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Archived questions from: 8 December, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Boyfriend has an alcohol problem and broke my nose.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hi I am 20 years old liveing with my boyfriend who is 35. Everthing was just fine until he started drinking realy bad! I have left him becasu of him hitting me on two different occasions but I took him back! About a week ago he broke my nose. ...

I'm afraid of freaking him out if I say those 3 words!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Ok so this is the thing, I have been in a serious relationship with this guy for 5 months already and we both have agreed that not only do we enjoy each others company but that our relationship is in good grounds so far. He is great and makes me ...

I feel like any girl is prettier than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5096 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - well!!! ive been dating my bf for about two years and when we first started dating he seemed to always be talking to girls and i found out because i checked his texts. Ok so theres this one girl he seemed to like a lot because they talked a lot ...

Rocky relationship with my boyfriend but I have no where else to go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Ive got myself in a bit of a situation. I live with my boyfriend of 5 years and our relationships has been a bit rocky a for long time. when we spend time together all we seem to do is argue and the arguments are always about the same things. i ...

My GF has a crush on another. and I feel as if I'm her default.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - Hi, my gf and I been dating for 3 years. for the 3 years.. we always spoke about how no other person could replace either of us.. she promised to be with me forever and that no other guy was better than me. We were a cute couple.. and we now know ...

He asked for "space" -- does this mean things are over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Dear friends, dear friends, Your advice has been extemely valuable and made me deal effectively with many issues in the past. I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months. the last time i want to his place i was not in a very good m...

After almost two years I asked that he commit to me and he found it absurd!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - This is going to sound a little crazy...for two years I have been seeing a guy, who for the first 10 months told me we could not be together properly because he was still really close to his ex and they still saw alot of eachother. So we could only ...

Why would he vanish again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I think at this point I do not care that much but still I would like to understand what happened. Why is he ignoring me ? I do not think it is something i did but cannot stop wonder. We had an amazing thing together going on for several months. ...

He wouldn't take 'no' for an answer but now doesn't seem to care!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hi,there's this guy that really loved me and he asked me out, i just liked him as a friend so i had to turn him down, but he wouldnt take no for an answer.he kept asking and asking, and i felt so bad, i had to accept. he always calls, text me all d ...

How do I give him the time and space he needs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - im 21 and my boy is 29. we started talking in august and been together since then. hes amazing has everything a girl wants in a guy, succesful, smart, amazing body and face, caring, generous, its almsot so perfect i can almost guarantee his the ...

This was a big mistake wasn't it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hoe stupid of me was this? My boyfriend has been bugging me for forever about having 2 girls give him head. I finally said no its never gonna happen if you want it so bad go do it with 2 other girls. He took this literally! I mean I love him so much ...

Help! I have a phobia of being bullied!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - hey, i need some advice about my phobia. before i explain, i hope people will take me seriously and give me constructive advice and not tell me to get over myself. my sister abused me phycally and emotionally from when i was born until i was 12ye...

Is she breaking up with me? I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been arguing a lot lately, she is always so snappy and argumentative. ,She says i annoy her all the time, but i really cant see what im doing and if i ask her she will cause a massive argument and threaten to end the ...

Long distance communication problems....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hello..I've been in a LDR with my boyfriend for 8 months now. When we first met, we talked all the time. He'd text me througout the day and would call me every night. He was always saying sweet things and telling me how he felt about me and such. ...

He wants to get married, but I do not and because of this he wants to break up.....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for five long years. Of course we've had our ups and our downs, and iv caught him texting another girl a few times during our second year of being together. I love this boy to death there is no doubt in my mind ...

Does he still love his ex wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I am in a muddle. I am an Australian girl just 25. I have been in a relationship with an older man for four years now, he is 42. I am worried he still loves his ex wife. He gives me every reason to be suspicious. he never talks to her infront of me, ...

My ex is ruining my current relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - my ex is going to end up ruining my current relationship because she fucked with my self esteem my current gf brought up a threesome today and i was all for it but at 1 in the morning i woke up at 1 and was and am freaking out now what if she gets...

Has he always felt disgusted by my past and my son's ethnic origin? Or is it just an excuse to dump me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is a bit older than me, we've been together for about 18months. I have a son from a previous relationship who is 5 years old, he idolizes my bf and I thought the feeling was mutual until just recently. We have been having a lot of ...

