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Archived questions from: 9 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

The only thing I feel when I'm with him is sadness and loneliness...

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9 December 2010 (F) - I wonder if anyone else has ever been in my situation. And if yes what can one do? I'll start with some background. I am 30 years old and have never even dated anyone. I have many friends and I have a good education, job etc. I'm not ugly or fat ...

Does being fat mean you've got no self esteem?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. Well I'm overweight. My parents are annoying me all the time saying 'I have to lose weight or I'll die'. I'm not that fat, it's only them who say things like that to me. My mom also says I have no self esteem cause I'm fat and I don'...

Parting talk...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - She now feels sickened to look back on our relationship. And whilst this hurts I can appreciate why this is. Being physically intimate with someone means a lot to her, and being her first and then it ending like that has affected her. Because ...

Girlfriend keeping me on a leash or making a genuine attempt? Should I text back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - So my girlfriend and I dated for a couple months and then I had to go out of town for a job for 2 months. Right after I left, she got the job of her dreams and was extremely over the moon to have found success and "the guy of her dreams." (Her ...

My wife wants us to separate... advice welcome!

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9 December 2010 (M) - My wife and I are approaching our 9th wedding anniversay we are both 33, we've been together for 14 years, and it's all falling to pieces, we have had many years of heart ache and trouble with her family and to be honest my intollance of how they ...

When he's good he's very good but when he's bad he's horrid!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hello x Me and my boyfriend has been together 2 and a half years, in the first 6 months everyhing was fine until his 21 year old sister (I'm 18 and he's 19 by the way) started butting in our relationship and spreading a lot of lies about me to he...

Is his reason genuine for not wanting to see me...?

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9 December 2010 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy who lives in the USA (I live in the UK). We've been lucky enough to see each other for a week 4 times in the last 8 months, and communicate daily by skype. Everything has been perfect (apart from ...

Is he avoiding me, or am I over-reacting to the whole thing?

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9 December 2010 (F) - I'm a bit confused. Two weeks ago, my boyfriend stopped being all cuddly towards me. Like.. he would constantly talk to me and me really sweet, but he stopped two weeks ago, almost cold turkey. I mean, we'd still talk about other stuff, ranging ...

I slapped my boyfriend for pulling up my skirt!

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9 December 2010 (F) - heyy guys right yesterday me and my boyfriend was all alone at home and we were kissing and huggin and stuff like that then he pulled up my skirt and i slapped him and we argued and he called me jody{thats not my name} i am so anrgy wiv him i do...

I'm married but am friends with benefits with a co worker

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9 December 2010 (F) - I am married for four years been together for nine years. And we have a six year old son together. My husband is a control freak had to know where, when, who and what!! And if I ask him to do anything especially when it comes to my family the answer ...

I can't wait much longer to be given the title of his wife, do you think he'll give it to me?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Its been just over 5 years with my fiance, we have a house, a 3year old, lots of debt...We have had a wonderful 5 years together. Like any relationship, we have had ups and downs....Last year I proposed to him. We have always agreed we want to spend ...

Am I being too sensitive?

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9 December 2010 (F) - When my boyfriend does something that upsets me, and I try to talk to him about it, he always tells me that I am "over-reacting," and then doesn't understand why telling me that makes things worse. Am I being too sensitive?...

I get that guys love their friends, but is it fair that I'm always second best?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 5 months now, some days he will tell me he loves me and thinks I'm great other days he barely speaks to me. Then we had this whole argument of how he chose me over his friends and he never got to see them, ...

Am I doing the right thing getting back with her?

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9 December 2010 (M) - Ok, I've got a trust question which probably is nothing new for this site. So, here goes: I'm currently seeing this girl (we'll call her N) that I've been with for 14-15 months. We got together close to the start of her freshman year of college ...

How do I repair my relationship with my sister?

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9 December 2010 (F) - i have 3 sisters and i really only get on with 2 of them. Wel when i say i don't get on with my youngest i mean we fight adn argue all the time. She is in her teenage years has a quick firy temper and everytime we talk we always end up arguing. So ...

Am I being taken for a fool by my online girlfriend?

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9 December 2010 (M) - Ok so I've been dating this girl for 5 months online (met at a concert) but we're starting to have trouble like Im deciding i don't want to take all her crap anymore. She says her computer has a virus and can't use browsers (Im sure yoy can) so she ...

Is this really over? I don't want it to be but we can't go back to where we were!

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9 December 2010 (F) - Please can someone offer me some advice? I have never written on any of these chat things before- I don’t even do facebook! But I need an outsider opinion. I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 and a half years. He is 30 and I am 28. The first co...

