moms future husband has 2 kids plus the 3 they have together. 1 is a boy who is 14 and the girl is 13 my age. well i have known my stepbrother for about 9-10 years and we r pretty ...

I can't stop thinking about a man who is not my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - I'm living with my boyfriend of one year and two other guys in a flat share. We just moved into the area about half a year ago due to his job. I didn't fount a job myself until two months ago and was really depressed about that before.. Now I rea...

He wants to be with me but still keep his distance

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating a guy for about 3 months. I see him almost every day and spend the night almost every night....he cooks meals for me, takes care of me when I'm sick, tells me I'm beautiful...basically acts like the perfect boyfriend. But, he ...

My friends say "he was always going to leave"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - Ok so short story long... My ex of 5 years left me for his mistress, but when I ask for counseling from my friends all the guys say the same thing....they all say (along the lines of) he was always going to leave. But up until the day I caught him ...

Everyone needs to be aware of bullying and put a stop to it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - This is a tip for people who are being bullied. PLEASE TELL SOMEONE IF YOU ARE A VICTIM OF BULLYING NO MATTER WHAT TYPE IT IS OR HOW SMALL. It is devastating to hear on the news about a young person committing suicide over bullying. I do not ...

I don't want my boyfriend to be a high school dropout!

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5 December 2010 (?) - my x boyfriend is thinking of dropping out of highschool because he says that there is no point of graduating when he doesnt have a greeen card and he wont be able to get a good job or go to college and then be able to get the job... i care about ...

Why does my boyfriend spy on me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2651 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for just over three years. During this time, he has broken the relationship off about 4 times. Every time this happens there is no warning. Things are going along fine. We are spending all of our nights ...

I can't do anything without my mother questioning me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - First, I apologize for even asking this question because it's really weird. But here goes.... I'm in grad school where everyone is either already in a serious relationship or married. So the chances of meeting someone is slim to none. As a last ...

I have been having sexual dreams about my cousin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

5 December 2010 (M) - I'm sure there's a few of these on here, but I really need help with this delima. I am 22 years old, and am very attracted to my 20 year old cousin. She and I have soo much in common and whenever we're together, I feel this urge to tell her that...

We live together but I haven't seen him for 2 months due to his work schedule!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5105 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - I know that I'm being selfish but I'm not happy and I can't pretend to be. My boyfriend and I got back together in July and moved in together in August. I had just moved to Germany to start work and decided to move from Ireland to Germany to be wi...

He makes hurtful comments to me when he's drunk!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5107 days ago

5 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. Recently we have been fighting more and more. It isn't physical but i'm feeling that he isn't attracted to me anymore and we he was drunk he was saying some hurtful things to me. I always felt that ...