I know I have made mistakes, I'm not perfect but neither is he! What can I do to save this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Well im new to this but here it goes im 15 years old.Im in a long distance relationship I've been going out with him for a year and four months now.We meet by a prank call random i know but when we meet we hit it off and fell crazy in love with ...

She wants to write off everything we ever had......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - I met this girl online 8 years ago, we have been friends since then up until now. 2 Years ago we started talking a lot more personally and soon fell into a mutual love. During the last two years me and her have shaped eachother's lives. I do not ...

Am I crazy for feeling uncomfortable about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - My relationship has become a twisted vortex of confusion and I need to get some opinions before I explode. Its gonna be a long one so get ready. October 20th I break up with my girlfriend. We were having problems, quite a few that I was causing my...

Why did he go to a dating agency when we are so happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - i have been wiith my partner 10 months now and 3 weeks ago he went to a dating agency and told me he was curious and wanted to find out if he was ready to settle down and if was me wanted to share life with . we are so happy ...

Cheated but it was protected sex, now I am pregnant but don't know who this father is!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I had protected sex during my ovulation week. I had a lot to drink that night and it was a big mistake. But at least we used a condom and correctly. But i have a boyfriend that i had been trying to have a child with. And we have unprotected sex all ...

Stay or Leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we are very compatible. Recently, for the second time, (his ex fiance who is married) has stayed at his place because her relationship was so bad and she had supposedly no where to go. It was for a few ...

For the guys: advice needed about my ex boyfriend's previous girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5104 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - so first off im 17, so its a highschool relationship, any how here's the situation. My now ex-boyfriend and i were together for roughly 11 months, our brake up was mutual, then we ended wanting to give our relationship another shot, but the problem ...

Are we rushing things? Is that why I still occasionally think about my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5104 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles! This is a stupid situation I got myself into. This is a bit lengthy, so please bear with me. I need to dish all the details to help YOU help ME. Thanks... First off: My boyfriend if fucking amazing. Like literally... he'...

Is my boyfriend a pervert? How do I deal with ex-girlfriend syndrome?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - So there's two major questions in my relationship. Is my boyfriend a pervert? And is he not over his ex girlfriend? Me and my boyfriend have been together now for 7 months and we have a happy relationship so far. Prior to him I've steered ...

About to get married in 4 months, but I feel nothing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I'm very confused at this point. I am 22 and about to marry my boyfriend of 4 years in 4 months, and I feel nothing. I'm not overly excited and even though I love him with all my heart and feel he's my soul mate, I feel like we've lost our spark. I ...

Did my boyfriend cheat on me with his psycho ex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now. From the begining his ex, mother of his two children, has been harrassing me. She's jealous of me and wants him back. She is also jealous that her kids love me. She really went off the deep ...

Am I weird for feeling confused?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - I guy I was dating told me things that a lot of men I have dated have never told me-----he told me that he could see living his life with me, that he was falling in love with me, that he was surprised that no one ever asked me to marry them, etc. ...

Building trust after being cheated on.....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Just wondering if anyone has any advice on dealing with trust issues after being cheated on? Can couples therapy/councilling help, or are the trust issues always there? Also, has anyone had successful relationships after being cheated on (with the ...

I treated her so badly she has finally snapped, will she ever come back?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - Hi Everybody I need some serious help and please don't say things like that's what I get because I already know it's all my fault. I just loss my gf and I'm I think for good this time. I took her for granted and not once was insecure about h...

Why can't I be loyal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I love him so much. He's my best friend and we do everything together. I have an issue though. I seem to get satisfaction out of flirting with other people and leading them on and talking to ...

Brother in law problems....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - Hey all, Iam a happily marrieed woman but I have one problem. The problem is with my brother in law. This started a while back before I got married. I was suppose to meet my BIL at a party in 06 that was arrangged by a family member, but he d...

Why am I the bad guy here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - So I am told things about a guy I was seeing until a week ago..that he beat his ex wife (my friend) and put her in the hospital...so i call him to tell him what I was called and told..and he gets pissed at me..I wasn't spreading the rumor...i wanted ...

How do I comfort my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5103 days ago

8 December 2010 (M) - The girl I love is the world to me. Things arent well between me and my family, and shes all I have. She trusts me enough to tell me anything, but she says she still doesnt trust guys (see my first question). I dont think she sees how much I need ...

Is my husband confused or is it over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

8 December 2010 (F) - right its a long story but i need our help, my husband of nearly 3 years (been together over 7) left me on 6th october, he said he needed to do this! right we lost our first child last a year gone may (6 years of trying), we didnt grieve...