If he is genuinely interested in me, then why doesn't he ever call me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - I met this guy online and have been talking to him for about 4 months now. We've gone on 1 date a few days ago, and it went pretty well: met up for a casual dinner. Then he pleaded with me to come back to my place which I agreed, and we made out ...

How do I make a straight guy love me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5059 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - what do i have to do ??? i am a 16 years old guy,i am a gay and i really love a guy in my school. unfortunately he is straight he is even horny and pervert when it comes to girls...... the problem that i think that he hates me...he only calls m...

I sense it is not over between us but what do I do now?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - So the issue with us is commitment. We know each other for a long time. We used to be friends until things gradually started to change. After months of flirting and dating without a label (no sex but some kissing always him pursuing me, trying to be ...

Should I tell him that I know he lied to me? Or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Been with BF for 3 years now. Met him when he was going through a very messy divorce. He lost his way cheated on me, I found out. We went through all sorts of hell and therapy to fix our relationship. He explained that he couldnt believe that the ...

I need to study, not be with this boy!

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9 December 2010 (F) - dear,aunt...one boy luv me n he want me to be with him forever...actually the problem iz that i dont want to be bound in such relation...i wnt to complete my study...but he dont understand me...and i make desicion to broke up with him and i said him ...

Am I asking too much after 14 years together?

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9 December 2010 (F) - hi, i would be grateful of some advice about the situation i am in pls, my b/f and i have been on and off for 14 years he lives with his mum and works full time i am living in a house with our daughter who is 13 i am 31 he is 33. the relationship ...

Should I stay with her or not?

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9 December 2010 (M) - I have known this girl for almost my entire life and we are the best of friends. She is the type of girl that flaunts around and has had many boyfriends before. well recently i thought that maybe i could try to be with her and she said yes. so we st...

Who has the greater chance of being the dad?

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9 December 2010 (F) - i am 18 and 27 weeks pregnant, there is a doubt that my boyfriend can be the father of my baby because i cheated on him with another guy. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend a few days before receiving my next period, but this period was shorter ...

What can I do to make her happy again?

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9 December 2010 (M) - my girlfriend is in the bad mood she dont want to talk to me i dont know what did i do wrong,i really love her so much i dont know what to do to make her happy again.please advice me...

I'm worried that he could just stop loving me at any time!

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9 December 2010 (F) - Hi guys... My guy and I are of the same age, we're both 21 years old... I am just wondering... we're dating for almost 8 months... It's almost perfect... He's not the perfect lover neither am I but I do believe we have the perfect love... We're ...

Should I follow my sister's plan and get away from him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Hi. I hope there is some advice you guys can offer me. Ive been with my boyfriend now for nearly 2 years. We were kind of set up at a party and one thing lead to another. We really began to like each other. After 3 months of meeting. He asked me ...

Why wouldnt my LDR girlfriend give me her facebook?

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9 December 2010 (M) - hey , i just wonder why wouldnt my long distance relationship girlfriend give me her facebook ? shes telling me that she would get jealous if she sees other girls postin on my fb and i would get jealous too seein other guys talking to her, but what...

It feels like he doesn't care about having a good sex life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - Ok my situation is..i have came right out and told my fiance before that i want Sex more often and want it to last alot longer, but it seems like he does not care to satisfy our Sex life, this is really bothering me because i should not have to be ...

Should I move on or wait a while for her?

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9 December 2010 (M) - So I was seeing this girl for about a year. We did everything together and had everything but the official title of boyfriend and girlfriend. About six months ago I had some personal issues that came up that were going to take me away for a while so ...

I think he is cheating or might have cheated on me in the past, how do I know for sure?

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9 December 2010 (F) - is he cheating on me? well the stury goes, me and my boyfriend have been together for about a year and im not so certain he really means it when he says he loves me. a little while back i logged on to his old myspace account which he gave me the ...

How do I get her to fall in love with me again, more than she was before?

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9 December 2010 (M) - Bonjour, i hope you guys are doing fine , i just have a small problem with my ldr girlfriend, we just got back together after a break up of 2 weeks , and our relationship aint as balanced as it was before, its easy to tell,anyway lately she started ...

Am I being tested?

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9 December 2010 (M) - Alright people, it's been a while since I've actually posted anything on here haha, been busy with finals and stuff. Now that it's done, I need to ask everyone this, because it's really been bugging me for a long time now, matter fact it's been ...

He is declaring his love on Facebook for a woman he hardly knows! Have I lost him for good with my stalking behaviour?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Hi, I am new here. I am hoping someone out there will be able to give me some advice. Let me first just give you a quick update of past. I have recently split from my boyfriend of 2 years where we lived together nearly from the beginning. We w...

