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Archived questions from: 30 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

If your girlfriend had only a single 2 minutes' sexual encounter before you were in her life,would you let that effect you?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - If you were a virgin before your gf and you knew that your gf only engaged in sex for a minute or two and realized it was wrong and stopped. And that was her only sexual encounter before you,would you let that effect you? I love my girlfriend but I ...

I don't love him anymore but I still haven't got closure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - This is SO long and I apologise :/ My boyfriend had been making me miserable for quite a few weeks by like just doing things like calling 31 times a week, but then when i did talk to him not pay attention to what im talking about, talking c...

Married man or emotionaly unavailable?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I had been seeing a man for over a year, then he broke it off stating he was not ready for a long-term commitment. After 8 months with no contact, we recently reconciled. I suspect he may be married and have tried to ask questions to determine his ...

I broke up with him and now he's with my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I broke Up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago but 3 days later my best-friend started going out with him. And every time anyone brings up that it's horrible. What she did to me, she says that I did it to her, but I didn't. And I Was with him for half ...

My BF broke my trust, now he says he's worrying about my feelings. What's that mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My bf broke my trust this time last year by lying to me. And he told me his Christmas this year was sad because he missed me and was worrying about my feelings. What does the latter bit mean? ...

Boyfriend going to move out because my mom asked for $100.00 a month

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I'm 20 years old. I live with my mother and father. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years, and yesterday my mom asked if he would start giving her 100 dollars every 2 weeks to help pay for food and bills. He automatically said he wouldn't and that ...

My husband is having an affair. How do I handle things now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My husband is having an affair. I should just tell him to go but it all seems so ridiculous, we live in Berkshire and she's in Norwich! He texts her all the time - I first discovered it by finding a second mobile phone that he obviously didn't ...

Do you think he has a tendency for homosexual games?? Or am I over-reacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, Your opinion is valuable and always taken into consideration. many thanks in advance!! I dont know how to write this in plain English. I have been dating this guy for three weeks. Even though i like him, i'm a bit skeptical about hi...

To get access to his child, His Ex expects me to absent myself and I'm sick of it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - my bf has an ex wife who doesn't allow their child to come over unless i am not going to be home. This has always been like this. fr day one, but i put a stop to it and told them i no long was goin to hide from her.but its been along time and still ...

Should I forgive him? Or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Wednesday the 15th I had a date set up with a guy. We were going to go for supper which was his idea. Then last night came and he said he was really tired cause he had to work a bunch of night shifts, which I understood and he said another time. ...

Boyfriend so stingy I don't get him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5077 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Good day ya'll Please advise a sister here. I have a boyfriend who is so stingy l dont even get him.I mean l have always paid my own bills with no problem and l dont intend on asking him to pay mine. Now my problem is that, he doesnot mind cal...

Am I getting close to the psycho girlfriend stage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Hi there, this is gonna be quite long so I hereby thank you in advance for putting up with me. I'm now in a long distance relationship with a British guy living in the UK while I myself live in Thailand. We met when I went there to do the research. ...

When boyfriend gets angry he is verbally abusive

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half. I love him VERY much and he feels the same for me. The problem is, when he gets angry, he is verbally abusive. He says things that he knows will hurt me, things that are so ...

In the last 3 months my boyfriend has become controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I dont know if im wrong,but i dont think so. My boyfriend doesnt want me to talk to male friends,he doesnt want me to sleep at my relatives' houses,he wants to know where i am,with who and if i delay picking up his phone call,he starts shouting.we ...

He doesn't show me off to his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - We've been in a relationship for almost two years, we're very much in love we're about to have a baby and get married, but there is something ive never been able to get off my mind. When we first started dating he would mention his a little s...

Pregnant by an older abusive man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So my boyfriend has been putting hands on me for while and gets outta control when we get into arguements sometimes. I am 20 and he is 20 years older than me. He always says the things I do causes him to do what he does. I really started thinking ...

Does my baby's father really love this Probation Officer or is he using her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5076 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - I am 5 months pregnant with my boyfriend of a year. I broke up with him at 9 weeks. He was layed off from his job and I was working 2 jobs at the time. I would come home and he was never there, claiming to be looking for jobs (at 9pm at night). I ...

How do I get emotionally close to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - i'm a 16 year old whose mother left when i was 13. the only person i'm close to is my sister. i'm afraid of emotion and i'm so used to being by myself that it's weird to have attention. i want a boyfriend and i want to be kissed and held but i'm ...

Why does he want me to marry someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My story is long but am in a very miserable condition. Please aunts help me.I am around 30 and my boyfrnd is around 40. When i was in his city, he was around 34 and was crazy after me. But i only had oral sex with him during our relation. This is ...

I really feel neglected and don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I are together for about one year now. Many a times I felt neglected by him because he is someone who prefers to have his personal time. I am not a very sticky person I think... I hope to meet up more times in a week rather than ...

Girlfriend finds me physically repulsive now

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - I would like to get a read on what is considered "normal" loss of attraction in a relationship, so I can at least put upper and lower bounds on what would be reasonable as it applies to my circumstances. Backstory: I am 31 years old, and have be...

Finally I've realised how much he liked me. What can I do to re-establish our connection?

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30 December 2010 (F) - I have known this boy for about 6 years and we always picked on each other, but last year we talked, and we became really good friends. We were best friends. I was totally into someone else at that time, that i never noticed that he liked me. ...

Am I asking too much? I'm not asking to change, just more emphasis on an emotional connection.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - So I’m not exactly sure where to turn, my friend uses this site a lot and he says it’s always a good help for him, so I’m hoping someone has some insight on my relationship problem. Sorry for it being so long. I’ve been in a long distance rela...

Should I wait or should I not wait?. I still love my ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago, but we still hang out, and talk almost every night. We share lots of laughs and we tend to make out every time we go out. From time to time he'd invite me over to his place and we would even have sex....

Was it me? I tried my best, even though he cheated, kept a mistress who he's now married.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Please Help! My ex of 4 1/2 years was cheating on me for at least 4 months. It's now been almost a year, and I think he married his mistress. After all the broken promises, the betrayal, the manipulation why does it feel like a big hole in my st...

Is there a chance that we could be together in future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - She tells me she has feelings for me, but it's on and off for about 1 year. She is in a relationship with her bf for about 4.5 years. They broke up but patched back many times. He is very possessive and she went through so much of emotional hurt ...

There's no sex in our relationship. Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

30 December 2010 (M) - Hello I have been in a relationship for 7 years with my girlfriend,and we used to have sex every day sometimes to the point where it was a little much.But now for about the last 8 months she has not had sex with me, and I mean NO!! intimacy at all, ...

Why did he reject me for New Year's?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - dear cupids, I have a boyfriend who I have had for the last six months I have been trying like crazy to get together with him for winter break. He finally said let's do something new years eve and I was so excited that I could have screamed :) half ...

Am I dumb for staying with my fiancee' if he has cheated more than once?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

30 December 2010 (F) - Me and my fiancee' has been together for 3 1/2 years but for a year straight he cheated on me and the 2nd year was shaky then the 3rd year we got right and he changed. Now we are going on our 4th year and I still can't get over what he has done in ...