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Archived questions from: 12 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man, to get even for my cheating!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Okay this is long and....little embarrassed about this but here goes. 3 Years ago I had an affair with another women she was a close friend to me and my girlfriend. For an entire year I was seeing her off an on cause me and my girlfriend would ...

Do you give up something good for the chance of something else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend Michael for almost four years. Our relationship started off on a bad note; he had been my best friend for two years, but I had been dating another man the entire time. When my ex and I broke up, Michael was ther...

Surely you wouldn't carry on sleeping with an ex if you didn't still love them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Ok here goes..... ready to be confused..... I was with a guy for just over 6 years, he ended the relationship just over a year ago as he said he didnt love me anymore, But a year on where still doing things a normal couple would do, we go to the...

How do you help a long distance boyfriend who's stuck in a rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - How do you help a long distance boyfriend who's stuck in a rut? My boyfriend's been Depressed for about a year now and he just never does anything anymore. He works long hours during the week and lives by himself. On the weekends, he never...

Is it just me, or is there something wrong with this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I don't know whats happened today but it has been awful. We were just meant to be buying decorations for the tree but somehow we ended up angry with each other again. When we got home he sat on the laptop while I was decorating the tree. The ba...

I never meant to hurt her, she left but I want her back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - dear cupid. I will be as honest as possible . I met a girl online. We started chatting everyday. Soon afterwards, we exchanged numbers and we immediately began making voice calls. We decided to hook up for coffee . The first time I lay my eyes ont...

What do I do about this problem with my friend and her boyfriend and my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I'm 13. My best friend is dating this guy. He tends to get a little "handsy" at times....She asked me if she should break up with him, and i said she should. But here's the problem, my boyfriend is friends with her boyfriend and often defends ...

Is there anyway I can get them to leave me alone? Without telling my parents?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Okay, there's a quite long backstory to this, but I'll try and surmise it for you. I had a six-month long relationship with this boy, which ended very messily with a lot of bad things said. I won't go into a lot of details, in short he got me ...

How can I stop my boyfriend giving massages to his girl friends? He should only do that to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Well I need some advice. Currently I've been getting very jealous over things my boyfriend does with his friends that are girls. They aren't new things he's never done before, and I never used to get jealous. At first it bugged me but I got over it, ...

My bf is abusive, what can I do to stop this??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I ...

Why no contact from him on the weekends??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5095 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been seeing this guy who owns his own business and is always crazy busy, he is a client of mine that we hit it off from the begining. We have a connection to each other that is so overwhelming to me it makes me weak everytime i think about ...

Was I wrong for not calling my ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hey my ex has treated me really bad for hurting him 2 years ago after I have told him I was sorry over and over. He has went off on me many times to make me feel guilty, Borrowed from me and won't pay back, and ask to get back to together just to ...

Boyfriend was robbed and says that if I love him I should go cash in my bonds and give it to him

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend was robbed for several hundred dollars, right before Christmas. He has a 6 yr old we've been together for 3 1/2 yrs. The past year has been rocky because he cheated on me and I'm stiiill trying to regain all the trust. He says because ...

I can't seem to understand him... at all!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Okay so me and this guy has been talking for 8 months now and I can't seem to understand him... at all! He says he likes me and cares about me but never shows it besides when he comes to see me. And even when he does come to see me, we barely even ...

Is he done with this relationship but just not man enough to end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have been dating a man for 7 months. We are both in our mid thirties. Our interests and our faults complimented one another, and we got along great. The sexual chemistry is fantastic. We live an hour away from one another, and it was beneficial in ...

I'm worried about going abroad because I can be weird around other people!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (M) - Hi everybody, I'm Antonio and I'm a 23 year old spanish boy. I have to write this because I'm about to explode. I fell I'm getting older and I'm still a virgin. I've even never been kissed. It's not like I'm a monster, I don't feel like the ug...

Boyfriend's mom coming back into the picture and I am deeply upset about the situation

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12 December 2010 (F) - Known my boyfriend for 7 years but been with him for nearly 3 years. He's been through alot with his family and when he was 15 he left his home from his mum because she was violent and always drinking. He didn't have anywhere to go so after he had ...

Off-Key Romance: A Sign of Incompatibility?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Please help! My boyfriend has a terrible sense of what he deems as "music". He insists on singing extremely hoakey songs to me in a weird, baritone voice. When I ask him to stop he ignores me because he believes I will like it if I listen a ...