We have been together a year and I want a committment from him, am I moving too fast or should I move on?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Here's my story: My boyfriend and i have been dating for a year. I have been asking him for a commitment, marriage, because i want a baby. Is it too fast to ask? Im 28 and he's 34, we met right after he had ended a relationship of 10yrs with wh...

How do I tell my ex I can't anymore because my life is not the same. He's too late.

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9 December 2010 (F) - I want to try but I'm not sure if it will work. I fell hard for my exbf and I put my all into it but he was like whatever. Anyway he broke it off and of course I did the woe is me I can't go on without you. Any I hated him more and more the lon...

I don't understand how he can say he has no sex drive but still masturbate daily!

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9 December 2010 (F) - Hey everyone! I have a couple of issues and would greatly appreciate some insight. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years now and have a child together. He is 32 and I am 25. When we got together, we were having sex 2 or 3 times a ...

Is our relationship doomed forever?

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9 December 2010 (F) - My current ex-boyfriend as of two days ago and I broke up because I blew something he said out of preportion and things got really out of hand. I said some pretty mean things and so did he. We decided to call off the relationship because we just ...

I want to see what else is out there, and I want him to do the same! Is this a good idea?

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9 December 2010 (F) - i have found myslef on this site a lot lately posting questions it seems like.and once again im confused as to what i should do. i love my man so much but frankly im not in love with him in any way at all anymore. we have been together a few y...

I can never establish a relationship with a guy!

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9 December 2010 (F) - I really need a male perspective on this one. It seems like try as I might I can never establish a relationship with a guy. I've been acquainted with this guy for five years we started hooking up a year ago, but it's been rather sporadic. He's ...

What should I do about this guy Ilike?

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9 December 2010 (M) - hey im having the huge probably, im gay and no one knows! i like this one jock in my school he so cool, sweet, and cute and i fell for him. no one know im out and he seems to be interested in me but im afraid to get close to him, and then he ...

My ex is spreading rumours that I had sex with a 21 year old! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4882 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - theres ths guy that i dated and he broke my heart. im still not over him and now hes calling me bad names and now theres a rumor that i was sexing a 21 year old an im only 14! gross! i just dont know what to do :(...

I don't want to be his booty call!

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9 December 2010 (F) - I'm a little nervous. My "friend" made a comment as he left my house after fooling around about loving "booty calls." The thing is, I don't want it to be a booty call. I don't know the way to try to tell him gently that either he has to be a man and ...

He gets cranky after sex, am I doing something wrong?

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9 December 2010 (F) - Hey. Im 15 my boyfriends 18. His all nice and everything all day then when we have sex like an hour later his all cranky. Am i doing something wrong?? his my first. I love him. we argue about his ex because im friends with her and he...

She said she was pregnant but now she's saying she is not, what is going on?

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9 December 2010 (M) - She thought she was pregnant, why she said that to me? is it that she did not have her thing that comes monthly for 3 months until 2 weeks ago? And she said she had not had sex with anyone but me. She stopped talking to me for like a month because ...

She lost her virginity to another guy because I was a jerk to her in the beginning, how do I get over this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

9 December 2010 (M) - I have a problem. There was this girl that I talked to and I was her firs kiss. First guy that she ever had feelings for. I liked her to but didnt really think much of it. I stopped tralking to her after about 5 weeks and just left her hanging. ...

Am I being selfish? My boyfriend and I hardly see each other!

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9 December 2010 (F) - So I've asked somewhat of a similar q before.. but what I'm wondering now is - am I selfish? I'm used to dating guys that have alot of free time and my bf has not had alot of time lately(when we met he did).He has 2 jobs hospital and rese...

Girlfriend talking to her ex all the time!

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9 December 2010 (M) - Just a question for you all to answer. So i have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 months now. Lately i have been catching her talking to her ex from 7 months ago allll the time. and going out for drinks and lunches quite often. One night th...

I'm fed up, but I still want him in my life

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9 December 2010 (F) - There are a number of reason why I want to break up with my boyfriend; ;Feeling anxious about him due to mistrust . Feeling like I'm not involved in his life as much as I feel I should be (He'd rather introduce his friend to new people because...

His babymama drama is killing me!

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9 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for some months now. I am 21 and he is 24. He has 2 kids from a previous relationship with 2 different women. I met my boyfriend way back almost 6 years ago true significant friends and we've been friends ever then but ...

Why can't I put this cheating abusive man out of my head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

9 December 2010 (F) - well, my story goes like this, im a single mother,hard worker good all around person i will like to think. i meet this guy many years ago when i was married and we were friends...many years went by and we got intouch about 1 month before he went to ...