My married lover has wronged me so many times, was I wrong in my behavior towards him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Hi, My ex and I had broken up because he couldn't accept the fact that I decided to date someone else after he never divorced his wife , who he says had cheated on him. I only dated the other guy about six months, but after giving him over four ...

I already have a child, I don't need my boyfriend to be another one!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Let me start off by saying that I am a single mom taking care of a 2 year old. I'm going through divorce and trying my best to look good so I don't lose my child. My soon to be ex will have a lawyer but since I can't afford one, I won't. This is ...

My husband and best friend had sex and blame it on the drink!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - SO, in need of some advice- my husband, who've I've been for 6 years and have a son with, has slept with my best friend. After a long night of partying she stayed over at our house. My husband, who was totally drunk, decided to go into her bedroom ...

The unthinkable happened, he just wants to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Last night my boyfriend Angel told me he just wants to be friends. It happened all of a sudden and I didn't see it coming. The reason for it is somewhat vague and I haven't fully grasped why yet because Angel was having a hard time expressing ...

Should we just spend Christmas with our repsective parents?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My partner and I are both in our 40s and don't have children. My partner's mother was widowed 3 years ago and my mother died 8 months ago. This will be my father's first Christmas without her. I have 4 siblings of which only one is around to be with ...

My friend usually criticises what she did last night

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I went to a party at a friends house last night and there was alcohol, i'm not much of a drinker, so i hung around with my other friends who just wanted to dance and have fun. The problem is, my close who i used to have respect for got 'drunk' ...

Boy friend has no control over anger...any suggestions to cool him off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - how do i deal with a breakup? i mean i still didnt have one..but my boy friend sometimes acts real crazy that im afraid someday its going to happen..but the thing is...he says he loves me like he loves hia own family and he makes me feel like a ...

My sweet six year old becomes a demon when my boyfriend comes around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Is it true that little girls will become more whiney and unruly to get attention, when their mother has a new boyfriend? i was in a new relationship and my sweet 6 year old became a demon when ever he was around What do I do?? I dont want to spank ...

I am starting to look at other men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My bf's hollier than thou attitude makes me vomit! He's never wrong even when he is wrong. He blames me for everything. And he never apologizes. Like for example this morning I was taking a shower while he was in the kitch. All of a sudden he was ...

Why does it have to hurt so bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - My husband and I decided to separate yesterday morning. Well, more or less "take a break". I always knew that if a man needs a "break" its because he has other interests. I decided to go to the local bar to have a drink alone to calm my frazzled...

How is this possible?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - my friend is hiv positive and pregnant but her husband is hiv negative how is it possible?...

My FWB cancelled out with a lame excuse

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I have this friend with benefits we decided we didnt want a relationship but tonight i called and asked what i was doing i invited him over. he said make sure im awake and dont fall asleep on him, which i always do. two hours later he text me and ...

Has he become the guy I dread?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - So there's this boy I really like, let's say A. A and I have known each other for about two years, talking/hanging out a lot since about September, and I fell for him at the beginning of October. A is super sweet, hilarious, kind, and one ...

My cousin flirts with my boyfriend when she has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Recently my cuzin sits there and flirts with my boyfriend even though i tell her to knock it off and she wont she has a girlfriend .. and i dont hve any class'es with her and him so i dont know what she does exactly ... Thursday this past week she ...

This nasty co-worker is spreading rumors about me all because I didn't invite her to my wedding!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I'm getting married to my soul-mate February 1st 2011 (started dating February 1st 2006; about nine months after we both graduated from college both with Master's degrees). And there's really just one thing in relation to our wedding that is ...

Suspicious about his ex-girlfriend. Please help and give me feedback!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. we recently just moved in together. but i have a problem with the relationship he has with his ex girlfriend. the only reason i know he still contacts her is because i have looked thre...

Did I do the right thing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - Brief History: I.. 1) Recently graduated from college with a Bachelor's degree 2) Have my own car 3) Have a decent paying job 4)No kid. My boyfriend 1) Does not have a degree, but DOES have a High school diploma 2) Does NOT have a car 3) Has an OK ...

Troubled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

12 December 2010 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for nearly six months and i am so happy, and i love him to bits! I went out with my friends a couple nights ago and i know this sounds incredibly lame and like i'm making excuses but i had a lot to drink and ended up ...